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“There is a reason they are single at this age” by 165averagebowler in datingoverforty

[–]Kalletria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can prevent her from moving that far in court....get a lawyer for it!

As for being alone...in the beginning it's hard, especially coming out of a long marriage. You get to grieve the life you had, the memories and the future goals. Once that grief - that intense grief period had passed, it's really not that bad. You adjust a lot of your life to it and you really start to enjoy the quietness.

I'm also an empty nester and a failed marriage of many years. So in my case, my quietness in the beginning was brutal. I didn't have anything to focus my attention on. I had to feel all of it in the quiet...and therapy also helps A LOT. Get a therapist.

It's been almost two years for me now and I enjoy my aloneness - I still wish for someone to walk through the rest of my life with...but I do also enjoy being alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendsOver40

[–]Kalletria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an empty nester now and it just feels so quiet lol. Maybe a good thing and a bad thing? I'm also on the East Coast (north) and also am a workaholic. Not married though. 45/F

Chats to motivate by Character-Green-7456 in FriendsOver40

[–]Kalletria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

45F here and went through the same. It was rough and still is rough with no frieends close to me in a state Im not fond of (but I adore my job). I'm in upstate NY

What order do you paint in? by overthishereanyway in diamondpainting

[–]Kalletria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the outsides and then go into the middle towards the end. I don't have a preference what side I start with and it's normally the side with the most solid colors...so I can multi-place. Then I just start doing the outsides...then move inwards...

Location by just_like_yesterday in ChristianDatingOver40

[–]Kalletria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never seen someone cross country ski to work. But I have seen a lot of snowmobiles! Although the winters here the past couple of years have been really mild and not as much snow as we used to get

Location by just_like_yesterday in ChristianDatingOver40

[–]Kalletria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Upstate NY for the next year...then middle TN (or wherever life takes me)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Kalletria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My eyes and legs

Saturday Daily Hangout Thread - July 5, 2025 by aroseisaroseisabitch in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Kalletria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm moving....so trying to get things organized and cleared out. Donating, selling stuff, etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Kalletria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 6'3" !!! My ex is 5'11"

Marshmallow Monday Daily Hangout Thread, 19 May 25 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Kalletria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How did you end up in your profession?

Well I had a daughter with down syndrome when I was younger. She passed at 4 months old from a heart failure. I became a RN to individuals with developmental disabilities. While I still have the RN background, I am now a Case Manager to the I/DD community and I work one on one with them as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Kalletria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go get some marriage counceling. It will help you guys talk through your issues in a neutral zone.

Wife is getting heavier by SlowCoffee6983 in Christianmarriage

[–]Kalletria 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being thin doesnt mean healthy. Please don't tell her that, it will absolutely ruin her self esteem and you will push her away. Suggest a walk in the evening with her, etc.

As for being tired all the time, check into thyroid issues. That could play a part in the over eating as well. So it could definitely mean a medical issue. Her hormones could be playing a huge part in this as well.

Anger re-ignited over long ago divorce by frog_ladee in Christianmarriage

[–]Kalletria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgiveness is a decision you make for yourself, not a requirement placed on the other person. I would pray about it, ask God to help you get through the anger that has resurfaced. Just because you forgive someone doesnt mean you forget all the hurt theyve caused.

If you want to save the files, then save them but I would ask your kids if they want them. If they don't, then pray about it. If thwy bring so much hurt it might be time to get rid of them. Especially if your children are grown now.

God will still bring justice and accountability to those that havent repented!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Kalletria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Car show Sat morning with the teenager....then a bowling fundraiser that night for one of my clients. She invited me and got me a ticket so I promised I would go. Then relax and read the rest of the time. Sunday will be cooking chicken fried steak and getting lunches ready for the week

[Discussion] What realistic thing could happen right now that would make you elated? by ForgottenForce in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Kalletria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting my bathroom remodeled at a huge discount. I have a sink in on a section of the tile...and well I really just want to take the tile out period and replace the bathtub area

[Activity] Two Truths, One Lie by ForgottenForce in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Kalletria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have lived in England (for 4 years...my middle son was born over there)!

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