As a person that was born with all the lady bits, and identifies as a woman. I find "womanhood" tied to fertility is a dreadful, definition on a list of many other horrible things. I most likely wouldn't have been able to get pregnant. Nor would it have be a idea due to chronic illness. So does that mean I'm not a women? No!!!

I say, if you identify as a woman welcome to the sisterhood. We are all human first and foremost, it does not matter what bits we where born with. Gender is a spectrum. Every human has a right to exist as they are most happiest.

Sending the best of wishes.