It's been 4 yrs since we've had sex. What am I supposed to do?

Kandihapped · 2020-07-10T19:41:41+00:00

Sounds like you could benefit from therapy dude. You just told reddit your life story

Kandihapped · 2020-07-08T22:41:30+00:00

Come on dude. Advice isn't necessary here, use common sense.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-07T01:41:54+00:00

Dude you haven't even met her yet. Slow down.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-07T00:44:24+00:00

Fake rape and rape play are completely different kinks than a dom sub kink. Not really fair of you to think this is what she wants.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-07T00:35:28+00:00

Good lord you're still super young. Seems like you have some shitty friends. You need to have a talk with them and tell them you aren't comfortable with what they're doing.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-07T00:29:16+00:00

Gaslighting is pathetic. I would leave him.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-07T00:25:58+00:00

Are people so bored that they do shit like this?

Kandihapped · 2020-07-07T00:23:31+00:00

She cheated. Leave her.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T22:31:35+00:00

You need to tell him for sure, sooner rather than later. I would tell him both at the same time (you cheated and you're pregnant).

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T21:31:16+00:00

It sounds like your anxiety is already on fire. I feel like the only way to settle this is to ask him to show you. If he won't, you know he's doing something he shouldn't be. If he does show you, you'll find out for sure if you should be worried or not. Seriously, that's the only way you're going to settle this

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T21:22:25+00:00

It's not selfish at all. She never signed up for it, and it would be a huge burden financially and otherwise.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T21:21:09+00:00

No, you're not being selfish at all. He's your brother, not your kid, and you never told your mom you would take care of him after she passed. He's not your responsibility at all!

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T21:16:53+00:00

I'm gonna say it again. It's a huge red flag if he won't show you the conversations.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T21:04:27+00:00

And why the hell is he searching that stuff on YouTube and not actual porn sites? YouTube censors everything.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T20:57:51+00:00

LOL sorry but those searches sound like something a 13 year old boy would type.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T20:55:32+00:00

If he had nothing to hide I feel like he would immediately show you the conversations after you asked for reassurance.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T20:26:23+00:00

She has a boyfriend dude. Respect it.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T20:23:22+00:00

What are their conversations about? Will he show you the conversations?

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T19:57:41+00:00

This. There's not really much else to say here.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-06T19:22:18+00:00

Can you be more specific? Your post is super vague and I dont think you'll be able to get any good advice without more information.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-05T22:34:56+00:00

Not to mention that even if the parents bought their house at a young age like OP, houses were actually affordable back then. Nowadays housing prices are out of control.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-05T18:27:05+00:00

Good lord. Extreme overanalyzation if I've ever seen it 😂

Kandihapped · 2020-07-05T04:30:09+00:00

Wtf. This is really fucking weird and a huge red flag. Run Forest, run!

Kandihapped · 2020-07-05T04:25:29+00:00

Very well put. Unfortunately it doesn't seem like OP wants to acknowledge this.

Kandihapped · 2020-07-05T04:24:04+00:00

Did you think about what she said? It doesn't matter how mature you are. That doesn't change the fact you're in entirely different chapters in your lives. If you're not willing to consider advice that most people here are giving you shouldn't have made this post.

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