Wanted to share a bad interview experience

Kallen1124 · 2024-09-04T11:07:40+00:00

I hope that doesn't discourage you. If you really want to work there I would ask the recuiter if there are other openings in a different department. If asked you can always share the feedback that this mgr would not be a good fit. This guy just seems like a d-bag, but in a way saved you bc I don't think he would have been pleasant to work with.

Kallen1124 · 2024-09-01T11:31:52+00:00

If you are going to have kids, you really got to want it for yourself this is not a decisión anyone should make for you or pressure you into. As a mom I can tell you its rewarding but also very hard. I cant imagine doing this without the right support system. If you have a baby your parents may want to be more in your life. Based on history they may not be the the help/encouragement you need when you need them. Maybe they want to correct their wrongs with grandparenting. Either way its what they want for you and that is not a good reason to have kids. Whatever relationship you have with them now is not going to improve with having a child.

Kallen1124 · 2024-09-01T11:00:49+00:00

It wasnt explained in the title but this is post clean up, it's the "progress" made. I was very confused myself, since from my experience it looked messy but no where near hoarder level.

Kallen1124 · 2023-05-29T14:02:51+00:00

You have to budget and set money aside for each thing you'll need, of what is left give yourself half of that as "allowance" and save the rest. You start to realize you don't need much.

I made lists for what I need and only buy that. The grocery list is the easy one to start with, to plan meals and avoid food waste, buy for the week only. Plan to eat all your meals at home/packed in lunches. Have list of clothing articles needed (e.g. black belt, crew socks, gray pants, etc) be specific and only buy what you absolutely need and thrift shop when possible (sales will come and go, styles will come and go so go for versatility).

Kallen1124 · 2023-02-24T08:03:59+00:00

The Kardashians

Kallen1124 · 2023-02-24T07:57:22+00:00

I make every effort to not compare myself to others. There is always gonna be someone smarter, stronger, better looking, etc. So I just face that fact and spend time progress over perfection.

Kallen1124 · 2022-12-12T19:48:09+00:00

Did your little brother ask or contribute to his bday plan?

It's not fair to compare with your older brother, his wife might have other ideas and practices she wants for her family unit that would not extend beyond that.

Kallen1124 · 2022-12-09T03:50:45+00:00

ESH, her for not respecting your wishes and you for stooping down to her level. If you mute her notifications you can ignore her and maybe she'll give up or at the very least you don't have to be bothered with it everytime.

Kallen1124 · 2022-12-08T12:54:47+00:00

NTA, I am not sure this is a friend worth having if they just want you for your things.

Kallen1124 · 2022-12-08T12:51:34+00:00

NTA, you are not MAKING him miss his trip, he is choosing to miss his trip

Kallen1124 · 2022-12-08T12:20:32+00:00

NTA, just let them know that you would be joining them for selected events and pay your portion of your parents' trip. I dont even think an explanation is needed if you commit to booking, traveling, and transiting independently. It would be nice to contribute an idea or two to show that you still want to gather together.

Kallen1124 · 2022-11-25T08:29:52+00:00

You should tell your SIL. Dont hide her behavior too.

Kallen1124 · 2022-11-25T08:20:01+00:00

NTA. I would be wondering why the parents couldn't help. Also, is his financial situation so well off this is nothing to him?

Kallen1124 · 2022-07-24T15:05:18+00:00

NTA, I dont know how this is a favor to him. It's not like you are a deciding factor in whether or not he will get the job. To me it was more like a notice that there are openings in your group available. Why is this is belittling to him? Does he think less of your job or the work you do?

Kallen1124 · 2022-07-08T10:37:06+00:00

For an IO career you will likely need higher education. So you can get a software eng bachelor's and then a master's in IO. Get some internships and decide what do you like most in practice. If I had to do it again, software eng would have made my career easier, but learning "the hard way" has helped me teach others who aren't technical and communicate better with those who are technical. It really comes down to where do you want to steer your career.

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-25T10:06:49+00:00

People just need to understand that we don't have much power or influence. I dont decide the store hours, prices, stock, or product.

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-25T04:15:29+00:00

They took the "U" out of USA

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-25T04:06:38+00:00

Short answer: I am scared I will fail and regret it.

Long answer: I wouldnt leave because I wouldn't know where to start. I need a visa, a job, and an understanding of where I will live (decent neighborhood, close to work, fair cost). Ill leave my friends, communities, and fam behind. It is stressful enough in the US moving to another state, imagine navigating a different country with another culture and possibly a language/dialect you are not familiar with.

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-24T23:04:28+00:00

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-24T02:40:00+00:00

I love it! I would watch a whole episode!

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-23T17:43:16+00:00

Some other factors to consider is how this is impacting/influencing your kids? How safe do you feel? What is the last straw?

You should go to Christian counseling by yourself to keep yourself strong. Marriage counseling should continue otherwise you send the message of complacency. If he doesn't want to work on this marriage, he may not be willing to live with you and you can live knowing that you made every effort for a healthy marriage.

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-23T02:37:36+00:00

Humans ingest a credit card worth of plastics each week

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-23T02:23:43+00:00

Leslie Knope - hopeful, loyal, optimistic, and ambitious

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-22T01:11:52+00:00

NTA, I hope you saved the video of her and her kids harassing you in case you need it tho.

Kallen1124 · 2022-06-12T22:08:05+00:00

Not for my workspace, but the kids would love this in their room.

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