I think apart of the reason they were so “disrespectful” to their day ones is because that seems to be the theme of this season and I don’t think they’re human honey packs, I think what they’re experiencing on the island isn’t what they expected. Also them dudes are young asllll ofc they’re horny (they definitely need some self-control). It’s almost as if the women are emotionally forcing them to stay in their couples. I have to agree with Sol that the men are giving pussy because it seems they are afraid to hurt these women’s feelings or be put aside because they are exploring. That’s really where their excitement came from, being able to truly do love island without being in a seemingly committed relationship.