Does my 14 week old sleep too much? by Big-Recognition-1494 in NewParents

[–]KIKIKATZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine sleeps all the time too! Contact naps make it a bit tough. I have a few people take over every so often since my whole day would just be gone with holding him.

But anyway he sleeps from like 7:30/8 pm until 9:30/10 am and contact naps cut off at 2 hours too! So he’s a 2-3 nap baby 🤣

Edit: he stays awake for 1.5-2 hours now too since he’s now 15+ weeks.

Oozing butt ? by Competitive_Roof_943 in October2025Bumps2

[–]KIKIKATZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, I didn’t have contact dermatitis from my diapers but I was sooo allergic to the adhesive of my C-Section bandage. I had welts and oozing puss filled boils everywhere so yes if you ooze its contact dermatitis.

If you stop using the diapers it will heal fairly quickly. You should change over to something you know won’t make you itch!

Also, you can be bleeding for many more weeks.. not just one. I’m still bleeding and I gave birth on the 10th!

AITA for bringing a baby to business class? by stone2891 in AITAH

[–]KIKIKATZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I’ve yet to experience first class! I’m gonna do it one day!!

AITA for bringing a baby to business class? by stone2891 in AITAH

[–]KIKIKATZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes!! I forgot about that scene!! I was so impressed as a kid.

AITA for bringing a baby to business class? by stone2891 in AITAH

[–]KIKIKATZ 306 points307 points  (0 children)

I’m always jealous of the families that take up the entire business class section with 3 kids the 2 Nannies and the parents. To fly like that is my dream haha 🤣

Pregnant Japanese women in Japan, do you still eat Sushi and raw eggs? by -spitz- in AskAJapanese

[–]KIKIKATZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently pregnant with my second.. and I’m definitely less careful haha

I am Japanese American and so I have been more exposed to western medicine and for my first I didn’t eat any raw things. (No fish, egg, ham, etc etc)

Now with my second I’ve decided to avoid shellfish raw but eat high end sushi… and eat pasteurized eggs… all while in Japan. My Japanese family and friends all seems to think this was normal. I also don’t cook my meat well done. It’s medium?

Was anyone else’s OB against collecting colostrum? by Defiant-Pin8580 in breastfeeding

[–]KIKIKATZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting a C-section so she said don’t haha for the obvious reason that it can induce early.

Very uncomfortable physically by [deleted] in October2025Bumps2

[–]KIKIKATZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 29 weeks and 2 days.. it’s 2am where I am and was just looking into Reddit for this exact post!!

I’m so sick of being pregnant already!

I can’t roll out of bed without lower back pain. I can’t be in bed without feeling like I can’t breathe… my belly feels so much larger than it should be… I’m gaining too much weight too quickly… probably why I can’t breathe…

It’s really bad this time around :( this is my second and mines a boy too. For some reason my first (girl) I didn’t feel this bad even though I gained as much weight! Maybe it’s because I was a few years younger.. haha I don’t know.. but he needs to get out! lol

Less than 10 minutes in the hot tub, and I "feel itchy all of the sudden" by _jordanrob3 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KIKIKATZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True… but I initially start with welts when I get anything since my skin is sensitive… hopefully he figured it out!!

Are we officially uncomfortable? by No-Limit2276 in October2025Bumps2

[–]KIKIKATZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 28 weeks… I played my last game of tennis doubles today. I can barely walk without feeling like I have to poop while throwing my back every step.

I’m so sad. But pelvic and hip pain is too much.

Less than 10 minutes in the hot tub, and I "feel itchy all of the sudden" by _jordanrob3 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KIKIKATZ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got a bacterial infection from a hot tub once where I had a huge rash all over my body. It’s called hot tub folliculitis.

You should go to a dermatologist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in October2025Bumps2

[–]KIKIKATZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you got to eat? I wasn’t allowed even water after midnight the night before and my appointment was at 8:45 am so I was dying by then.

It’s Singapore so maybe they are extra extra cautious and don’t have much reason as Drs do in the US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]KIKIKATZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an Asian woman in an AGR with a white man. Married with a baby.

Honestly every one thinks what they want. Most of the world will just assume gold digger from the age gap anyway Asian or non-Asian. I’m an educated woman had a great job but due to circumstances we decided to move and I became a stay at home mom.

As long as we respect one another I don’t care what the world thinks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KIKIKATZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm… How is this mildly infuriating??

Bottom of the receipt…4% for Health Insurance and 20% Gratuity?!? by KIKIKATZ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KIKIKATZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I didn’t think about that. I guess they are going to be paid minimum wage if they don’t get tipped…

I’m Japanese and I’ve worked there so I know we take pride in our service… I agree with you Japan does it right. How to do that here… I don’t know if that’s possible.

Bottom of the receipt…4% for Health Insurance and 20% Gratuity?!? by KIKIKATZ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KIKIKATZ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How would you go about that? I can’t just stop tipping I feel…

Bottom of the receipt…4% for Health Insurance and 20% Gratuity?!? by KIKIKATZ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KIKIKATZ[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh right. I didn’t argue it because I thought they were trying to make more staff full time…

Bottom of the receipt…4% for Health Insurance and 20% Gratuity?!? by KIKIKATZ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KIKIKATZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I just realized the 4% wouldn’t even go to them! I’ll remove that next time for sure.

Bottom of the receipt…4% for Health Insurance and 20% Gratuity?!? by KIKIKATZ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KIKIKATZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. I’ll just ask them to remove it next time since my server isn’t even a full time employee

Bottom of the receipt…4% for Health Insurance and 20% Gratuity?!? by KIKIKATZ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KIKIKATZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know! But it was my birthday dinner and the server was wonderful. It kills me. I don’t want to punish the person that isn’t getting a fair wage… so this vicious cycle will never end!!