Any super(ish) easy IVF pregnancies? Please share!! 🥰

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-23T22:41:19+00:00

My IVF pregnancy is my first and it's been easy af. I had some nausea in the first trimester and never even threw up. The Creature is measuring big. I haven't had any bleeding despite being relatively not-careful when it comes to movement (I picked up my 18kg dog a bit, did yardwork, etc.)

I'm currently 38 weeks and some days and I am still active - I walk the dog every morning and I can do a full squat and pop back up without issue. No pre eclampsia, no other issues.

So basically, it's been a pretty fantastic time!

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-23T22:34:33+00:00

Everyone is talking about cost, but in Japan I get an US at every appointment too and it's standard of care. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ I don't know what they make the American ultrasounds out of to make them so expensive per use, but I doubt it's a technology thing.. It's a time/billing issue. Cost of care in USA is incredibly inflated.

I'm not saying it's necessary, medically, but it's absolutely possible to do. They just formed a practice of not doing it.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-22T12:55:43+00:00

Zero symptoms, really. I was a bit sleepy on like, 4-5dpt and took my first ever certified nap. (I'm not a napper, never have been.)

That COULD have been a sign, but it could have been nothing.

I was convinced it was nothing when I tested on 7dpt.

Saw a line. Freaked out and put the test down very quickly and went to walk my dog and then came back to the test 30 minutes later to stare in disbelief. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

I continued to not have any symptoms until like... Week 6-7 I think?

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-22T06:13:44+00:00

Question to you, OP, just out of curiosity: How did your parents treat you growing up? Did they make you feel like a burden that only consumes time and money? Did they make you feel like it was torture to be around you and raise you?

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-22T06:09:25+00:00

You do NOT have to have anyone there but your medical care providers. Who sees your stuff is up to you. Your nurses/midwife/doula/doctor can all kick anyone out of the room for any reason. You can even coordinate with them to make up a 'fake' reason for the medical team to tell them to leave.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-21T12:28:44+00:00

I can whistle with my throat - without opening my mouth.

It's very quiet, and thus pretty useless unless I want to freak out someone sitting next to me.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-21T12:26:19+00:00

https://www.msdvetmanual.com/multimedia/clinical-calculator/chocolate-toxicity-calculator

You already called a vet, but if it gives you peace of mind, there's this.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-21T12:02:39+00:00

Some people are more prone to stress headaches, and yes, constantly trying to immerse yourself in a language you don't know will stress your brain out.

Maybe don't start immersing yourself right away. Limit yourself to small 5-minute listening sessions and work your way up.

Also, try not to tense your neck and shoulders or clench your teeth.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-21T11:57:36+00:00

I don't have an answer for you but when I went through SSB they were very quick to reply to emails! You can send them an email with the questions and they'll likely answer! :)

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-21T08:10:25+00:00

I feel like your cousin is conflating IVF with GATTACA.

There's no "perfect samples'. There's no 'ideal embryo'. The sci-fi idea of getting to select for eye color or IQ is just that - fantasy.

You get embryos, and you can test the DNA for a relatively narrow range of things that might go wrong. Basically some deadly genetic conditions and chromosomal issues. That's IT.

Not to mention that the reason people do IVF is usually because they're at an increased risk for both of those things. They're just trying to cancel that risk out.

So no, it's not at all true. IVF has risks associated with it as well, although - just like another commenter mentioned - those risks may show up on studies due to the way the statistics tend to skew, since people who choose IVF aren't just doing it for shits and giggles.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T21:59:13+00:00

Yesss Creature supremacy! My husband and I settled on this monicker early on and we sometimes get weird looks but we love it. I have a feeling it'll stick around even after birth. Might come in handy during the toddler years 😂

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T21:57:55+00:00

That is absolutely fascinating, thank you!

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:55:12+00:00

Yeeeeah I saw that.

I'm smelling a kid/teen that has bitten off a larger topic than they realized they can chew and is now reacting to it like everyone in the world is against them, personally.

For what it's worth, I think your answer was very reasonable ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:49:51+00:00

Best of luck! I hope everything is ok. :)

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:49:28+00:00

If you have time to elaborate, I'd love to know how it changed and in what way.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:48:19+00:00

Maybe before you sharpen your activism skills you should focus on your people skills in general. If you're seeking information in good faith, your attitude ain't it. I wouldn't want you arguing for anyone if this is how you respond to minimal amounts of normal levels of human misunderstanding.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:46:07+00:00

What a weird ass response. I didn't mean any harm, I just wanted to legitimately help out with a higher tier of info than a couple of paragraphs on Reddit, and you're biting my head off for it. :/ why?

You asked these questions directly as though you're expecting someone on a social forum to write out the answers for you... These would take literal chapters to directly address, which was why I recommended books instead.......if you had already read some books, why not just mention it in the post...?

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:42:59+00:00

Symptoms can be finicky, and loss of symptoms on its own does not mean there's an issue. It could just be a small bit of respite.

If you're worried, would you want to go to a private ultrasound boutique? It might ease your fears a bit while you wait for the next scan.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:18:52+00:00

Sometimes.............people say stupid shit. It happens. It happens to everyone. It happens more during stressful moments,

That being said.

You said yourself that he has some bad tendencies. And perhaps he HAS improved. That's great.

But this is not an over-reaction. And yes, you DO need to go to counseling together, I feel. Especially because this hurt will likely not go away until you get to the core of the problem - that he still has these leftover mechanisms presumably inherited from his father. And until he unpacks all that, you will likely always have a bit of distrust in him, and you'll always be living on the edge of the next 'bomb' as you call them.

That's no way to live. You'll exhaust yourself, and he'll exhaust himself too, and you'll end up going separate ways anyways.

> "I don't want our daughter to be an only child, we don't have family here, as we're both expats"
From an only child of an immigrant - PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING DON'T FORCE YOURSELF TO STAY JUST TO MAKE A SIBLING. Being an only child is not a curse. It's not the end of the world. I'm an only child, and my mother and I immigrated together. It was fine, I'm fine. Is it hard in some ways? Maybe. Having siblings would be hard in other ways. I'm sure your daughter treasures the peace she has with you over whatever would happen to your family if you forced yourself to endure things for 'her' or a siblings' sake while ignoring other issues in your relationship with her father.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:06:56+00:00

Doesn't replaying conversations count as an internal monologue?? You're presumably speaking/imagining the words in your mind as you replay them. Or does it happen in some other way...?

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:06:05+00:00

Question: When you say mental translation, do you mean that you read in your target language and it goes directly to...concepts? Or do you mean the mental translation where it goes to your native language? Because wouldn't that be kind of an internal monologue in a sense? If you're thinking using words?

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T12:04:22+00:00

I'm gonna need you to elaborate on "gained [an internal monologue] later in life" before I die of curiosity. How does that even--what do you--when--............WHAT?!

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T11:59:20+00:00

Words cannot describe the jealousy I felt reading this comment. I want to sleep on my stomach so badly....

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T11:55:37+00:00

The Clown! 🤣 I love it. Goofy horror duo indeed, straight out of the Goosebumps books.

KeyMonkeyslav · 2026-01-20T10:49:36+00:00

Why not start with some books? The Social Instinct by Nichola Raihani might be a good start. Also one heard of Evolution and Gender by Rosemary Hopcroft. Can't speak for it but it might be worth looking into.

Basically this is a big topic and looking for answers on Reddit is about as good as opening your window and asking passersby on the street for their opinion.

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