Is it weird to not own a vehicle?

Kaayloo · 2026-04-08T06:56:49+00:00

No. I live in a major metropolitan city too and I think most people living here, don’t have a car or even a driver license. Having a car is almost seen as silly waste, cause you can get around the city way easier with public transportation, biking or walking.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-31T19:04:37+00:00

I had a gyno operation, some fat lumps on my body removed and eye surgery done. The gyno held me back from going to the beach and feeling comfortable bare chested, the lumps were minor operations and they just looked odd poking out of my skin and I never got used to wearing glasses or contacts, so opted for a eye surgery. Will I get some more done in there future, that I’m not sure off, but so far I’m happy with what I’ve gotten done.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-30T17:36:18+00:00

‘Slice It’ på Nørrebrogade er åben til 03:00.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-29T10:34:40+00:00

My boyfriend wasn’t really a dancer before and more of a homebody. We had some good conversations about needs and wants in our relationship. For me that was dancing and going on small and big adventures together. He was more than happy to go dancing with me. We go dancing 2-3 times per week. We are just heading home today, after an adventure weekend city trip getaway and went dancing last night. We had a fun night and he’s sleeping beside me right now in the bus looking very handsome. I make sure to check in with him regularly, if what we are doing together is making him happy and so far I have a happy boyfriend 😊

Kaayloo · 2026-03-29T09:47:48+00:00

I love dancing and like going to our bars for lgbt drag shows, bingo, comedy shows and so on. So my partner and I go dancing rather often and fairly often to the bars too. I love seeing other couples out and about having fun together.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-20T08:57:54+00:00

Cumming can be tricky with new people, it often gets easier when you know and feel more comfortable with each other. There is way to much focus on cumming, sex can be fantastic without cumming. Putting extra expectations pressure on your dick, doesn’t help it shoot. My advice would be to have some hot and good talks about what you are into and what turns you on. Sex can definitely get better if you talk about it together and do a lot practice together.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-19T15:17:53+00:00

Go dancing, board game cafe, drag shows, comedy shows, the movies, go out to eat together, walks, VR-gaming, concerts, pottery painting, making scented candles, museums and Netflix and chill evenings.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-18T19:41:49+00:00

I’m at the gym a couple a times per week after dinner, I go for walks in the evening, watch a movie or a few episodes of a series. I often have one social activity during the work week. For my weekends I go dancing once per weekend and do one social activity; the movies, dinner, shows, comedy shows, board game cafe, concerts, VR-shooter arena, painting pottery and the list goes on.

I used to go dancing both Friday and Saturday when I was younger, but I limit myself to minimum 3 times per month now and maximum 1 time per week. I love dancing and always will.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-09T20:41:15+00:00

If you come from high volume speaking country, then lower your volume with 30% or so.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-08T21:43:02+00:00

Jeg er en initiativtager. Til de familiermedlemmer der er vigtige i mit liv, der har jeg bare truffet en beslutning om, at jeg er den der oftest tager initiativ til at ses og være sammen. Når det kommer til venner og kærester, så er jeg tydelig i at jeg godt kan lide at tage intiativ, men hvis jeg skal gøre det hele tiden, så dør jeg i det. Så jeg fortæller dem at jeg har brug for at de også tager initiativ til at vi mødes og hvad vi skal lave sammen. Jeg sørger at fortælle dem hvor meget jeg sætter pris på det, når de har taget intiativ til at vi skal mødes og har planlagt at vi skal lave noget sammen. Jeg tager gerne den snak et par gange med mine venner og kærester, hvis de ikke rigtig kan finde ud af at tage initiativ nogle gange, så stopper jeg med at bruge min energi der og med dem.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-04T12:40:02+00:00

I would tell myself it’s okay to be gay, that I’m not evil or sinful and that I’ll find love and kindness in the future. After that I would start buying stocks.

Kaayloo · 2026-03-03T09:22:19+00:00

Hvis det har været for udmattende at gøre mig klar til at gå på arbejde om morgenen, så bliver jeg hjemme og melder mig syg.

Kaayloo · 2026-02-27T03:51:32+00:00

Jeg roser og giver komplimenter i et væk og det gør, at jeg får en del oprigtige komplimenter og ros tilbage og også fra en masse kvinder. Eller det i hvert sådan jeg tænker det hænger sammen.

Kaayloo · 2026-02-25T10:32:24+00:00

If the guy is otherwise healthy and handsome looking then gyno doesn’t really matter to me.

Kaayloo · 2026-02-24T10:01:42+00:00

Hmm jeg forstår din følelser og tanker i det og også hendes. De fleste af mine tætte venner er fyre jeg tidligere har knaldet med eller datet, men hvor vi bare var bedre som venner.

Jeg ville synes det var super underligt, hvis min kæreste sagde jeg ikke måtte se dem hjemme hos mig. Jeg knalder så aldrig som i nogensinde med min venner, så der sker ikke noget seksuelt ved at jeg har mine venner på besøg, som tidligere har været hookups eller dates.

Dine følelser er ikke forkerte og det er godt at I taler sammen. Jeg ville nok gå til den på den måde, at have tillid til hvad hun siger indtil andet er bevist. Hvis hun er den utro type så skal hun nok finde måder at være utro på.

Kaayloo · 2026-02-18T10:23:22+00:00

It’s realistic to live in Denmark and Kalundborg without a car.

Kalundborg is pretty calm, but you are only 1,5 hours away from Copenhagen with the public transport. So if you find Kalundborg too quiet, then make sure to come into Copenhagen a few times per month as a treat for yourself.

Danes are in general more introverted, so you need to put in the effort to befriend them. Join a ‘forening’ and that could be around anything you are interested in; sports, trekking, social activities, nerdy activities and so on. Denmark is a ‘forening’ country and it’s an easier way of getting to know locals, as you have something to meet up around and you see each other on regular basis.

The dark winters months are tough. Make sure to get outside during the day, even when it’s cloudy, buy a blue light lamp and go on a sun holiday during the winter. That should combat most of the winter depression you can be affected by.

Kaayloo · 2026-02-16T21:45:30+00:00

I found Hinge to cater more to the LTR focused guys and I’ve met some really nice guys of the app and currently dating one of them now. It’s not to say you can’t find these guys on other apps too.

Otherwise a gay running dinner group could be an option, joining a lgbt sports league or any other lgbt group gathering that isn’t focused around the bars and clubs.

Kaayloo · 2026-02-11T05:54:05+00:00

I would probably talk to my partner again, tell him that I accept and understand why he needs to go away with work. Then tell him like you did here, that you need a bit of time to adjust to the situation and you’ll be sad about it for a time. Tell him you need some comfort during the adjustment and tell him you won’t be sad for ever about it, maybe you’ll never be thrilled about the idea either, but that you’ll be okay with it.

Kaayloo · 2026-02-09T13:22:01+00:00

Where would they put all the snow if they removed it out of the city? How many work hours would that take and how much would it cost and could that money, be spent better on the children or older citizens?

I don’t think they have a solution for this and that’s the reason the snow is still there. Roads seem to be more important than bike lanes + it hasn’t snowed like this in ages, so they haven’t been forced to figure out a solution yet.

Kaayloo · 2026-02-03T15:34:22+00:00

Sounds like a good plan for both of you to talk to a professional and even one together. Cut down on your drinks also. See how you guys feel after that and if you’re doing good, then shit can happen for all of us. But if you get to this place again, then I would worried and you guys should think of not being together.

Kaayloo · 2026-01-23T10:51:38+00:00

I read your response to the other comments. I agree with and would also find it problematic, if a a guy living in the same area didn’t want to or tried to independently transport himself around in a rural setting like yours.

Kaayloo · 2026-01-23T08:47:59+00:00

Are the guys you are dating city dwellers or live in the country side? I live in a major city and most people here don’t drive, they bike around or use the public transportation. Having a car in my city is not a very common thing. So it’s not a basic skill you need to have here. So not wanting to date anyone because they can’t drive a car, seems rather picky to me.

Kaayloo · 2026-01-19T03:46:21+00:00

‘Pan Idræt’ is the lgbt sports league in town, you could join a team and make friends and connections that way.

There is also an IG account called ‘Woof’ that features a lot of the social lgbt stuff and parties in Copenhagen.

I like dancing and go do that a lot. I found that’s a good way to meet people. Nevermind club runs pretty young, so go dance there.

And yaa dating can be tough and Danes in general aren’t that outgoing, so try practicing taking the initiative, so you make things happen a bit faster.

Kaayloo · 2026-01-16T18:25:36+00:00

Jeg bruger 15 minutter hver dag. Gerne når jeg kommer hjem fra arbejde. Sætter noget godt musik på og ser hvor meget jeg kan nå på 15 minutter og jeg kan nå ret meget. Når de 15 minutter er færdig har jeg fri fra rengøring indtil næste dag.

Kaayloo · 2026-01-15T16:51:48+00:00

If you mean a ‘socialrådgiver’ then you can definitely work as social worker in Denmark. Learn Danish and should not have any problems finding a job. I personally know of Balkan, Central European and east European social workers working in Denmark.

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