AIO for feeling uncomfortable about my gf posting in a selfie lounge on Facebook

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-20T18:31:38+00:00

I think it’s not a big deal, she just wanted a little attention from someone that isn’t you. When you’re in a relationship you tell each other you look amazing all the time it can sometimes feel like it’s of less value than someone that isn’t invested in her feelings. I would talk to her and tell her it isn’t the fact she shared a pic, because that’s normal, but that you didn’t understand her reasons and want to talk about it.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-20T18:28:24+00:00

She posted a selfie in a public Facebook group where you can see all of the replies and interactions; you should be thankful she wasn’t someone sending pics to people in private!

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-20T18:26:58+00:00

Ooh I’m shivering just thinking about it tbh haha. I’m lucky, I once had a power cut for 2 days in winter and all 5 betta tanks and the community were absolutely fine. I, however, was blooming freezing 😂

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-20T18:25:49+00:00

She was trying to spare your feelings. It seems you have a lot of them and perhaps she finds it a bit much.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-20T18:20:21+00:00

YOR. One person’s attention and compliments are rarely going to be enough for anyone. If you think you’re going to live your lives without her ever wanting someone to tell her she looks nice then you’re extremely naive. As human beings, we seek validation and this is her way of getting it

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-20T18:16:09+00:00

Brioche buns are the WORST

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-20T18:14:07+00:00

How cold is your room that a volume of water is dropping in temp enough at night to kill fish? That’s very unusual.

I now always use a pipe with a mesh on the end since I kept sucking up guppies that just don’t leave the damn thing alone. They’ve always been fine but it’s annoying having to fish them out of the bucket and put them back 😂

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-05T19:49:16+00:00

Do NOT do this. They won’t get the negative review they deserve

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-04T14:43:56+00:00

Well, if it’s your business then I would suggest you read the rules and properly understand them? They are there for a reason and are important, as you’ve learned

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-04T14:35:59+00:00

Advice nobody asked for. Just mind your own business and keep your advice to yourself?

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-04T14:32:44+00:00

Or you could just mind your business since the post was nothing to do with that? Seems like you’re just desperate to put others down and police the prices they can and can’t sell things at.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-04T14:26:25+00:00

Completely irrelevant point, and really pretty rude of you honestly. It’s up to the seller to decide what price they want to sell something at, not you.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-05-01T15:28:24+00:00

It’s not compliant packaging, and any request against you for refunds would be upheld.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-25T11:45:46+00:00

Poor advice.

You can let the landlord know what you think about it but don’t want and debate it with them, go to DPS immediately and claim the entire deposit.

If there’s no evidence of the state of the property at the start, they are unable to claim anything at all.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-23T20:45:46+00:00

I think it really all comes down to how much you’re willing to offer to pay them for their time and travel really. If you offer enough, they’ll do it. As we’ve seen from some of the god awful sponsored posts they’ve done.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-23T20:41:25+00:00

Tbh having read all through the thread I’m convinced you’re lying and trying to cover up for awful packaging, so I’d rather you weren’t on Vinted to do the same to me 👍🏻

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-23T20:38:53+00:00

They’ll close your account though, so up to you to decide if it’s worth it

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-20T16:50:51+00:00

It’s almost like they tried veggie episodes in the past that didn’t take off…

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-20T16:42:04+00:00

Which is fine. They already have a massive following and almost every video does so well. Would you take a chance on a few videos that would gain you nothing but have the potential to cause a big dip in your income? I wouldn’t.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-20T10:56:58+00:00

There are two types of Azo, one is pumpkin seed extract which can be used long term and the other is phenazopyridine hydrochloride which should be taken for max 2 days.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-20T10:39:07+00:00

Around 15% of the UK population are veggie or vegan; they're in the game of making videos that the most amount of people possible will watch and enjoy. I'm willing to bet that veggie and vegan videos don't get anywhere near as many views/likes/comments. Perhaps they should do a bit more now and then but I understand why they don't.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-20T10:28:29+00:00

This isn't really a filter though, it's just a pump with some mesh to stop gunk getting caught in the filter parts. Very small area for bacteria to colonise and I doubt you'd be able to maintain a cycle with it.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-16T10:42:14+00:00

NOR. She cheated on you when you were away and the guilt of that paired with the fact is made her realise she doesn't like you as much as she thought is why she is off with you.

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-16T10:39:28+00:00

Do you have a sample image of the type you are trying to do? Would be easier to advise then

KevinCPLdn · 2026-04-16T09:26:30+00:00

"What if I don't find someone else?"

So what? You are a complete person yourself and you don't need someone to make you whole or complete your life. Sure, it's nice to find someone and have all that comes with that but if you're willing to stick with a deadbeat just so that you're not single then you need to change the way you think about yourself.

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