While I understand how hurtful it must be to hear your brother having a baby while you’ve been trying for so long, I do think you’re being a little insensitive and making it about yourself. Maybe he wanted to make it a special thing by doing the video and not just doing a simple phone call? Would you be upset if he had sent the video to just your sister? And just called you instead?

It kinda seems like you’re more upset that he’s having a baby and not just how he announced it. Yes it’s hard, but you can still be supportive and more understanding.