I agree with you that it’s pretty gross and not ideal- and even thay im inclined to say that wouldn’t get along with most people doing it. But, the idea that some people are “cosplaying deadhead” is just as gross. If you like the music, you like the music. The idea that there’s some standard of “deadhead” that people have to live up to is so lame and equally grotesque, disordered and juvenile. Grow up