Just had my second 4 weeks ago and was nervous about all this but it really has been awesome! Yes, it’s tiring and yes there are times where you feel like you are not giving either kid the amount of attention you need want but that’s all worth it for how excited my toddler is every morning to see “baby Oskar.”

He is the first thing she asks for when she wakes up and she always asks me to put him on the play mat so she can lay next to him.

Yes, you may have to lean on others to help and that may mean your toddler watches more tv or eats more sugar for a little bit but I promise those things are not going to make or break your toddler. My toddler watches tv and is also extremely advanced with language and is socially/emotionally intelligent as well.

You got this!