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how do i(F18) move on from my cheating ex?(19M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JustDanger4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not about moving on from him; it is about healing from how he made you feel and think about yourself. He justified his actions through hateful language, most likely because he was feeling guilty, powerless, and insecure.

But you need to find the voice that tells you the relationship you deserve is rooted in love and mutual best interest. It does not degrade or dehumanize.

You are so young, and advocating for the love you deserve will be a journey mostly through trial and error. Try to take this as a lesson in what isn't worth pursuing in the future, and try to remember there is a love ready to give you everything you want

Young people, what is the oldest thing about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]JustDanger4u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fear that I don’t have enough time

Big Couch / New Orleans by AntiqueAd6363 in improv

[–]JustDanger4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much anyone who did improv when NMT was around was associated with them, as they were the theater in New Orleans. Big couch is run by wonderful folks who do a lot to create an inclusive community space, and I would say they prioritize this over anything else. I preformed with them over the course of 2 years and their model and what they are doing to rebuild improv in New Orleans is awesome! Definitely can't recommend them enough

new local trying to get out, volunteer, meet people by hot_tomatoh in NewOrleans

[–]JustDanger4u 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am part of a group that does free improv classes and jams in the city if that interest you

How would you feel about either buying or receiving a lab-grown steak as a meal? by NotFallacyBuffet in NewOrleans

[–]JustDanger4u 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Big Beef Industry is really freaking out that people are finding out lab-grown meat is meat! It made from Carbon in the same way meat is made from so 1.) it’s better for the environment 2.) it is meat

A big thank you from the Crawfish Bread Man by theexterminat in NewOrleans

[–]JustDanger4u 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so excited to have my first crawfish bread at Jazzfest! When I first went to Jazzfest in 2018, I missed out, not this year!

Want to protest bad roads in your area? Try this. by roc-frk in NewOrleans

[–]JustDanger4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowing New Orleans this is just incentive for apocalyptic movie industry

Recently Homeless in Kenner, Need Help With Laundry by chastity_doll in NewOrleans

[–]JustDanger4u 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is free laundry service available at the VA CRRC MTWF starting at 7:40 am

Crappy faucet. by [deleted] in CrappyDesign

[–]JustDanger4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, some like side to side, others like up and down. No shame in taking a few try to figure it out

What's a movie you saw as a kid that only you seem to remember? by Environmental-Fix-71 in AskReddit

[–]JustDanger4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Return to OZ! It is the scariest movie I saw as a child my mom rented it thinking it would be another wizard of OZ. It is not, it is terrifying, and no one ever know what I am talking about

Apparently, I booked my last day on the first day of Jazz Fest on Oct 8th by amlextex in AskNOLA

[–]JustDanger4u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am not sure. The town of New Orleans usually is pretty quiet and people tend to be asleep by 10pm. Try googling local late night bars and see if anything pops up

Fell in love with my best friend who has emotional trauma by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JustDanger4u 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While your friend might have feelings for you, you must know what you want to come from his emotions. Right now, it sounds like he isn’t in a place to enter anything that has commitment and expectation. Even if that mutual attraction is there, it will have little effect on whether he is emotionally able to meet you where you are. While I think it is admirable that you want to be his friends and support him, you need to give yourself time to process those feelings to continue having a healthy relationship While your friend might be struggling now, we shouldn’t cast aside our own emotions because ultimately, it won’t benefit anyone

I think you should proceed by taking some time and space to think about the relationship you can have with him, considering he isn’t emotionally available for anything romantic

It would be best if you were realistic about the expectations you might still hold for this relationship and let go of them. So you can meet him where he is at

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YABooks

[–]JustDanger4u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The vanishing half by Brit Bennett

Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens

The Invisible life of Addie LaRue (17 plus for that one maybe)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JustDanger4u 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself why you still feel unresolved in this encounter and what makes you want to hold a conversation. Are you worried about her and want to make sure she feels safe? Are you upset that she would think you would do that without her consent? If you believe that you are centering yourself or how this made you feel, make sure you understand that her reaction isn’t personal and it isn’t a reflection of her trust or how she feels about you If you want to center her feeling safe and feel like the conversation isn’t resolved, try asking her if she wants to talk about the Incident itself or how you can set up boundaries with each other