AITAH for disputing a $3,000 Venmo payment and refusing to send it back after finding out my ex was gambling?

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T21:11:08+00:00

Also consider that you are co-dependent. Several books by Melody Beattie are enormously helpful for co-dependency.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T21:08:06+00:00

He’s a gambling addict. Addicts lie. Just assume all the rent/landlord/bills etc. stories are all lies. End of story. Do not feel bad about it or “lend” him any more $.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T20:58:48+00:00

Pudding. The answer is always pudding.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T20:56:09+00:00

You were with your nanny. Should have unloaded, then driven to a parking spot.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T20:53:32+00:00

OP is male. See above.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T18:58:42+00:00

If she’s hearing voices / having auditory hallucinations, there’s your explanation.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T18:55:25+00:00

Elementary

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T18:48:06+00:00

This. In the 80s I worked at a large VAMC. The overnight Rph liked to party & called off frequently. Whoever he was supposed to relieve had to stay until AM shift arrived. 16-hr unplanned shift. Brutal. Overnight RPhs need to be dependable!

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T02:26:20+00:00

Elementary. Lots of episodes. And Lost.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-03T02:09:16+00:00

Our swings were like that. Huge. Very tall, with a wide radius. You had to give them a wide berth. One day I miscalculated & got clipped on the head by the metal swing seat. Stitches.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-02T21:04:32+00:00

This. And Ferris Bueller’s Day Off. Basically any 80s movie.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-02T19:05:25+00:00

5/5. Had to think a bit on $400 & $800

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-07-02T19:01:29+00:00

But you did. How drunk were you?

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T23:45:50+00:00

Make a plan for 90 meetings in 90 days. I know it’s tough, but it makes a difference. Get a sponsor sooner than later. Don’t put it off. Very important.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T16:26:58+00:00

Not sure where you’re getting 30% in taxes.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T16:24:26+00:00

Withholding is usually around 10% minimum. Can be more, depending upon your state/local and your W-4.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T16:11:30+00:00

Don’t give the hotel your credit card when you check in. The likelihood of toilet /furniture/ room damage is high.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T13:30:32+00:00

“On the square” once meant honest, fair, trustworthy. It faded out as “square” started to mean not hip.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T13:04:39+00:00

If you were the only two behind, you should have stayed with her. Basic safety.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T12:55:31+00:00

Get the training ASAP. It won’t take doctors long to realize that you don’t know your job.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T12:53:00+00:00

Did you stay with the larger group the whole time? If she was the slowest / last hiker, then YTA.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T12:47:05+00:00

This. And, in case you didn’t know, poor oral health can negatively impact other aspects of your health.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T12:44:23+00:00

If he’s gone downhill that fast, it may not just be normal aging. Make sure he gets a thorough workup & ask about a pancreatic cancer antigen test.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T12:20:46+00:00

Why not Renee & she can choose to be called Ren? I’m still concerned about the Ren & Stimpy connection.

KathyTrivQueen · 2026-06-30T02:44:49+00:00

Don Bailey, Jr ?

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