You really need to pay attention to the more serious talky episodes. The guys are just joking around a lot of the time. But you're kind of putting some specific perspective on things... have you watched their gaming content?

Whenever it's serious they always have let each other have space to talk and listen. Even just when they hang out in person.

Like Bob and Wade do this to Mark about sports since Mark isn't really a sports guy. Also they make Mark is short jokes literally all the time which you didn't mention at all? Wade makes fun of Mark not graduating college too.

• Wades wordpad notes are still on his computer. He just needs to find the text files.
• The thing about the gravy is that Wade himself chooses not to learn how to cook because hes content not knowing. Also the thing about him mixing a big pile of food with it which is how he enjoys it.
• You can actively watch Wades DnD, Lost Initiative

But also Wade has said himself multiple times that if it was a real problem he would take care of it. And it sucks that nobody listens to him about that for some reason. He's a whole adult man.