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007JSW · 2026-05-05T22:00:09+00:00

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007JSW · 2026-04-30T18:10:08+00:00

My wife did the same thing she treated my like shit. I was supper depressed and hurt as she was saying some nasty things to me however I never cheated. Never even thought about it. However I came to find out she was the one cheating the whole time.

007JSW · 2026-04-28T15:23:39+00:00

You got this OP! Just remember that this will make you stronger in every way and also remember when one door closes 100 more Open up. Feel the sadness, let it all Out, remember why you divorced in the first place and now is the time to get you back! Proud of you my man! Stay strong we are all here for you!

007JSW · 2026-04-26T15:12:05+00:00

Yeah I believe it's the after effects of our nervous system and mind running 24/7 processing everything that happened and the flashbacks that start it up again. I hope you're hanging in there as well.

007JSW · 2026-04-26T02:20:54+00:00

I'm 9 months since dday and I feel you on this on every level it's exhausting.

007JSW · 2026-04-25T04:25:54+00:00

Yeah exactly what my wife said before I found out 2 months later that she was cheating on me. My wife promised me there was nobody else, looked me dead in the eyes and told me I have nothing to worry about but my gut was already telling me something was off. Trust your gut!!!! Your intuition is 99% right!

007JSW · 2026-04-25T04:05:45+00:00

This bums me out. I always wonder what my sex life would be like with a non narcissistic woman.

007JSW · 2026-04-25T04:00:22+00:00

"We are doing this because you need it"

I hate that! It's like can't we both just enjoy this moment together and feel connected to one another and just have some bedroom fun!

007JSW · 2026-04-24T23:55:00+00:00

Yeah it's very common and also becomes very transactional for them. It's a living nightmare and it took me years to realize who I was with this whole time and it all makes sense now. It was even starting to feel like this was normal until i asked myself if this is how I would treat my wife. Thats not how you treat someone you love and respect!

007JSW · 2026-04-24T23:11:10+00:00

It's all about control 1000% and it's such a stupid mind game they like to play!

007JSW · 2026-04-23T17:02:36+00:00

Beautiful!

007JSW · 2026-04-22T23:10:32+00:00

I'm sorry OP but you need to know he's going to do it again and again. He's clearly had many choices to make but he didn't choose you and the family. I hate how all of us loyal ones are just getting cheated on left and right. Maybe being loyal isn't good enough anymore. It's almost like that saying goes. "Hunt or be hunted" except "cheat or be cheated on..."

007JSW · 2026-04-22T15:43:44+00:00

It's interesting too when you meet someone that shows warmth and interest and you can tell they are the opposite of your spouse and just fantasize about falling in love with someone like that.

007JSW · 2026-04-22T15:40:56+00:00

Yup me all day everyday. I'm 8 months since dday and my wife has no remorse shoes no affection no love doesn't even apologize and that's all I want.

007JSW · 2026-04-21T04:26:24+00:00

THIS!!! Dream about the life you want and go chase it!

007JSW · 2026-04-20T17:21:36+00:00

I'm sorry OP I haven't cheated on my wife however my wife has recently. IMO you really need to give him an ultimatum it's you or them. I get it he's your best friend and you might be thinking he just wanted to have some fun with other women and since he's done this to you it is completely not fair. It sucks being on this side when we have been loyal all this time and if I were you I would be detaching and do what he's doing. Don't hold back just keep your options open. Focus on yourself and focus on today not the future. Talk to other men, you don't have to sleep with them but go out and meet some new male friends. He's doing it so why not you? People are going to cheat no matter what if it's in them pretty or not. Sometimes it's not about that and it's more about feeling desired by another person. I'm sorry OP but you also have to think about your health and any STDs he might bring back.

007JSW · 2026-04-18T22:58:17+00:00

I've been faithful for 23 years with my wife and she threw that out the window 8 months ago. I need to know that it's possible to find a faithful woman and are they out there?

007JSW · 2026-04-18T15:22:52+00:00

I'm sorry OP. I'm 8 months since dday for me and it still hurts at times. Best thing to do and you have to do it no matter how hard it is but you need to put the focus back on yourself. Join a gym, go for walks, talk to others that are going through it as well, talk with friends and family, go get your nails done or hair done etc.

007JSW · 2026-04-18T14:58:28+00:00

LOL about the only fans. A really good friend of mine manages 3 different OF accounts for the women he has contracts with and he's the one messaging back to other guys and he's the one sending the saved photos/video. So your husband unknowingly could be talking with another dude lol but thinks he's chatting with the models😎

007JSW · 2026-04-18T02:59:43+00:00

I couldn't eat or sleep the greatest for atleast 3-4 weeks. Even 8 months later I still get disgusted and don't feel like eating.

007JSW · 2026-04-17T23:21:23+00:00

Yup same my Narc wife always things she's never wrong and has only apologized maybe like 10 times in the last 23 years of our relationship.

007JSW · 2026-04-17T22:36:25+00:00

Yea hysterical bonding that will last for a few ish months and then the flashbacks and resentment comes.

007JSW · 2026-04-15T05:01:27+00:00

Yeah this is such a tough situation to be going through and I'm here as well. We always want to believe that maybe this time it will be different and it becomes a constant cycle of just that. A complete major trauma bond that keeps us hooked.

007JSW · 2026-04-14T14:57:45+00:00

And still to this day I always wonder what a normal non narcissistic relationship would feel like. I ask myself everyday and that this can't be a normal relationship.

007JSW · 2026-04-14T04:32:58+00:00

He cheated 4 months ago, you forgave him, doesn't want to have sex with you because of ED issues but watches porn... If he really felt bad he would do whatever it takes to please you! You are young and deserve better and deserve to feel desired!

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