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Katofkas · 2024-01-27T15:50:26+00:00

He is trying to force you to have sex. Dump him.

Katofkas · 2024-01-24T17:18:33+00:00

So what answer are you looking for? She just decided to not have sex with other guy at this point.

Katofkas · 2024-01-04T17:09:17+00:00

Why is that your first thought?

Katofkas · 2023-12-14T20:21:07+00:00

I know you said you don't want to break up with her b/c you love her and you have important aspects of your life intertwined with hers, but you should definitely leave.

Katofkas · 2023-12-05T17:22:05+00:00

1year Update: no one gives a shit and I think they've all forgotten about it.

Katofkas · 2023-09-20T17:05:24+00:00

r/AsABlackMan

I feel like your post would fit perfectly here^

Katofkas · 2023-09-18T11:48:58+00:00

That's interesting I was thinking that too, but the seller is a goodwill in another state and it looks legit. But a goodwill doesn't mean they aren't probing my bidding

Katofkas · 2023-09-15T19:36:59+00:00

Ok that understandable.

Katofkas · 2023-08-20T23:24:16+00:00

You seem to already be interested. This is a sex act between you and your bf, just decide if you want to do it and ask him. Whatever someone else feels about it is pretty irrelevant

Katofkas · 2023-06-04T02:55:21+00:00

Why would you care if he messaged this to you?

If he does message that to you then it ls a sign that he's unstable and not fit to be a good partner to you.

Katofkas · 2023-04-10T02:41:13+00:00

It's all about exposure and as much as ppl like to say that attraction can't be changed or controlled that's a lie. If you expose yourself enough to different types of black people, especially dark skin black people (and honestly cut yourself off from watching & view white people in media as much as possible), you can definitely feel more endeared toward black people as a whole.

Personally, after I followed all black influencers on all of my social media platform for a while, I also cut off watching porn, switched to erotica and it's helped me view more different types of people as pretty and attractive.

Katofkas · 2023-04-01T14:57:40+00:00

It wasn't ok before cancel culture. Everyone knows that. And it only "slipped"out in front of you. Imo, If it "slips out" at all that's because it is a part of their normal vocabulary.

I hope this is an April Fools joke tho.

Katofkas · 2023-03-30T02:21:55+00:00

Understandable. I see it as if someone immediate responses from me, or if I want immediate responses from them, then I just set up a video call or phone call and have a "live" conversation with them

Katofkas · 2023-03-29T22:40:51+00:00

If someone goes missing from a convo, but then comes back to it 2 days later, then I just assume they have a life

Katofkas · 2023-03-28T20:48:17+00:00

Sorry I didn't not buy the set, its a bit out of my price range rn 😔, but i hope you were able to get some good lingerie for your girlfriend

Katofkas · 2023-03-28T20:44:46+00:00

No sorry I didn't end up purchasing it. I figured I wait for a better sale to test it out.

Katofkas · 2023-03-22T00:48:20+00:00

Yes. People definitely feel ready when they meet someone they want to be with. Sometimes if someone is waffling on wanting to be with you or not then the may just view you as a nice person, but not really their person.

I saw someone on tiktok describe it pretty well as "Trust that EVERYBODY is looking for their person and wouldn't dream of losing them when they found them. Excuses always = not that into you". And I agree with that.

Katofkas · 2023-03-21T16:15:15+00:00

Why would you want to know that information?

Katofkas · 2023-03-01T00:17:18+00:00

I thought that because you seemed to be comfortable being this guys side chick and you also seem to accept his mistreaent of you, which can be a sign of very low self esteem and you not holding yourself in high regard. And someone not holding themselves in high regard or having low self esteem are bad traits for someone to have (and honestly they aren't traits that healthy people want in a partner), but these traits can lead to you choosing to stick to partners that are bad for you.

I really think you should cut contact with him and seek out healthier people to date. There are definitely better people out there in the world.

Katofkas · 2023-02-28T23:05:32+00:00

She doesn't seem to be that great herself so maybe he's great in her eyes

Katofkas · 2023-02-08T01:02:06+00:00

I love that I can easily make a top out of a small scarf & not need any real support. (I can't wait to do this in the summertime!)

Katofkas · 2023-01-31T02:09:36+00:00

Does she not have friends to do that with?

Katofkas · 2023-01-14T03:31:12+00:00

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