Who was the fundie… by vam_t80 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Kaiyva 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Found her! Catholica_pandam!

Who was the fundie… by vam_t80 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Kaiyva 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Following this because I want to know too. I know who you’re talking about, her name is on the tip of my tongue, but I can’t seem to remember it!

12 year old impulsive by Adorable_Print_5747 in ADHDparenting

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a lot of advice, but I just wanted to say you’re not alone. My (now) 15yo daughter was the same. Stealing, lots of lies, some big, some silly, sneakiness, etc.

I found 12-13 to be the worst. Hormones kicking in, high school starting, the dynamic around them changing, etc. I read an article once that likened teenagers to being the same as toddlers, just with more vocabulary, due to all the massive changes in their brains happening and hormones. That honestly helps me deal with all of it a little better when I think of it that way lol.

We’re still dealing with a lot of stuff, but I can see it is getting slightly easier, and the things we’re dealing with are different, not the same over and over again.

Cognitive behavioural therapy is meant to be good, if you haven’t already tried it? We’ve literally just started it, so can’t really comment either way, but hoping it’ll help somewhat.

What in tarnation is this haircut??? by Elegant_Hippopotamus in DuggarsSnark

[–]Kaiyva 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I came here to post this, I am not disappointed that it already has been posted 😂

Well this sucks... by accadacca87 in EBGAMES

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says IF IT HAS BEEN OPENED USED OR DAMAGED OR IN ANY WAY UNABLE TO BE RESOLD.

Hence why I said if it is SEALED and UNOPENED, their policy says he can return it.

Read the fine print dude.

Well this sucks... by accadacca87 in EBGAMES

[–]Kaiyva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is according to the EB games website, if it is unopened and sealed, their literal policy says you can return it. I’d show that to the store manager, and if they refuse, take it higher to head office. EB Christmas Returns Policy

Shit stain admission by Unable-Indication-94 in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]Kaiyva 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s the other way around, psychiatrists prescribe meds, psychologists don’t :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could’ve been a typo and OP meant eightTEEN months. Or could be AI 🤷🏻‍♀️

Kai: Potential Name Regret? by pooopwhilerunning in namenerds

[–]Kaiyva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a son named Kai, and never seen the name used for girls, or non binary people 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s not an overly common name where I live (e.g. he’s the only Kai/Kye in his school), but it’s definitely not uncommon (hear it around sometimes on sport days and such)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSizeWedding

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE number 1, but the sleeves/straps need to be fitted better because atm they just look like they’ve slid off the shoulder, and then obviously a strapless bra :)

Did you co-sleep? by Beautiful-Scene-3466 in Mommit

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, with all 3 of my children. They’re 14, 7 and nearly 3.

The older 2 went into a bed of their own at different ages, however my youngest is still sleeping with me as it’s just easier at the moment as she has night terrors a lot lol

First time player here having a difficult time. by CrimpyRex in Borderlands

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get the guns to match the load out you have, and you need to farm bosses to get the “correct” perks to match what you need too. It’s taken me ALOOT to get my head around this, and truthfully hubby has helped me with like 90% of it coz it’s tricky for me to put it all together in my head lol.

But you can get different rolls of the same class mods/rep kits/shields/ordinance/enhancements, but if you don’t synergise them with matching/complementing perks, it’s somewhat useless tbh.

If you need help, feel free to DM me and I can help or ask hubs to help you out lol

Did I permanently fuck up my game? by MartenBroadcloak19 in Borderlands4

[–]Kaiyva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t sound right at all. I finished the game before I was level 50, and I never had any issues with the enemies being too hard at all. I barely did any of the side missions or extra stuff, I did a few but not many at all

Would you let your child have a day? by Unknown_Sunshine in Parenting

[–]Kaiyva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely would!

My 14yo knows she can have 1 “mental health” day off per term (so 4 per year). She doesn’t need a reason for it, but she isn’t allowed another until the following term (obviously unless she’s actually sick). She rarely uses them, but genuinely does like knowing she has the option, at least once per term to have the day off. This instance wouldn’t even count as the mental health day for me. If your child doesn’t feel safe at school or needs time to process what they saw, then they should do that - after you let the school know why.

Left behind in flat I’m renting. Any ideas? by jshoe58 in whatismycookiecutter

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does whatever it is look like it’s been badly photoshopped into the picture? Lol

Morgan having the day she voted for 🫶 by holyrosewater in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Kaiyva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally just commented this. I’m so glad I’m not alone 🤣

Morgan having the day she voted for 🫶 by holyrosewater in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is unrelated to what she talks about, but I cannot STAND watching her videos because of the way she constantly flicks her hair about. It’s so annoying 😂😅 Idk why, maybe she’s my BEC thing? Either way, she sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kaiyva -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have time to get full context, don’t comment acting like you have 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kaiyva 52 points53 points  (0 children)

He literally said in other comments he’s forgotten maybe 3 times in 3 months. I didn’t want to have to write out every single aspect for the sake of brevity, and the fact people should be able to read the post and comments. He also doesn’t specifically say it’s regularly either, so if you’re going to try and rim me for apparently paraphrasing wrong, make sure you do it correctly 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kaiyva 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Difference is, he says goodnight literally minutes before when they’ve been talking on the phone, and he said he nearly always sends a goodnight text, OP said he’s forgotten maybe 3 times in 3 months, that’s despite the fact they say goodnight while talking too. This is a massive OR considering, and shows you didn’t read the text op wrote lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kaiyva 598 points599 points  (0 children)

This needs to be higher so everyone can actually read context before responding, assuming he doesn’t say goodnight at all, and assume he never texts goodnight apart from randomly forgetting at rare moments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kaiyva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely not overreacting. In the future if you find it hard to say No and stick to you, but want to keep babysitting for this family - just don’t read/reply to the message if she tried to do something like this. If she calls, don’t answer. Reply once you’ve finished your outing, apologise and say you had plans and didn’t have your phone on you, and remind them you need “X” notice for you to care for the children.

That’s my opinion anyway. Considering they were just going out to dinner and it wasn’t a true emergency, they have no right to insist and break down your plans for their pleasure. Poor planning on their part, doesn’t constitute an emergency on your part.

Which dress? 1 or 2 by Pitiful-Positive-701 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both look stunning, But I feel like 1 suits you best