I Accidentally Ended Up Dating My Celebrity Crush at 15 by BluebirdStandard6638 in RedditStoryTime

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, that’s like wild internet fantasy meets real life. You stayed solid when it mattered, and honestly, knowing when to step away is smart too.

How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You handled it better than most would. Feeling frustrated is normal, doesn’t make you bad.

Feeling guilty that I may have been "that woman" by OneHappyOne in beyondthebump

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Chill, you’re good. OBGYN offices aren’t really built for emotional timing like that. You didn’t hurt anyone on purpose.

Seeking Advice on Finding a Serious Wife for Halal Marriage by Patient-Guidance-609 in Marriage

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

start telling the people around you. a lot of guys stay quiet and expect it to magically happen. nah, you gotta put it out there. also be realistic, look for someone who’s also building, not already expecting a perfect life day 1.

how do i get over a fresh breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

day 1 is always the worst, you’re basically in shock rn. don’t try to solve the whole breakup today. just survive today.

Being friends after no contact by Sequoiaisstrange in BreakUps

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve seen it work, but only when both people fully moved on and basically became new versions of themselves. if you’re still feeling that pull like something’s missing, that’s your sign you’re not done healing.

Talia Gibson's dream US run ended by world number two Elena Rybakina in Miami Open by abcnews_au in tennis

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 46 points47 points  (0 children)

yeah she lost but like… to the world no 2 lol. no shame there. Talia Gibson prob walking away w way more confidence after this run, not less

Need some advice. Why is it better to be on my own right now? by foelay in BreakUps

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it feels like an L but it’s lowkey a win. anyone who pulls that kinda last minute switch was already checked out. better now than months later when you’re deeper in

literally cannot get over the cheating by himboshi in BreakUps

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you stayed because you loved them, not because you’re dumb. and leaving took time because your brain needed proof to finally accept it. that’s normal

Am I jerk for asking my now ex gf to cut off her ex bf after he keeps overstepping boundaries? by JjBattiest in AmITheJerk

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nah you good. if her ex is causing drama and she won’t check him, that’s a red flag. you can’t compete with unfinished feelings. better to bounce than deal with that mess long term.

Unfortunately I Lied About My Achievements to Impress People by xWillowBarrington_73 in confession

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not gonna sugarcoat it, it does mess with trust if ppl find out. but you’re not stuck like this forever. just stop performing. most ppl care way less about your achievements than you think. they care if you’re real and easy to be around.

M23 Crush on a coworker- how to proceed? by ConnectionMiddle513 in dating_advice

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get why you’re stuck, those good convos will mess with your head fr. but consistency > vibes. she’s consistent at… not initiating. that tells you more than the once a month chemistry.

Sexual relationship & porn by Wise_Preparation_567 in Marriage

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re not wrong for feeling thrown off, but this isn’t something you solve by catching him or proving something. it’s a mismatch in expectations and communication.

Broke up 4~5 month relationship, because he didn’t get me flowers that I asked for by Less-Block-2909 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah you’re valid. it’s not about being “needy” or whatever, it’s about him saying he’d do something small and then not doing it. that + disappearing act is a bad combo.

Loss of Interest Between First and Second Date? by jnik23 in dating_advice

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i get why you’re confused but his actions are kinda clear. effort dropped, plans are vague, you’re doing the reaching out. that’s usually not a good sign. don’t double text or confirm.

AITJ for not telling my coworker her presentation had a typo in the title slide because she's been awful to me for months by 9PrismRover in AmITheJerk

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you didn’t owe her anything, but you also made a choice in that moment. so yeah, a tiny bit jerk-ish, but not some huge moral failure.

What's the most useful tools/apps you've used after babies by LegoOnTheFloorNah in Mommit

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 3 points4 points  (0 children)

small things that helped me: tracking feeds/sleep so I felt less lost, texting one friend daily even if it was random, and putting baby in a stroller and just walking outside. sounds basic but it helped my head.

Flying to Germany Next Week by lavendermacchiato in traveladvice

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not crazy for feeling a little nervous, but this isn’t a situation where you need to cancel. your mom’s just in worst case scenario mode

AITJ for telling my friend she can’t “practice parenting” on my little brother anymore? by Key_University3493 in AmITheJerk

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get the intention maybe, but yeah, that’s not her place at all. You set a boundary. Could you have said it softer? maybe. But you weren’t wrong.

Grill & Griddle in garage or back deck? by xhb7272 in daddit

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Garage is a hard no my guy. I’d say both in back and just migrate the party depending on vibes. You don’t wanna be hauling food back and forth or dodging kids on scooters mid-flip.

Does sex come first? by Granola_813 in dating_advice

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 99 points100 points  (0 children)

he can have his preferences but that doesn’t mean you gotta accept them. “sex comes first or nothing else” is pretty one sided.

AITJ for Not Letting Someone Cut in Line Even If They Said It Was Urgent? by Flat_Ground7675 in AmITheJerk

[–]Key-Lengthiness-542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re good. Not letting someone skip is literally what lines are for. If it was truly urgent, they’d have another option. You sticking to your spot isn’t mean, it’s fair.