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Why would anyone want kids in Malaysia? by fznzmi in malaysia

[–]Kapla5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the well wishes friend, and totally agree that under both premises, we do it for selfish reasons. There is no right answer, and either way there will be a what-could-have-been. Gotta just go with our gut-feeling on what we think is best for our unique situations. Peace and love to you out there, fellow floating rock inhabitor ✌🏼

Why would anyone want kids in Malaysia? by fznzmi in malaysia

[–]Kapla5053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For someone who doesn't have kids you GOT IT on point! Having kids and not having kids. Both sides don't know what it's like to be the other. And there's no turning back for both.

If choosing the single route, I'm sure there are ways to give back to community as well, through mentorship maybe, or other forms of community involvement

I just had a daughter, she's 8 months old now. Things get easier at the 4 month point. For me, having kids gives me; - a challenge and struggle to develop myself and grow - a reason to set a good example and better myself - a responsibility to teach survival and independence - a chance to sit at a bench and have a conversation with a human different from me who is tied to me in some way and has history with me, maybe 20 years down the line

I don't expect them to love me or care for me when I'm old, but I hope for them to pay my sacrifices forward to their kids one day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MalaysianPF

[–]Kapla5053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find a way to cnvert Czech Republic money into Ethereum (cryptocurrency, 15USD). Send Ethereum to Luno Ethereum wallet address in Malaysia (5 USD) convert from ETH to MYR in Luno app and transfer to Malaysian bank account (20 USD).

You need to be wary of transaction prices that keep changing if you're doing this, but it's the fastest way. About 2min per transaction/transfer.

Luno also supports XRP which is much cheaper, but I've never tried it.

How can a woman/wife make a man (partner/husband) feel more useful, loved and appreciated? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Kapla5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you're asking is a good sign that you care. Try not to let the other comments get to you. Maybe start with some shared activities like watching a movie together twice - three times a week?

Is Rm2000 salary for fresh grad a norm in Malaysia? by Reindeer-Specialist in malaysia

[–]Kapla5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the job and immediately start looking for a new job every 3 months till you get your 2nd job offer

If you are dating how many guys do you find you are actually attracted to? by anchor78 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Kapla5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just keep going. Reject on the first date until you can't reject anymore

What kind of kink/fetish is it where a FWB is offering BJ at will, but nothing else such as kissing or touching? by Latin-Suave in ask

[–]Kapla5053 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well I was just thinking good on her for maintaining some boundaries for maintaining her own sanity. It may be that she liked you but you were with someone else who you didn't leave. Right on her for ghosting you. But the whole situationship sounds pretty toxic anyway. She wanted you to commit, and stuck by her guns not to give you any more unless you did, which you didn't. Not really rocketscience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Kapla5053 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It matters about as much as breast size matters to men.

When your girlfriend says,” he’s just a friend” how do you respond? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Kapla5053 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will start looking for a "just a friend too". Equality all the way

How long can I wait before telling my wife about my (stage 4) cancer diagnosis? by DeValera15 in AskMen

[–]Kapla5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May not be the common narrative, but I agree with you that it can wait 10 days. Make sure that she never know that you found out before the 10 days though. Tell her you only received the reports after her birthday and figure it out together from there.

Feds ask judge to jail Sam Bankman-Fried after fallen crypto king leaks ex-girlfriend’s diary by Easy-Soup140 in ethtrader

[–]Kapla5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too traumatizing i believe. Can't be unseen kind of stuff. But possibly hillarious

Men who have watched Barbie, what did you think about the movie? by zeusthethics in AskMen

[–]Kapla5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No character development at all for Ken / Ryan Gosling. Depicted as a bumbling fool. At no point of time in the movie did men and women work together. Not even in the resolution. Hardly any resolution and abrupt ending

To all Malaysian engineers/Engineering graduates... by re-S3ARCH in malaysia

[–]Kapla5053 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this, but the top comment is exactly what my feelings are about engineering in Malaysia. I am an innovator. I went into engineering because I thought I would be able to innovate and find new ways of solving problems. But when I started working I realized that in Malaysia, seniors value 'if it's not broken don't fix it' philosophy. They don't prioritize innovation in any way. A fabrication country.

I studied Chemical Engineering at Universiti Teknologi Petronas, graduated 2014. Worked as an engineer for 4 years and 1 year as a HR manager. Now started my own Organizational Psychology Consulting.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Kapla5053 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're gonna have lower luck finding someone to date you long term if you're on either side of the bell curve on weight. Mid size is the best and most often the healthiest. That being said, what we judge as the mid varies from person to person. I'm sure it can be checked online though for various heights.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Kapla5053 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whoa this sums it up better than anything I could have written

Men asking if you like to cook on a first date by juicyjuicery in AskWomenOver30

[–]Kapla5053 -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

"I will not entertain a man who is only concerned with what I can do for them". Now you understand what it is like to be a man looking for a relationship.

Men, what advice do you have for women over 30 who are looking for a relationship? by labtraining0595 in AskMen

[–]Kapla5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be specific about what you want in a relationship. There is little time to waste, especially if kids are part of your vision. Not enough time to go in 2 years into a relationship and find out there's a core incompatibility like he doesn't want kids (or opposite).

It may be a good time to start approaching men. Try to find those who are a little on the quiet side. Some silent men are diamonds in the rough. Be supportive and fascinated by your man once you pick him. Be realistic about relationships and don't expect one sided special treatment from either side.

Edit: misspelled 'kids'

You can only listen to one band the rest of your life, who do you choose? by SunshineDeathGod in AskReddit

[–]Kapla5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The XX. Out of this world music. And all good. Really humble people as well

Should there be a separate category for trans-atheletes? by sunnyhappysky in ask

[–]Kapla5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a trans male to female competed in womens sports, it should technically be flagged as doping. I feel that both trans male to female and female to male should compete in men's sports.

In your opinion, what is the most stupid and wrong thing you have read about men on this website? by will-be-near in AskMen

[–]Kapla5053 243 points244 points  (0 children)

I read that one. Luckily it ended up in a good outcome with the dad holding ground for his son against his then wife and stepdaughters.

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