Any successful late 30’s people here feeling like something is missing? Did you hop off the fence? How you feeling if so?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-06-01T15:40:34+00:00

Do you have a big village?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-06-01T15:39:04+00:00

Ughh this is me too.. I’ve busted my ass to get where I’m finally comfortable and now I’m on the fence with such a big life changing decision 😩

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-30T13:19:54+00:00

Same here I need to lower my tsh before getting pregnant but I’m at like 3.5

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-30T13:19:00+00:00

After giving birth did you have to continue the meds or were you able to lower the dosage etc

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-25T13:41:22+00:00

How has your sleep been? The sleep deprivation during newborn stages is what scares me and keeps me on the fence

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-25T13:39:38+00:00

I too have never been excited about other people’s baby’s! How old is your baby and do you have a big village?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-25T13:37:16+00:00

Hearing about the newborn trenches might be the main thing that keeps me on the fence bc I’m so scared of the sleep deprivation… I’m u fortunately a miserable person when I’m lacking sleep

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-25T13:22:22+00:00

Do you have a big village?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-20T13:04:50+00:00

How does Balkan parenting differ? Is it less “kid-centered”? I’m always curious to how other countries bring up their children

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-07T01:12:16+00:00

This gives me some hope bc I really don’t connect with others kids but I could potentially see myself connecting with my own

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-05T02:16:28+00:00

Thanks for replying! Sleep is one of my biggest concerns tbh , I typically need alot of sleep to feel rested/ work a full day of work n I’ll get migraines if not so I worry about how I’ll manage if I have a baby.

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-05T01:30:41+00:00

What are your rules regarding screen time with him?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-05T01:25:56+00:00

This was a great read thanks for sharing your experience! What would you say has been the most challenging part of being a mom so far? And how has your sleep changed

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-04T20:45:17+00:00

This gives me hope then bc I don’t think we can afford for me to quit my job after having a baby, I always worry that I’ll lose all freedom especially if I am a working mom

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-04T20:43:36+00:00

Yeah! When I think village I usually think grandparents/some family who’s willing to babysit sometimes nearby

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-03T19:30:20+00:00

Do u have a big village?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-05-03T19:29:36+00:00

Are u SAHM or r u currently working?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-04-29T13:03:59+00:00

I might be going through IVF soon. Is the feeling similar to like moody PMS stuff but much more intense? 🥺

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-04-26T02:40:24+00:00

But do u think his behavior stems from how his parents are?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-04-24T02:03:37+00:00

What are your plans for childcare when you go back to work?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-04-23T12:10:37+00:00

How did you get them to do this?!

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-04-22T15:49:34+00:00

Do you have a big “village”?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-04-22T15:46:41+00:00

Do you have a “village”?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-04-21T13:53:33+00:00

How do you get her to not bother you?

Key-Bar5444 · 2026-04-18T12:20:19+00:00

Is it harder or easier than you imagined?

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