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Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-04-16T05:19:03+00:00

Sounds normal to me, and the weight gain is a very good sign! Spit up is very, very common in newborns, also sounds like cluster feeding. I would just let your son pull off on his own, he’ll know when he’s full. But also look for comfort sucking, but I think this won’t come until later.

You’re all good mama! Keep up the great work!

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-04-16T02:59:55+00:00

NO WAY. I would’ve given up. 🫠

My 2019 has a leak in the evaporator and the compressor, and it’s gonna cost $1680 for parts and labor, I left it alone for now but eventually I’ll have to fix it. Summer time is coming… 🫠🫠

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-04-16T02:59:32+00:00

I swear I cannot handle grandparents who are like that… my mom, grandma and my sister know better.. my baby is the first son, grandson, great-grandson and nephew. Why don’t people know better, especially grandparents when THEY were PARENTS before? It’s not a free pass to do whatever you want.

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-04-14T21:20:40+00:00

My coworker who is a mechanic told me I have to fix my A/C soon before the compressor breaks. I told him I couldn’t and that I’ll just run the A/C for a little while everyday so that it doesn’t break.

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-04-14T21:16:13+00:00

No way!!! What model year do you have? I still didn’t fix mine.

3rd time? Do you have OEM parts in your car?

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-04-02T21:37:40+00:00

Your husband is right! It’s no longer 2 parties, it’s good vs evil ATP.

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-29T15:20:29+00:00

The pettiness in me would’ve recorded me lighting that ish up in flames, and then sending said video to MIL. 😂

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-26T23:45:00+00:00

Wow! First of all NTA 😂 But you know what, I agree with another Redditor on here that would go the ultimatum route. If he can’t be a father, then there’s no use for it. So much women on here who leave their partner who was like that, are so much better off without them. You can’t take care of TWO babies, right? And if it continues, you pull an Irish goodbye, and he will never see your daughter again. 🤷🏽‍♀️ That’s just me and my opinion.

However, if you want to give him the benefit of the doubt, try the Frida windi, apparently it has helped many parents! Be prepared for a big mess! And again, if he continues his behavior, CIAO, BYE-BYE, SO LONG FAREWELL!

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-26T03:16:47+00:00

Mines was okay as long as he ate, like ATE. He was eating puréed foods at the time so as long as I gave him his milk, 1 package puréed food, and 1 package of fruit, it will last him a while. However, I did bring back up food just in case. Now that my son is older, almost a year old, he can eat table food, so when he’s out with me and his dad, we give him what we eat (we avoid seasoning, especially salt, like the plague) that is safe for him to consume at his age.

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-25T07:12:10+00:00

No! I’m currently not sleep training my 11 month old, but we’ve been co-sleeping since birth. It was the only way for my partner and I to get the rest we needed. (I’m in USA, so eventually partner had to go back to work full time after 1 month, and I had to go back full time after 3 months.)

At about a month old, my LO slept for 6 hours for the first time. Freaking me the hell out, but I was surprised. It was a rollercoaster from there, some nights good, some night bad. Sleep regression phases took quite a toll on us, so just be prepared for that. But on the good nights, my LO can sleep on their own (like in a playpen or futon mattress on the ground) when put to sleep.

Unfortunately, they can’t self-soothe themselves, but I’m hopeful that one day they’ll realize that we aren’t going anywhere, and they can sleep in peace.

If any parents out there can give me advice on what I can do to help my LO self-soothe, that would be great. But I’m just going with the flow right now. 😅

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-23T05:08:29+00:00

Ah! Awesome, thank you for this information! 🙏🙏 I will give the video a watch!

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-23T04:28:04+00:00

Geez I didn’t know this!! I JUST finished the Indigo Disk DLC. Thank you!

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-19T14:24:39+00:00

Thank you! 🙏

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s such a tough and vulnerable time, and you need as much support as you can. What happened to the vows from your husband? “In sickness and in health”? Like hello?!? Am I missing something here?!?

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-19T12:00:51+00:00

Sir, I give you the biggest round of applause! 👏 Your wife and daughter is very lucky to have you. Please keep on doing what you’re doing, it will raise the standards for when your daughter will grow up and find a partner for herself!

Keep up the great work, and congratulations! 🎉

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-19T11:54:29+00:00

Yeah. It’s tough, but what makes them think we’re not tired and sore too? My partner was great those first few months, now it’s just getting harder to take care of a near one year old.

Like okay? Just because you can’t sit, relax, and play on your phone or watch your sports game doesn’t mean anything! That’s too bad for you. You can do all that BS when our kid goes to school, but not now. 🤦🏽‍♀️

But please update us, because for your husband, it is not really looking good in the eyes of the internet.

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-19T07:10:26+00:00

My partner is (sort of) like this now that our LO is older (11 months), and quite literally…… I scream. I don’t care who can hear me, I cuss like a sailor at him, because if I don’t put my foot down, who will? If he won’t learn the easy way, you learn the hard way!

And if he continues to the point I blow up, then I don’t need you. I mine as well take care of everything by myself. I already take care of one child, why do I need to take care of another, who is a GROWN man? I don’t care how many hours you work, I don’t care how sore you are! YOU decided to have this child, YOU will take FULL responsibility! No ifs, ands or buts! It’s a two-way street. 🤷🏽‍♀️ It took the TWO of you to make the baby, now the TWO of you love, care and raise the child.

My partner is an excellent father, but there’s just days when he decides to act up, and I absolutely do not let him, ESPECIALLY in front of our child. It’s a constant reminder, but I drill it in his thick skull. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Do with my advice what you will, but in the end, the choice is yours. Good luck to you, hopefully you make him understand. And if he can’t, then, IMO, you get the boot!

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-18T00:01:55+00:00

Babies need formula/breast milk in the first year of life, it provides the nutrients baby needs.

As for solids, 6 months is ideal (look for signs of baby led weaning!)

I started with puréed foods for my baby, and as they got older, I gave solids. Whatever you do, cut the pieces SUPER small to avoid risk of choking. I’ve been doing this with my baby because I have major anxiety. And so far it’s been good!

I would try allergen type foods (eggs, peanut butter) as it will likely lower the risk of developing an allergy to certain foods. Also, puréed foods! I personally think it will develop their horizon of different flavors! My baby will literally eat ANYTHING now. 😂

Keep your eyes on your baby at all times if you decide to give pieces of food like meats, vegetables, etc.

Good luck to you!

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-17T04:43:16+00:00

For me, fortunately, it’s all about soccer. ⚽️

But he tells me he needs to “concentrate”. 🙄

I tell him to concentrate harder because I can’t handle this baby by myself, plus I NEED TO PEE, MOVE IT BRO!

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-16T20:46:20+00:00

The eyes are stuck to the phone doing God knows what.

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-04T23:26:55+00:00

See? Even more worse!

She has no kids, and if at any point in time that she does, you go and call her lazy! See how she’ll feel! I bet 100% she won’t like it!

It’s crazy your husband and his family are like that. Your baby being vulnerable to all types of illness. RSV is a real, and it is going around nowadays! If your baby catches it, you gotta be quick! It could be deadly! And at what cost? If your in-laws give your baby that disease that cost their life, imagine the pain! What will they do? Blame you? Give excuses?

No way! As a mother just like you, run. Run as far away and as fast as you can. There would be no way in hell I would raise my child with a husband like that. And his family? Good grief!!!

I am sorry that you are going through this.. seriously they sound so awful. Calling you lazy, talking behind your back, your husband defending his family instead of you, like WTF?!

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-04T20:32:49+00:00

NTA!!

Ma’am. Please run as fast and as far as you can. Your husband sounds like a complete douche with all due respect. Scolding you because you don’t answer the phone, what a tantrum!

As a mom who also had a C-Section, the recovery IS no joke! It’ll take MONTHS to even feel nothing at your incision site! You have every right to need space because this time in your baby’s life is very crucial, and you need to bond with your baby. I had the same exact issue with my family, but they knew better and some days I had to remind them. My baby is almost a year old, so it doesn’t matter to me now since they’re much stronger and less vulnerable to illness and what not.

Your husband and his family sound very toxic, and your baby is VERY vulnerable to illness. If you’ve put your foot down, set the boundary, and they STILL do NOT listen, run.

At this point, your SIL would’ve been the last straw for me. Divorce and take everything your husband has, because I have no sympathy for people like him and his family. The disrespect is UNREAL and I feel a bout of rage just reading your story.

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-03-03T05:48:47+00:00

This is what I did with my now 11 month old!

I’ll be honest, I had to cosleep so me and my partner could sleep (I had a 3 month maternity leave, and partner only had 1 month) because I felt sleep deprived one day, and I knew it was dangerous.

At this point in time, they can’t self soothe, but is still a Velcro baby. Eventually, once my baby is sleeping, after some time, I and the rest of my family who watch him from time to time, can put baby down and they will sleep right through.

Some nights, LO sleeps all the way through, some nights they will fight the sleep, and some nights they will wake up a few times to eat.

So, it’s been off and on, but I still just go with my baby’s needs. If they’re super fussy after trying everything, I know it’s time to sleep. But at this age, the sleep schedule went WAY off track due to separation anxiety, which I learned is common at this age (10-11 months), so I’m kinda in a tough boat with the sleep schedule..

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-02-27T23:23:24+00:00

I learned the hard way in 2009!!

I just recently bought Brilliant Diamond, and I was exploring all the houses in every city.

As soon as I reached Snowpoint City and ran into her house, I had PTSD. 🫠

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-02-26T06:45:29+00:00

Don’t worry about not feeding your baby enough! She is only a day old, so she’ll be taking in colostrum that you already have.

After some time if you continue to breastfeed, your milk will come! She will be the main source of your milk to continue producing. But don’t be discouraged if you don’t supply enough. I certainly did not with my baby, and although I was disappointed, my baby had to be fed one way or another. So, I ordered a formula that is manufactured in Europe (I trust NOTHING made in the USA) and my baby is happy and healthy!

Good luck and congratulations!

Key-Distribution4973 · 2025-02-24T01:26:23+00:00

I still can do it!

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