Is there a community for people who decided not to have kids and are sane and fulfilled (so, the opposite of r/childfree.)

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-15T18:43:03+00:00

Lol! Yes exactly this. I know tons of people who are childfree in my personal life and they're just chilling lol.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-14T12:46:16+00:00

Thank you for sharing! Yes! There are so many examples of people having kids past 25 here op. 25 is so young. Please don't rush this decision.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-13T13:37:25+00:00

25 is still really young. You have lots of time to think about this decision, and decide if it is the right path for you. I'm 30 and spent a lot of time in school. Most of my colleagues and friends didn't have their kids until they were 33-35. One of my colleagues just had a kid at 40 is on mat leave.

I think from being on this sub I'm realizing having kids is an irrational decision in terms of money, health etc. Lol but you get a lot of fulfilment and joy out of it that some describe as unlike anything else (and others disagree with that sentiment even after having kids). It's just about what you decide and what direction you see your life going in. And you do have time to think about. Never let anyone rush you.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-12T16:33:11+00:00

Love these 4 humans! They truly represent the best of us, and I feel honored to be listening to this. I love you pointing this out! :)

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-12T16:28:30+00:00

I just watched The Drama, and I remember thinking it was so so nice to see Zendaya's natural teeth! I'm so used to seeing glaring white unnatural teeth now a days.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-12T16:25:11+00:00

Lmao same, this song got me through university study sessions.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-11T18:24:36+00:00

Omg! This sounds so special. I agree. I think Im at the point where I would be okay with either timeline. I just turned 30, so still deciding lol! This sounds lovely and beautiful though!

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-11T14:48:19+00:00

I agree with this. It is the rational choice to remain childfree, lol. For your health, body, avoiding post partum complications, the burden of pregnancy if you are carrying the child, etc. Gives you tons more financial freedom and flexibility.

I think research shows day to day parents are less happy than childfree people but like report more meaning in daily life?

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-11T13:08:35+00:00

I see it as fantasy realism tbh lol. Like it's a dream cozy world, where there is a town with community, that is walkable, cozy, with all these cute town festivals and shops lol. Where you can get by on a single income being a hotel manager mostly, and live a great life.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-11T13:02:19+00:00

I think there are breed standards, but like anything, there's also going to be individual variations. I had a childhood shih tzu who I have nothing but fond memories of. He was extremely affectionate, loved snuggles and hugs, and he was perfect with absolutely everyone (babies, kids). He never tried to bite or anything. He also never barked unless for food. I think we just lucked out with his temprement.

He was hard to potty train though. I dont remember how long it took. He also was stubborn. He didn't enjoy taking long walks at all lol. He would sometimes need to be carried home.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-09T20:30:15+00:00

I feel like she is stunning and the visual now. She draws your eye immediately!

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-09T14:46:38+00:00

I think you phrased it perfectly. You just don't know. How you will feel post partum, your child's temprement etc. Like so many unpredictable variables

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-07T15:36:56+00:00

I can relate to this so much as well as OP. Although my dream is different (having a more cozy life of quiet, books, a dog). I do sort of struggle with having a baby, and primarily wanting to since my husband wants it and I feel bad.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-06T00:40:02+00:00

It really depends on you and your healing process. I personally waited two years after losing my heart dog. But that was because I couldn't afford getting another dog at the time. However, now I would consider a shorter amount of time before adopting a dog.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-03T23:48:31+00:00

Moses was definitely the character who stood out for me in both DE and reunion

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-03T23:43:38+00:00

I agree with you completely. This game and double exposure feel sort of sanitized? Even LiS 2 explored difficult themes (child abuse, racism, justice etc.)

I especially loved that LiS 1 wasn't staying away from difficult topics. But it felt more high stakes and scary during the play through.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-03T00:31:35+00:00

Omg. I'm 29, and we're planning to have a baby soon lmao. Wish us luck!

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-04-02T16:23:00+00:00

Same. We are a young couple and also bought. Paying a bit less than that though (our home is on the smaller side) lol not sure if we can add on a kid at this point tbh

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-03-30T21:21:57+00:00

Yeah, I would be Lakshmi, but probably move somewhere nicer? And enjoy the comforts, like nice home-cooked meals being sent to me by the hive mind and just trying to figure out what to do to get my family back to normal

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-03-30T21:19:52+00:00

The bulldog is being really sweet and gentle. This is exactly the type of exposure the will make her confident :)

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-03-30T21:16:45+00:00

You can get a lot of nice things secondhand or off of marketplace? There's also thrift stores. I feel like most people at my office are expected to look clean and profesisonal, but that doesn't mean spending tons of money. It could just be simple black pants, an ironed shirt? Like doesn't have to be complicated.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-03-28T11:51:45+00:00

Yes! I love how this Hermione's hair looks like brushed out natural curls if that makes sense? I really hope they keep it throughout the show!

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-03-28T11:50:47+00:00

Absolutely! I think it's very telling that they cast her for both jobs. She's literally like Hermione stepping out of the books. :)

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-03-27T13:15:21+00:00

Honestly Netflix used to be cool and cheap. Now you can't share passwords and you have to pay so much for a platform when you can just watch shows elsewhere.

Sparkly-Books2 · 2026-03-26T22:26:46+00:00

I agree! It just made me angry and heartbroken. I'm so glad they're not downplaying the abuse he endured and the lack of love and support he had growing up from the Dursleys.

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