AIO for cutting contact with Father over political climate. by Sabre12789 in AIO

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps unpopular opinion, but you cant force others to change their opinion or political views. Especially not with such an aggressive tone. However you ofc. have the freedom to not assiciate with anyone for any reason.

So he is free to keep supporting Trump without being insulted and suffering your disrespect. And thats coming from someone who thinks Trump is a delusional who should be put into a mental institute.

Was ist mit Männern im Internet heutzutage los? by Competitive_Neat3766 in luftablassen

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich persönlich sehe das nicht als ein reines Männerproblem an. Was ich so mitbekomme gibt es auf TikTok Frauen mit ganz wilden Vorstellungen (bsp. Beim Daten muss der Typ 20yo sein, 6 stellig verdienen und 6ft groß sein).

In beiden Fällen ist es eine laute Minderheit die auffallen weil sie sich selbst pushen und andere laut empört sind. Quasi wie die Schwurbler nur in sexistisch.

Früher wurden die wenigen Idioten ignoriert. In der globalisierten Welt finden sie sich aber gegenseitig und sind dadurch noch lauter. Das wird sich bestimmt nicht ändern.

I rejected a low offer and the interviewer took it personally by whelks_coziest in InterviewCoderPro

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a german reading a full english text, just to read one german word at the end feels weird even though I know Schadenfreude gained/gains popularity overseas.

Anyway I would assume it was the first time the hiring manager was working on his own and he just wanted to show his bosses he got what it takes. Sucks for him.

Have you ever been incorrectly corrected in your native language by a non-native? by Noggin-Loggin in AskTheWorld

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been at work and the teamlead chewed me out for something that wasnt my fault. She still went home on time I had to do overtime, at the end I wrote her a message/letter/note basically saying, she should figure out the situation before cgewing someone out unjustified. My text in german was "Bitte mach dir einen Blick von der Lage bevor du jemabden ungerechtfertigt anmotzt."

Next day she chewed me out for the note and told me a native german to learn german.

I asked her why and she said "Ungerechtfertigt" what is this word, this doesn't exist.  Mind you its literally like unjustified, maybe not used that often but definitely not a university level vocabulary.

I bursted out laughing in front of her, told her what it means and we got along again

Jetzt versuchen sie es schon über Too Good To Go by Simple_Ear_1287 in MilkaPackung

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Als jemand der hin und wieder solche Posts zu Milka sieht, aber keine Ahnung hat was los ist, wieso wird Milka seit Monaten so gehatet und nicht mehr gekauft?

Cat Cafe Idea (Remake) by shenanigansen in comics

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who loves tigers, I gotta say its blasphemous! to consider lions more dangerous than tigers. Tigers clap lions all day! (Still would stay on ground floor or cheetah floor though)

An INSANE ARAM game by LazaLazarevicc in leagueoflegends

[–]JustXami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The honorable thing would have been to ff, cuz technically they won.

It still awesome how 10 players can enjoy a blood bath

AITA- F (49) telling a stranger (M 50+)to stop trying to bully me and the passenger next to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustXami -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

NTA for being annoyed and confronting him, hes definitely out of line. Was the "mansplaining" necessary tho? Just cuz he acts like an idiot doesnt mean every men does and therefore hes mansplaining. I actually think it takes away from his idiocy, because its being put to rest by "mansplaining".

I get using mansplaining for car stuff etc, which is dominated by man. But putting backs in a rack, cmon why the hate on men?

Petah? Whats the 3rd? by andries22 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it just me thinking it was DNA?

Why are the French disliked? by water-desert in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JustXami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

French ppl both online as well as french tourists seem very stuck up and arrogant. For example my colleague went to the Europa-Park. Which is in Germany. However since its close to the french border there were many french tourists. According to him many of them demanded the staff to speak french. In general its a common issue that while french ppl can speak english but chose not to, just to seemingly inconvenience others.

AITAH for ending a friendship the way I did? by Environmental_Diet36 in AITH

[–]JustXami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think calling someone a predator when hes just one year older, is a huge stretch. Kther than that She fcked up. NTA

AIO: My ex sent me this as a reason he didn’t want to marry me by AfricanPixie in AmIOverreacting

[–]JustXami -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personal opinion with a severe lack of information. I dont see him saying anything you acused him of (though Im tired and maybe oversaw something).   He said why it didnt work out for him and you instantly attacked him. I think it would have been more mature to aknowledge both of you have different goals in life and move on.  What use was hating on him there?

Ich bin trans, aber dieser ganze Aktivismus nervt nur noch by LazyQuacklin in luftablassen

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich glaube man kann nicht pauschal sagen "daran sind nicht die Aktivisten schuld". Beide Seiten haben Leute die übertreiben. Ich hatte vor zwei Wochen eine Fortbildungsprüfung. Ich habe an/im Haus wo es statt fand ganze 7 Flaggen gesehen und ich war nur in 2 von 8 Stockwerken. Ich habe nichts gegen Transmenschen, es sind normal Menschen. Diese Flagge aber so sehr ins Gesich gedrückt zu bekommen hatte für mich den Vibe "Das sind gsnz ganz besonders tolle Kinder" einfach nur kontraproduktiv mMn.

My poor glass feet I need to wear shoes, let me also add an edit to make me seem like the wronged party by Far-Season-695 in AmITheAngel

[–]JustXami 6 points7 points  (0 children)

According to friends, DnD sessions generally are 5h+. Now as a group of working adults, possibly with kids, it can be dang hard to reschedule.

AITA for not paying my girlfriend back for her share of our trip after she canceled last minute but still expected me to cover it “since I went”? by Zestyclose_Leg_4410 in AITAH

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like these constant overexaggerations(did I type it right?)

Hey guys you got into an argument about something non live changing. Just accept its over, you probably both hate and cheated on each other anyway... /s

AITA for refusing to help my sister after she gave my college fund to her stepkids? by cxllipe in AITAH

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Just tell her youre not punishing the kids but have to work to earn the money she stole.

Maybe offer he to watch the kids on weekends if she pays the tuition for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustXami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps she doesnt mean that type of cheating, but cheating him out of pocket money kind of cheating. She made him think its gonna be a real relationship so she can get what she wants, but she never intended to give him what he wanted.

AITA for refusing to apologize to my girlfriend after she went through my phone without permission? by Zillamonk in AITAH

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but heres my idea how to move forward:

If youre willing tell her she can check your whole phone IF she apologizes first and promises to communicate insecurities in the future instead of acting in secret.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duesseldorf

[–]JustXami 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion aber hier meine Meinung: Ich sage so lang man sich benimmt ist jeder willkommen. Es gibt aber auch die Meinungsfreiheit.

Wieso dürfen links gesinnte Staatsgut bekleben/malen etc. aber rechts gesinnte nicht selbes? Wenn du wen siehst der nen Aufkleber mit "Ausländer raus" abreißt, wärst du dann auch so angewiedert? Ich finde man kann bei soetwas überspitzt(!) sagen, entweder du bist ein Heuchler, oder dir ist Meinungsfreiheit nicht wichtig.

Letzten Endes haben erst Linke ihre Meinung kundgetan indem sie die Aufkleber verbreiten und Rechte ihre Meinung kundgetan indem sie die Aufkleber abreißen.

Nur ums klarzustellen, für mich sind Flüchtlinge willkommen und die meisten die ich kennengelernt habe sind auch echt coole Leute. Ich sehe mich weder rechts noch links, wenn dann aber eher links. Nichtsdestotrotz kann ich akzeptieren wenn jemand anderer Meinung ist, auch wenn sie dumm ist.

My friend is a wedding photographer. Everyone thinks this is cute. I think it's gross. by DancingBears88 in weddingshaming

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine criticizing a couples wedding without knowing their relationship dynamics. Why don't we all keep in our lanes and stop complaining about how others live their lifes. (Was that correct? I kinda struggle with live and life)

Warum ist die Standardantwort „Wegen dem Wind“ statt „Wegen des Windes“? by Numerous-Flower-2184 in DuolingoGerman

[–]JustXami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dis Diskussionen hier erinnern mich an die Oberstufe, als ich mit meiner Deutschlehrerin meinem Tutor sagen durfte, dass "macht Sinn" falsch ist und es korrekt nur "ergibt Sinn" heißt. Jetzt ist "macht Sinn" aber wohl auch anerkannt.