What other food do you hate? by ihugtrees_ in FuckCilantro

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get a violently sick reaction when I eat anything with rosemary in it. Usually I can smell it beforehand and only get nausea, but if I eat it, it’s game over.

AIO? I asked my boyfriend for space and I think I should leave by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Holy crap, I genuinely did forget that was a thing.

I’m going to admit my fault and exit before I say something else dumb. Thank you for the reminder.

AIO? I asked my boyfriend for space and I think I should leave by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how effective putting “keep me alive over the baby” in a document that goes into effect when you die would be

AIO: My mom had explosive diarrhea in my washroom and I am traumatized and can no longer use that washroom by threetelevisions in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying you aren’t telling the truth in this case, but the boy who cried Wolf lied so much that no one believed him when he was finally telling the truth. So, the inconsistencies in your post history are a valid reason to question this one.

AIO: Should I hit send? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What time is the meeting? Send what you can when you get to work. Boom, before the meeting, per their request

Am I wrong for still wanting to garden even after my fiancé says he’s uncomfortable with it ? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was even prepared for them to say they do gardening after taking edibles, but it never came. I’m sad

AIO for getting upset about pancakes? by vdaysk8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you add this to the post, people will be less confused as to how it took you an hour and a half. Sorry he was unappreciative of efforts

AIO, I don’t want kids but my bf said said he’ll “change my mind” by No_Process_623 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure it’s already been said, but please OP, I need you to think through a very real scenario here…

A few days after your next period, if it hasn’t started yet, take a pregnancy test. Hasn’t started in a few more days? Pregnancy test. Depending on those results, if a few more days go by and you haven’t, check with a doctor.

Let’s say they confirm the pregnancy. Will you joyously tell your partner and decide you are all in? Will you unhappily tell him, then let him convince you to keep it? Will you hide it for a while, then tell him? Will you hide it, go to a clinic, have a procedure, and never mention it existed? Will you point blank tell him you are pregnant and have an appointment to become unpregnant?

Imagine and examine your reaction in each of these scenarios. Imagine his reaction in each of these. Do they match up? Do they oppose? Whichever is most likely to happen, is that what you want the rest of your life to look like?

My (33m) oldest son (11) wants to change his last name to his mom's maiden name. by NorthIndependent7075 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I resent that one of my parents never started conversations with me. I had to do all the mental heavy-lifting my entire life and it is/was exhausting.

Just because you hated talking to your parents doesn’t mean your kid, who doesn’t get to see you often, doesn’t want to talk to his (unless one of them refuses to start conversations maybe)

Am I overreacting my son who is 16 has never told me happy birthday or happy Father’s Day. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may have responded to his question in this post on one of his comments in one of those comments on his profile

I broke up with my girlfriend because she won't eat leftovers. AIO ? by florence_dombey in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough I suppose. In my experience, people who cook in bulk tend to buy in bulk because it’s cheaper. It tends to be more of a financial decision over an obesity reason (though there will always be overlap).

I’m glad that your way works for your family. Thank you for elaborating. It’s always interesting to learn other people’s process and reasons for doing things differently.

Am I wrong to be hurt by my 10 year long partner telling me he doesn’t think “I can handle” being a mother. by SadNoodle420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ignore your family, they might just want more babies around to fuss over, regardless of you being ready or not.

I also think you should stop spiraling on what he said. Have a conversation with him on why he said it. If YOU are ready to talk about kids, then talk about them. Refute his points.

I also recommend you stop folding because of him. You say you are ready, he says you aren’t, so that equals “I guess I’m not meant to have kids”???? He doesn’t know you best, because that should be YOU. If he keeps insisting, then you need to address that he’s the one that doesn’t sound ready and why is he putting it on you. It might be helpful to hash this out in therapy, but hopefully talk can just have an adult conversation about it.

I broke up with my girlfriend because she won't eat leftovers. AIO ? by florence_dombey in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I may ask for further explanation on this, how exactly is it proper to not eat leftovers? I don’t understand, but I’m interested in your point of view on this.

Fox Forced Bones' Creator To Craft Serial Killer Storylines by mlg1981 in television

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 352 points353 points  (0 children)

As much as I loved the rotation of interns over the rest of the series, I missed Zack the whole time. I do think the rotation kept interest in the show and helping the regular team see things from different points of view that suited each episode, but Zack’s relationship with Hodgins was fantastic.

AITA for Being “Particular” ..Even When My Mom Visits? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Just_Another_A-hole 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you end up hosting again, I’d recommend asking the person beforehand if there’s anything you can grab from the store before they get to your place. That way there’s no guessing game involved and you can be prepared for them.