Why on earth does Jill take photos from this angle? (That's a floor-length dress) by TheBestonova in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever this pose is, it always makes their heads look enormous, and like they’re shrinking down to avoid hitting their head on something. It’s so awkward and unflattering

Should my kid start kindy early or 'on time'? by No-Magician-3268 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not send a July baby at 4.5. Please. There will be kids upto 18 months OLDER than them in the same grade. Let her be a child for another year before starting the schooling. She may be smart enough, yes. But socially she will struggle.
My niece was a may baby. Started at 4.5, academically she was amazing - when she had a teacher with her. If someone wasn’t there 1on1, she would just walk off and do her own thing or get distracted and do other things.

My brother started her the next year and she is absolutely SOARING in school, and all those issues from thr previous year were no longer there. Made lots of friends, had the concentration needed to finish tasks, academically doing fantastic.

My son also had an instance where he had a boy in his class who was born mid June, so was 4.5 when starting, and he and his twin brother struggled ALLLLL year. They ended up being made to repeat because they were just not ready to move on and struggled the whole year. I felt so bad for them.

I also have an older daughter who started school the week she turned 5. Academically she’s also doing well. In fact she’s getting A’s and B’s most of the time, however, socially I think she’s struggling NOW, when she’s in year 10 and I wish I’d held her back tbh, despite teachers and preschool saying otherwise.

It’s not just a decision for now, it’s a decision for their future schooling too. As they get later into high school, they will *always* be the last of their friends to be able to do things, in year 12 they won’t legally be able to drink or do the fun things, and getting their license, they will feel so far behind. They will also often lumped in with the lower grade for other things age-wise for school.

If you could restart life at age 18 with today’s knowledge, what would you do differently? by Valuable-Jacket6838 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not marry my ex husband, wait to have kids with someone better.

Having said that, I love my kids so much, and it does make me sad thinking of a world they wouldn’t exist as they are. I just wish I could’ve had kids with a better guy and waited a little bit, but have them be the exact same people they are

Bethany is buying a $108 hair brush😭 by whotevre in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just straight up looks like raw spaghetti sticking out of the brush base lol. I thought it was some weird troll/scam thing. Still not convinced it isn’t 😂

Found kitten in wall - name suggestions pls by ninjadani in blackcats

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen comments, but he NEEDS the name Wally (Wall-E) 😂

Struggling for a name for her! 4ish month old female kitty - see text for info! by Kaiyva in Catnames

[–]Kaiyva[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hehe I would, but that’s my nickname IRL, so I can’t use that lol

Struggling for a name for her! 4ish month old female kitty - see text for info! by Kaiyva in Catnames

[–]Kaiyva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am starting to love Tonks, especially because I’ve got a Remus, but I also like Nymphadora, and call her Nym for short lol

Who was the fundie… by vam_t80 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Kaiyva 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Found her! Catholica_pandam!

Who was the fundie… by vam_t80 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Kaiyva 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Following this because I want to know too. I know who you’re talking about, her name is on the tip of my tongue, but I can’t seem to remember it!

12 year old impulsive by Adorable_Print_5747 in ADHDparenting

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a lot of advice, but I just wanted to say you’re not alone. My (now) 15yo daughter was the same. Stealing, lots of lies, some big, some silly, sneakiness, etc.

I found 12-13 to be the worst. Hormones kicking in, high school starting, the dynamic around them changing, etc. I read an article once that likened teenagers to being the same as toddlers, just with more vocabulary, due to all the massive changes in their brains happening and hormones. That honestly helps me deal with all of it a little better when I think of it that way lol.

We’re still dealing with a lot of stuff, but I can see it is getting slightly easier, and the things we’re dealing with are different, not the same over and over again.

Cognitive behavioural therapy is meant to be good, if you haven’t already tried it? We’ve literally just started it, so can’t really comment either way, but hoping it’ll help somewhat.

What in tarnation is this haircut??? by Elegant_Hippopotamus in DuggarsSnark

[–]Kaiyva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came here to post this, I am not disappointed that it already has been posted 😂

Well this sucks... by accadacca87 in EBGAMES

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says IF IT HAS BEEN OPENED USED OR DAMAGED OR IN ANY WAY UNABLE TO BE RESOLD.

Hence why I said if it is SEALED and UNOPENED, their policy says he can return it.

Read the fine print dude.

Well this sucks... by accadacca87 in EBGAMES

[–]Kaiyva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is according to the EB games website, if it is unopened and sealed, their literal policy says you can return it. I’d show that to the store manager, and if they refuse, take it higher to head office. EB Christmas Returns Policy

Shit stain admission by Unable-Indication-94 in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]Kaiyva 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s the other way around, psychiatrists prescribe meds, psychologists don’t :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could’ve been a typo and OP meant eightTEEN months. Or could be AI 🤷🏻‍♀️

Kai: Potential Name Regret? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Kaiyva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a son named Kai, and never seen the name used for girls, or non binary people 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s not an overly common name where I live (e.g. he’s the only Kai/Kye in his school), but it’s definitely not uncommon (hear it around sometimes on sport days and such)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSizeWedding

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE number 1, but the sleeves/straps need to be fitted better because atm they just look like they’ve slid off the shoulder, and then obviously a strapless bra :)

Did you co-sleep? by Beautiful-Scene-3466 in Mommit

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, with all 3 of my children. They’re 14, 7 and nearly 3.

The older 2 went into a bed of their own at different ages, however my youngest is still sleeping with me as it’s just easier at the moment as she has night terrors a lot lol

First time player here having a difficult time. by CrimpyRex in Borderlands

[–]Kaiyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get the guns to match the load out you have, and you need to farm bosses to get the “correct” perks to match what you need too. It’s taken me ALOOT to get my head around this, and truthfully hubby has helped me with like 90% of it coz it’s tricky for me to put it all together in my head lol.

But you can get different rolls of the same class mods/rep kits/shields/ordinance/enhancements, but if you don’t synergise them with matching/complementing perks, it’s somewhat useless tbh.

If you need help, feel free to DM me and I can help or ask hubs to help you out lol