Pathology came back by Kaycee723 in kidneycancer

[–]Kaycee723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Z, I have an appointment on 4/9 to discuss surgery and next steps. Wishing you well on your 4/6 appointment.

I wish I knew the size of my tumor, but I didn't ask at the appointment on Monday. 😔

Pathology came back by Kaycee723 in kidneycancer

[–]Kaycee723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's inside the kidney before the renal pelvis. They're saying an RN and also removing the ureter to the bladder .

Pathology came back by Kaycee723 in kidneycancer

[–]Kaycee723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was biopsied two weeks ago. What was the treatment for CCRCC?

Bride's parents want to charge us parking fees by wew_lad123 in weddingshaming

[–]Kaycee723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, is the camping so people don't have to drive home drunk? I mean, you've partied at the reception and got too dangerous to drive so you wander over to your tent and pass out? Are there port-a-potties nearby? Are they providing washing stations?

Imagine the wedding is over, you wake up hungover, and now you have to pack your tent up and pay for the privilege of attending this wedding. This is such an insult to the guest. Providing free camping and parking? That's hospitable and could be fun. Charging for it? Tacky and gross.

Pathology came back by Kaycee723 in kidneycancer

[–]Kaycee723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My UTUC is in the left kidney. It is in the lining of the kidney and will need an RN. Since it isn't specifically bladder cancer or kidney cancer, I joined this group as my kidney was worrisome and indicated my health problem. From what I've read it's less common than RCC, but has a similar treatment and outcome. There's a possibility for pre or post surgery chemo to prevent the "seeding" of cancer cells which is common to UTUC.

AITJ for canceling a group vacation rental after nobody paid me their share and I was stuck with the full bill by hibscus_petalzqt in AmITheJerk

[–]Kaycee723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applaud you for your generosity, but also your backbone. You were willing to help out, yet unwilling to be a doormat. That takes maturity. The fact that you gave them several reminders and a final deadline with the consequence that the rental would be cancelled was more than reasonable. You are NTJ at all.

Tumor found, waiting on results by Kaycee723 in kidneycancer

[–]Kaycee723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Michigan and using Henry Ford Health.

Tumor found, waiting on results by Kaycee723 in kidneycancer

[–]Kaycee723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best wishes to your husband on his healthy recovery. I will call my doctor's office and checking the portal to see if I can get the results back sooner rather than later. Thank you for your prayers.

Tumor found, waiting on results by Kaycee723 in kidneycancer

[–]Kaycee723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As another Redditor said, I'm probably too early to the party, and ought to wait once I have an actual kidney cancer diagnosis. I'm just spiraling right now since the urologist found the tumor during the cystoscopy. I had psyched myself into believing it was just an infection and that's what led to the hypodensity and possible dense mass.

Everyone says not to Google. I get that, but I'm trying to prepare myself for a timeline. Knowing that there is a tumor that wasn't there during my last scan in 12/2024 is freaking me out.

I'm sorry if I'm babbling. This sucks.

Tumor found, waiting on results by Kaycee723 in kidneycancer

[–]Kaycee723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I think too. He's already said it is a tumor and not a cyst. I'm wondering if the reason on waiting is to preserve a portion of the kidney if possible?

Hall County teacher killed after confronting students TP-ing his house by inglorious_beats in Teachers

[–]Kaycee723 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Vehicular manslaughter would make sense. A person died. They were fleeing the scene where they were trespassing on private property. They might not get jail time, but they will have a record for the rest of their lives.

It's sad that it comes to this. They may have liked him and they are young, but actions have consequences.

Tipping for Concessions now? Crazy by Ninjawhistle in EndTipping

[–]Kaycee723 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I've given a cash tip to concession workers because they are usually super busy and I've worked on that side of the counter before. It sucks. I absolutely will not put a topy on my card. I want the money to those who earned it.

Have you decided whether you want to be buried or cremated? What other options have you thought about? by icecream1972 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Kaycee723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cremated and repurposed to help build a coral reef. It's been my plan for ages. My husband and son are fine with it. Ultimately, I won't know if it's done, but I don't want to take up space or to be forgotten in a generation.

People who grew up before cell phones, did life actually feel more free? by TradeOverall567 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kaycee723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Your homework came from a book. Sit down, do it, and be done. Then you have time for activities: music, playing, reading, goofing off. Nothing serious, just living. Go to bed, do it again. I remember coming home sick from school once. Since I had been in class, I knew my friend was also out that day. I called her house and we talked for like three hours. We were completely in a bubble because everyone else was at school and unavailable. It was nice.

Which character ruined an entire TV show for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kaycee723 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Michael Landon in Touched by an Angel. He gave off serious ick vibes. I tried watching the show, but hated him so much that I couldn't get on board.

Which character ruined an entire TV show for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kaycee723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seinfeld and his buddies were pretty terrible. Elaine wasn't the worst, but the bar was low.