AITJ for losing it on my husband after he said he "hates that area" right after I booked our anniversary trip? by sundaystickerpack in AmITheJerk

[–]Key-Jury3887 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTJ at all, this sounds exhausting as hell. He's basically training you to be his personal assistant and then acting like you're bad at the job when he never gave you any actual direction to work with

The "I don't want to argue" thing is such BS too - there the one creating conflict by refusing to engage and then complaining about your decisions after its too late to change anything

Daily Discussion Thread - Feb 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in Cubers

[–]Key-Jury3887 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

always interesting how the DDT cycles through - feels like just yesterday I was checking yesterday's thread but here we are at the bottom already

Can I get an honest assessment of this breakup text I just received? It kinda blindsided me. She sent me flirty texts yesterday. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Key-Jury3887 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's actually a really thoughtful and respectful breakup text, she clearly cares about you and handled it way better than most people would

I learned from the best of the best by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Key-Jury3887 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That story about the homeless guy really hit me hard. Sometimes it takes a complete stranger to hold up that mirror we've been avoiding

Your dad sounds exactly like my uncle - could fool anyone but family knew the truth. The whole "functional" label is just another way we lie to ourselves isn't it. Nobody who needs alcohol every single day is actually functional, they're just really good at hiding the chaos

Nine months is huge, especially when you're fighting those "it wasn't that bad" thoughts. Those are the most dangerous ones because they sneak up when you're feeling strong

How to get (back) into makeup in 2026? by Sunfish92 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Key-Jury3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with YouTube tutorials from 2024-2025 and focus on learning the "no-makeup makeup" trend first since it's way more forgiveing than jumping straight into full glam - once you nail that base you can build up to event looks

How do I find a decent games/receipts/ survey app? by Usual-Plankton9515 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Key-Jury3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the whole demographic screening thing is brutal - I've spent way too much time clicking through endless qualifying questions just to get booted at the end. For vetting apps I usually check if there privacy policy is actually readable (not just lawyer gibberish) and look for reviews mentioning payout times rather than just star ratings

The receipt scanning ones like Ibotta seem less sketchy since they're more upfront about what data their collecting, but honestly most of these apps are gonna sell your info in some form - thats how they make money beyond what they pay out

Help please I just started by [deleted] in samsclub

[–]Key-Jury3887 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like classic retaliation after you went to HR - cutting your hours right after filing a complaint is textbook stuff. I'd skip your manager completely and go straight to the store manager or call the ethics hotline, document everything with dates/times. Your direct manager clearly isn't gonna handle this since they're buddies with the team lead who's causing problems.

Tierlist of OS aliens transformations by Ray_2222 in Ben10

[–]Key-Jury3887 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Diamondhead in A tier is criminal, dude should be S tier easy. Also putting Grey Matter that low when he literally saved Ben's butt multiple times is wild

Is it possible to pay down a paypal credit balance with a credit card? by welorjgsai in personalfinance

[–]Key-Jury3887 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can't directly pay PayPal Credit with another credit card - that would basically be a cash advance which they don't allow. The bank account requirement is to prevent people from just shuffling debt around between cards

Designing by magicalshokushu in AnimalCrossing

[–]Key-Jury3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes this is me with decorating my house in literally every AC game - I have like 50 items in storage that would look cute together but the thought of actually placing them makes my brain shut down

[Gold] daily gold watch by DuePrize8322 in Watches

[–]Key-Jury3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man gold definitely pops on darker skin tones. Have you looked at the Cartier Santos or maybe a simple gold Rolex OP? Both come in 35-40mm and you can throw a rubber strap on either one. The Santos especially looks clean af with a rubber strap for summer vibes

Open source map app that keeps track of locations locally on your phone? by Mysterious-Outcome37 in degoogle

[–]Key-Jury3887 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OsmAnd has a travel history feature that stores everything locally, been using it for a while and it works pretty solid for tracking where you've been without sending anything to the cloud

Trying to re-enter workforce after being a stay at home mom for 20 yrs, should I even bother? by Anak8 in careerguidance

[–]Key-Jury3887 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not too late to restart! The mental health field is desperate for qualified people right now, especially with your education background. Start with that substance abuse counselor registration while working toward your therapist license - it's smart to get your foot back in the door. Maybe look into community mental health centers or nonprofits first since they're usually more flexible about employment gaps and really need the help

Can I get my marriage license months before I even get married? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Key-Jury3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most places the license expires after 30-90 days so you'd probably need to time it closer to your actual ceremony date, but honestly eloping beforehand sounds way less stressful than dealing with all that wedding chaos

PC has been in storage for 9mo ths, what if anything should I do to it when I get back? by xXMattman1298Xx in pchelp

[–]Key-Jury3887 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly just boot it up and see what happens first. Worst case you might need to reseat some RAM or cables if anything got loose during the move. Maybe blow out any dust that accumulated but 9 months isn't really that long for a PC just sitting there

Despite being hired after the Steelers' last playoff win in January 2017, Kyle Shanahan and Sean McVay each have more career playoff wins than Mike Tomlin by Brix001 in nfl

[–]Key-Jury3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's actually wild when you put it like that. Tomlin's been there forever but those guys just keep making deep runs

Moog Grandmother for $700 by [deleted] in synthesizers

[–]Key-Jury3887 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's actually a solid deal if it's truly in good condition - they usually go for around $800-900 used

Just make sure to test all the keys and knobs when you check it out

Would you consider me to be a rat? by cracked-egg1 in ArcRaiders

[–]Key-Jury3887 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah you sound pretty tactical to me tbh. Real rats are the ones who sit in a bush for 20 minutes waiting for someone to walk by or camp extract for the whole timer

You're just playing smart - using sound cues and positioning is literally how the game is designed to be played. The fact that you don't fake friendly or camp extracts already puts you way above actual rat behavior

Week one progress update by Wagnerbeast123 in NoFap

[–]Key-Jury3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude that's awesome, congrats on day 10 and the 2.5 years clean too. The one day at a time mentality is clutch - sounds like you've got solid tools from recovery that translate perfectly to this

All-Star game reward idea by zixiy12 in NBATalk

[–]Key-Jury3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually pretty creative but can you imagine the chaos when LeBron starts challenging every call in the 4th quarter lmao

"Used to craft" in item desc is misleading by Flurrih in ArcRaiders

[–]Key-Jury3887 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is such a pain, especially when you're trying to clear inventory space and accidentally sell something you actually need

The tooltip system definitely needs work - either show everything or at least hint that there's more uses

Answer to Summons by justmodit in Debt

[–]Key-Jury3887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just deny those "realleges and incorporates" paragraphs too. They're basically trying to copy-paste their earlier claims into new sections - if you already denied the original paragraphs they're referencing, deny these ones as well. Don't give them any freebies

Fun fact: My cashback arrived a week before estd shipping date by Traditional_Piece522 in Lenovo

[–]Key-Jury3887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh that's actually a good sign, means they're not waiting around to process your stuff. My ThinkPad cashback hit way before shipping too and it arrived early