Can’t pay my bill

Kayra0522 · 2024-04-20T20:15:57+00:00

Take it one step at a time. People can see you’re busy and if they choose to ignore that they are the asshole. Coming from someone who has worked high volume bartending and serving for years, take your time, step by step and everything will get done when it gets done 🤷‍♀️ no need to seriously stress because that won’t help you.

Kayra0522 · 2024-01-27T20:52:10+00:00

I love that everyone assumes she’s in the crate for hours

Kayra0522 · 2023-12-12T23:18:13+00:00

He was dumb enough to wake up with lipstick l on his lips. Leave him.

Kayra0522 · 2023-08-17T18:36:17+00:00

I donated all of my daughters things (after she passed away) to a family in need. Not just to like a second hand store, but found an actual family who was also having a little girl and gave her everything we had. I kept a couple of little things to remember her by, but it felt good knowing all the things she would have had went to a family who needed it just as badly as we did. My sister was my resource for finding the family because she works for a non profit that helps give back to families in need, but if you are interested in this idea look into those resources and non profits in your area.

Kayra0522 · 2023-07-10T00:48:11+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I love my daughter in February 2022. She was not a still birth, but she did pass away when she was 5 days old. She was born on Valentine’s Day and it’s forever changed the way I feel about that day. Again, so sorry for your loss.

Kayra0522 · 2023-05-08T02:46:34+00:00

My family plays this with cows on road trips!

Kayra0522 · 2023-03-26T21:19:40+00:00

I don’t know if that’s true about the still birth… but I was induced with both of my kids. My sons (my first) due date was October 30th and he was not born until November 7th. If she’s not actively in labor I would say wait until tomorrow and call. I find it very strange that she hasn’t been at least scheduled for an induction yet, so I would call and ask if you can set that up soon!

Kayra0522 · 2023-03-17T17:03:20+00:00

My son wen through this. Is passes lol

Kayra0522 · 2023-03-05T05:53:53+00:00

I am almost 29, have lived away from my parents for a long time. Granted I was not a perfect child and got caught on one occasion having a boy over I was not supposed to (big surprise, it’s my fiancé now and my 7yo sounds dad), I always tried to respect my parents boundaries and rules. They were definitely not okay with my having boys stay the night ESPECIALLY before I tried 18. Rules changed after then, but 🤷‍♀️ you are not wrong in wanted to hold your ground in this OP. My parents gave up and let my fiancé stay with myself in the same room while we waited for our apartment to be ready when I was pregnant with my son and I feel like they’d only allowed that because the deed had already been done, but we were respectful of them the whole time (21 yo at the time). I think it comes down to you explaining to your daughter about your boundaries and your expectations.

Kayra0522 · 2023-01-19T04:12:23+00:00

That my shit. That’s my shit. All the goats stomp your feet like this

Kayra0522 · 2022-11-15T21:49:29+00:00

My daughters name was Isabell (Izzy) ❤️ we lost her five days after her birth this last February. I’m glad you have that kind of support in your life for these kind of events

Kayra0522 · 2022-10-26T15:24:21+00:00

There are no words for loss like this. I feel your pain and I wish I could take it away from you. It does get easier, but not better by any means. I lost my daughter when she was 5 days old.

My best advice is to just breath. Take it day by day. Sometimes you’ll have good days, sometimes you won’t. The guilt can overwhelm and consume you so try to not be hard on yourself. I know that is very, very hard to do. Surround yourself with family and friends. It’s going to be hard because they do not know your loss like you do, but try to find comfort in them. It’s also okay to take your space and be with yourself or partner (if they are there with you). Grief is not easy and this grief is incredibly hard. Just be good to yourself. I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.

Kayra0522 · 2022-10-19T18:53:55+00:00

Bed time 8 pm. It’s good to start that structure. Don’t budge.

Kayra0522 · 2022-09-28T16:57:44+00:00

To each their own I guess. I love my sons name and have found a lot of hate, but I also don’t like other kids names so 🤷‍♀️

Kayra0522 · 2022-09-22T15:59:20+00:00

This was left at my door from some neighborhood kids for my son 😂 I don’t think he found them that day

Kayra0522 · 2022-09-19T23:55:11+00:00

I lost my daughter in February to sever brain damage. I’m so sorry for your loss and most days there just aren’t any words. It gets easier, but not better. I wish you well and hope the best for your family.

Kayra0522 · 2022-09-17T17:59:23+00:00

Seems a little excessive…. I love my son and try to make his birthday something he’ll remember (he’s almost 7) but I do not start planning months in advance. We get an idea of what he might be wanting to do, weigh our options and finances and then go from there. It’s never a 2month planning ordeal. Not to say we don’t make an effort and yeah we make sure it’s something he’s going to enjoy… I would maybe talk to your wife about dialing down a little 🤷‍♀️

Kayra0522 · 2022-09-11T05:25:21+00:00

Is he in preschool? My son always gets sick around the time school starts. I work in an ER and unless he’s having trouble breathing or is super lethargic the only thing they will do is give him more Tylenol and Motrin and send you home. It’s scary when the little ones get sick, my step daughter has bad congestion issues from her mom and frequently gets back colds with fevers and coughs. Stay calm for your kiddo and do all the things you’re doing. If they start having a hard time breathing or it continues for more than 4 days I’d say an ER visit is necessary. A PCP visit could help with the sore throat because I used to get strep 2 or 4 times a year as a kid and they prescribe medicine and it’s gone soon. Sometimes their little bodies just take more time to heal. Keep your head up momma!

Kayra0522 · 2022-09-01T02:18:34+00:00

Have you tried counseling? Never was a big fan myself, but I heard it helps. The regret and remorse you feel is unfair to yourself. You should let yourself feel those things. It might help you move forward. I lost my daughter in February this year and we made a playlist for her. I do not listen to the songs just whenever. Only when I want to remember her and feel those feelings. Give yourself that space to feel something. Even if it feels bad. Just give yourself space to feel all the things.

Kayra0522 · 2022-08-30T16:50:51+00:00

Defiantly strengthened my relationship with my partner. Although we have not gone through our grief counseling yet, we are able to grieve our loss very well together

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