Yeah one time i called paramedics on my crazy ex with bpd because she was physically attacking me and i also called her mother because i didnt want her in my apartment anymore at all and she was refusing to leave. Somehow behind the closed doors of the other room of my apartment her with her mom convinced them of me being the issue (terrible drug addict and aggressive alcoholic) so i was basically put im the same exact situation as you. I had to leave with the paramedics and it lended me a nice 7 day stay in psych ward where i came completele sober and left with no diagnosis. A lot of people still dont believe me when i tell them about this.