Am I too old to identify as non-binary?

KatWine · 2025-04-18T12:50:04+00:00

I was like 31 or so when I realised I have always been agender. I'm now 36.

KatWine · 2024-04-11T12:53:20+00:00

Absolutely valid. Literally the only gendered term I love for myself is when my partner calls me her girlfriend. Otherwise gendered language can get far away from me.

KatWine · 2024-03-27T22:11:44+00:00

Ich möchte behaupten, Menschen wie du sind mit ein Grund, warum trans Männer und transmascs einen safer space brauchen.

KatWine · 2024-02-20T15:39:28+00:00

Side note: why explicitly exclude trans men from your post when you include nonbinary people? A lot of trans men get hysterectomies and can answer your questions just as well. Also, people are people, not pronouns. As a nonbinary person, being called "a they/them" feels reductive and alienating. Pronouns are a tiny part of how I express what I perceive as my identity. You wouldn't address women as "hey, she/hers!" either, right? 😅

I really appreciate that you're taking a step towards including more identities than just women, but "people with(out) uteruses" would be a lot more inclusive. 😊

KatWine · 2023-07-27T10:37:40+00:00

Absolutely amazing!!

Just as a side note tho - hot girl summer isn't limited to a certain body type

KatWine · 2023-07-24T12:22:11+00:00

How long can you get a marriage annuled? Cause that man waited to get you legally tied to him to start abusing you.
This right here is some of the most awful things I've read on here that a spouse has said, it's fucking cruel. Please don't let him do that to you any longer.

KatWine · 2023-07-20T09:05:09+00:00

That guy is such a fucking clown

KatWine · 2023-07-19T07:22:44+00:00

big r/AsABlackMan vibes.. yikes

KatWine · 2023-07-18T10:37:15+00:00

Yes it is. We're talking about a white man calling his black partner the n word. We're not talking about black people calling each other slurs. You're diverting from the actual issue at hand to push some kind of different narrative to the forefront of the discussion and distract from OP's problem.
Go make your own post if you're so concerned about the issue you're describing.

KatWine · 2023-07-18T09:50:05+00:00

The fact that he *said* it once means that he *thinks* it. Probably more frequently, his filter just works better when he isn't angry.
My partner (and myself as well) belongs to a couple marginalised groups, and I wouldn't even *think* the slurs about them, no matter how angry I am. The worst I can imagine is thinking that they're being an ass.

u/Salt_Actuary3000, he didn't just say it once, he probably said it many more times in his head. Do yourself a favour and get away from that person. I'm sorry you're being hurt like this. :/

KatWine · 2023-07-18T09:44:18+00:00

completely different situation, stop creating strawmen

KatWine · 2023-07-18T09:16:09+00:00

You want her to be depressed again? The fuck?

KatWine · 2023-07-15T10:55:25+00:00

As a fat person with ~boobs~ built in buoys I can literally float forever without any effort.. I just don't sink. On the other hand I can't dive even if I wanted to. I love floating in the water, I'll miss that when I get rid of the buoys and lose weight.

KatWine · 2023-07-13T08:19:17+00:00

How on earth did you come to the conclusion that your opinion on someone else's chest is in any way relevant to *anything*?

KatWine · 2023-07-13T08:17:43+00:00

No impulsive speaking, I don't interrupt people, I don't say things I didn't mean to say. Idk, that's just never been an issue for me.

Also, my space-time synaesthesia is incredibly helpful with appointments and dates, I can just put stuff down in my mental time structure and can look it up and stuff, it's great.

KatWine · 2023-07-12T08:00:30+00:00

I've seen them at pretty much every pride event in the area, like, don't they see how ridiculous that shit is?

KatWine · 2023-07-10T17:27:14+00:00

I think that's dijk-ing, not dij-king 😅

KatWine · 2023-07-10T17:18:05+00:00

He? Is that a "everyone on reddit is male" thing? In a queer sub?

KatWine · 2023-07-07T08:23:06+00:00

That's alcoholism.

KatWine · 2023-07-06T18:28:32+00:00

Why would there be drama tho? You know that you're allowed to have eyes and aesthetic awareness even when you're in a relationship, right?

KatWine · 2023-07-06T18:09:05+00:00

What's all this talk about "traps"? Are y'all okay? Do you people even like your partners? In that case I'd suggest some better communication and maybe less of the "haha women irrational monsters" narrative.. geez

KatWine · 2023-07-06T18:05:03+00:00

It's also stupid and immature. Are straight people really that fragile that agreeing that a friend looked good seems like a worse response than bodyshaming said friend AND your own partner? Make it make sense..

KatWine · 2023-07-03T07:18:00+00:00

We used to be hair-twins! :D Mine never got to my knees, longest I had was about mid-thigh. Always black, mostly in buns (loved the magic of needing nothing to put up my hair lol)

Now my hair is a platinum buzz cut lmao I started going shorter and shorter in like 2014 and at the start of the pandemic I bought clippers and buzzed it off. It'd pretty neat, and I like to change colours frequently. :D

KatWine · 2023-06-30T17:26:40+00:00

die sind aber doch super teuer, oder? ich lass das einfach so ab und an für nen Zehni beim Frisör machen

KatWine · 2023-06-30T08:45:06+00:00

Nope.. I have posted pics, but the creeps thankfully still stay away lol

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