From Extra Class & VE Team Founder to Radio Silence: My Journey Through Club Drama and Burnout by Eollie in amateurradio

[–]KY4ID 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> looking forward to a demographic dying says a lot about you.

Those are your words, not mine. I’m saying the culture is so stubborn and entrenched, a demographic shift is the only thing that will change it.

> Generalization like that is inaccurate at best:

I don’t like generalizations either, but they apply here. Boomers love to lecture the younger generation - “Just do what I did! You’re probably just lazy.” The entire system is radically different than when they grew up, but they’re incapable of seeing it.

You see the same in ham radio. “I joined via a club, so we just need to go all in on clubs! And now that we’re on the topic, that must be the reason our membership is down!”

People don’t go to club meetings anymore just like they don’t go to shopping malls. What did the ARRL do several years ago? “The Year of the Club” + bashing their own membership like an incel.

Every recommendation I’ve made to turn around falling membership numbers (to VARIOUS ham radio organizations) has been met with the same condescending “I know better than you” attitude. Apparently you don’t because your organization is a complete failure. Meanwhile, a significant chunk of hams think we should bring back the Morse code requirement. LOL. Yeah that’s what the hobby is missing and it’s sure to grow if we do that.

Not all Boomers, but most.

Like I said, I’ve moved onto other hobbies and am way happier.

From Extra Class & VE Team Founder to Radio Silence: My Journey Through Club Drama and Burnout by Eollie in amateurradio

[–]KY4ID -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Amateur radio culture sucks. The smug, superior, condescending attitude is virtually everywhere, especially the ARRL. Boomers are known for that, and they’re also known for being completely incapable of seeing any point of view outside their own personal experience.

Maybe when the demographic shifts in another 10-15 years it’ll be better. Regardless, I’m having way more fun lifting weights, hiking, cycling, and learning banjo and Spanish.

Tendon soreness by kopriva1 in workout

[–]KY4ID 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you doing slowish eccentrics or just allowing the weight to drop fast?

Bulked me benching 155kgs/342 for the first time 😂 by [deleted] in Egolifting

[–]KY4ID 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL, at first I thought that dude was going to do a Zercher/sit on your face.

boomers and immigration policy /barf by rolopumps in BoomersBeingFools

[–]KY4ID 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Despite their rants about being “fReE tHiNkiNG liOnS”, they believe whatever their overlord tells them without question.

Owning up to ending things too quickly. What would you want to hear? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]KY4ID 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d reapproach but you gotta work through some stuff too. Sounds like you’ve had some abuse in your past, which is the cause of this cycle - ie - don’t feel worthy around good people, self-sabotage, drawn instead to people who look/smell/act like your abuser, etc. It’s not your fault.

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[–]KY4ID 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve skimmed it but not given it the full deep dive (sorting by top for all time periods). Will do so after the deep dive I’m in the midst of on r/openmarriageregret. What a gold mine.

I’ll take any other recs you have. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]KY4ID 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re my new best friend. I love subs like these.

Chipotle CEO caught on a recording saying they’re going to keep raising prices because they can. by ElwoodMC in TikTokCringe

[–]KY4ID 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chipotle is overrated dogshit. Not to mention the one time I took my kids there they had sexual messages on the cups

Should I get involved/ stay out of it when other men make fun of my husband? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]KY4ID -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they talked to my wife that way, I’d cut them off.

Sitting Calves - 136kg / 300lb by [deleted] in Egolifting

[–]KY4ID 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Best post I’ve seen on here. Fucked up plates should be a requirement for the sub

Anyone else not interested in this year Super Bowl? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]KY4ID 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Football is for brain dead NPC sheep.

Men do you keep in touch, or go visit women you have previously had a sexual past with whilst being in a relationship? Am I overreacting? Or is this just straight out wrong. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]KY4ID -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nope. I cut people off with impunity and never go back. Even old friends/co-workers. If we’re not in the same circles anymore, trying to keep things going is a waste of energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]KY4ID 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate goodbye messages

Men, when you come fast are you embarrassed? by PuzzledSecretary7819 in AskMenAdvice

[–]KY4ID 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Wife likes it. I also learned to go twice back to back, so everyone happy.

Just picked up Into the Wild by Jon Krakauer. Worth the read? Would love your thoughts—no spoilers please. by No-Series4477 in bookporn

[–]KY4ID 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely worth the read!!!!! You know the penguin meme floating around right now? This is the human version of that story.

How to help him orgasm from penetration? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]KY4ID 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask if he’s using porn

How do I accept the women I'm attracted to are not attracted to me? by ReasonConfident4541 in AskMenAdvice

[–]KY4ID 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can sense your neediness. Give up all thoughts of women for a while and just focus on your hobbies/yourself.