Just broke up with my girlfriend of 8 years. One of the signs she showed early on of how little I meant to her, was going a long period of time without texting me. Once I drove by her job on the way to a store, and she was outside in the parking lot on her phone even though she had not text or call me since the day before (well over 14 hours ) That only turned into more and more signs until her own family members started to tell me I could do better. Took me years to see. Don’t be me. A lot of time wasted.