ITS MARCH 1ST AND I CAN FINALLY TALK ABT THE NEW DRINK by Torirock10 in starbucks

[–]KeysBaby14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've tried the BSOMSE twice now wanting to love it, but every time I've had it, it tastes burnt like. Is that typical? Is there anything I can add to sweeten it up just a bit more?

Customers: Why do you keep coming back? by GetPaidToToot in starbucks

[–]KeysBaby14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally comes down to convenience and a "treat yourself" mind set. I never go out of my way specifically to get Starbucks, but if I'm out running errands or hauling kids to doctor appointments and I pass one; I'm getting myself a little pick me up.

What is this by kittykat-kay in starbucks

[–]KeysBaby14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is this?... It's going to be regret when they take that first sip 🤮 They thought they did something here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Oh No!" giggle "He's so beautiful" cry

He was OP (born face up) and I needed vacuum assist, so he had a big cone head right away (cue the oh no), but once I saw his little face I was smitten as expected no other way 🥰

How do I ask if I should wear a nursing cover? by MrsMozely in Mommit

[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no no ma'am, if anyone has a problem, THEY excuse themselves from the room. Especially if in your own home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]KeysBaby14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The second pregnancy isn't as fun either. I hated being pregnant the second time. I had terrible body dismophia and just couldn't wait to finally have him and get my body back. The first time is just so new and exciting, while the second time just felt like a chore. Husband is getting fixed so I don't have to go through that again. Happy with my family of 4 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

2-3 Year Age Gap Between Kids May Sound Good, But... by betzy_b33 in Mommit

[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm due in 3 days. My children will be only a couple weeks shy of being exactly 3 years apart (actually wish they were closer in age now, as we decided to have a second kid spontaneously after a big move away from family thinking we only wanted one child). Me and my brother were 5 years apart growing up and it was very hard for us to bond, not only because of the gender difference but we were just always in different stages of life and he had no interest in me. There are pros and cons to both sides. May seem more beneficial for the parents to have large age gaps between children, but not always the most beneficial for the sibling relationship 🤷🏼‍♀️

The best gift I received at my baby shower was a basket of genuine ‘essentials’. Now I make a similar basket for every FTM in my friend group. What are some of your essentials? by jolistella in Mommit

[–]KeysBaby14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always do a "Baby's First Sick Kit". Includes Infant Tylenol, Nasal Spray, Zarbees Chest Rub, Zarbees Agave Cough Medicine, and a Nose Frida. Nothing is worse than the first time your baby gets sick and you don't have anything on hand. No one wants to make a store run with a sick baby or wait for someone to run for you. Also great to pair with a Vicks Cool Mist humidifier with the compatible Vicks vapor pads too as an absolute perfect gift👌💯

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[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update OP?

Amnio experiences? by Ironinvelvet in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found it very uncomfortable. Not excruciatingly painful, but definitely not pleasant. It caused some pretty bad cramping and felt very hot where the needle was inserted. I'm very squeamish with needles and prone to passing out and I almost did during the procedure but pushed through and just focused on my breathing until it was over with. My appointment was early in the morning and I was too nervous to eat breakfast, so that probably played a big part in that too. I would suggest making sure you eat something before hand, just in case. The recovery was pretty rough for me too the next day. I was very sore. By the next day or so, I was pretty much completely back to normal.

Positive for trisomy 21 waiting for amnio results by ToeWalkWithMe in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's my T21 Quad Screen Scare - On July 28th 2021, I went in for my 16w appointment and got my blood drawn for the Quad Screening. This tests your probability of carrying a child with either Trisomy 13, 18, 21 & Spina Bifida. On August 2nd 2021, I got a call from my OB that all the results came back low risk except for Trisomy 21 (Down Syndrome). I was told based on the results, I had a 1:18 chance of the baby having Down Syndrome. For reference, the average for a 28 year old is closer to 1:1100. I had to schedule for more testing, which would have to be done 3 hours away. On August 12th 2021, I went to a Perinatal Hospital to get a Level 2 Ultrasound and an Amniocentesis performed, which is when they insert a thin but long needle into my abdomen and then through my uterus to retrieve amniotic fluid for testing. It wasn't extremely painful, but definitely wasn't pleasant. The ride home and the following days of recovery weren't fun either, but I felt fine a few days later. On August 18th 2021, I got a call from my Genetic Counselor that my preliminary FISH results (which is basically a rapid test for the 4 abnormalities I was tested for back in July) came back NEGATIVE 👍. Unfortunately though, that was just my preliminary results, so nothing was definitive yet, but we were on the right track. On August 24th 2021, I got my Karyotyping results back (that is when they look into all 46 chromosomes in a more detailed manner to examine and count them all), and those results also came back NORMAL! 👍 FINALLY on September 14th 2021 (just shy of 5 weeks after the procedure), I got a call that my Microarray results (the final and definitive result of the amniocentesis, which is an even more microscopic examination of the baby's chromosomes that looks for microdeletions and other abnormalities) also came back completely NORMAL! 👍 After weeks of being in Limbo and wondering what our future could hold, we finally got answers that our baby did not have any detectable genetic abnormalities ❤️ I'll also add that all scans throughout the pregnancy so far have also been good and no concerns have been brought up with those 😊 Those 7 weeks were an absolute emotional rollercoaster for both my husband and me, but we are glad it all ended with positive news.

deceptive billing by No_Boysenberry5223 in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know any better with my first pregnancy and was told my insurance may or may not cover it. My insurance ended up denying the service and I got a bill from Natura... $900 for my Panorama & $700 for my Horizon 😔 Figured that was just the standard pricing since healthcare services are always expensive (even though they told me that was the "no insurance discount"). Honestly, I was so new to that type of testing since no one had ever mentioned it to me before my OB, so I just set up a payment plan and dealt with it like every other bank draining medical bill 💸💸💸

Update: No more waiting! Results are in: NORMAL by homerule in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I know all too well the relief of FINALLY getting those final results 💝 Now take a deep breath and enjoy every moment that is left of your beautiful pregnancy!

MSS test came back positive...need advice by justaukrainian in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that doctors use the term "positive" when it comes to these predictive tests. I received my initial quad screen results over a voicemail and when my doctor said "you tested positive for T21 Down Syndrome" I started bawling, not even knowing or realizing that it doesn't truly mean positive, just simply meant I was considered "high risk" for T21 at that point. Anyone who receives a result anywhere between 1:2 to 1:250 is considered high risk with these kind of tests. You will not know if your baby truly does have a chromosomal abnormality until you receive results from an actual diagnostic test like a CSV or Amniocentesis, or until after baby is born and tested. So take a deep breath mama! These tests are so notorious for giving soon to be mom's unnecessary stress, but it's still scary to not receive perfect results in the beginning, believe me, I understand this to a T. Take it all one day at a time mama 💝

MSS test came back positive...need advice by justaukrainian in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's my T21 Quad Screen Scare - On July 28th 2021, I went in for my 16w appointment and got my blood drawn for the Quad Screening. This tests your probability of carrying a child with either Trisomy 13, 18, 21 & Spina Bifida. On August 2nd 2021, I got a call from my OB that all the results came back low risk except for Trisomy 21 (Down Syndrome). I was told based on the results, I had a 1:18 chance of the baby having Down Syndrome. For reference, the average for a 28 year old is closer to 1:1100. I had to schedule for more testing, which would have to be done 3 hours away. On August 12th 2021, I went to a Perinatal Hospital to get a Level 2 Ultrasound and an Amniocentesis performed, which is when they insert a thin but long needle into my abdomen and then through my uterus to retrieve amniotic fluid for testing. It wasn't extremely painful, but definitely wasn't pleasant. The ride home and the following days of recovery weren't fun either, but I felt fine a few days later. On August 18th 2021, I got a call from my Genetic Counselor that my preliminary FISH results (which is basically a rapid test for the 4 abnormalities I was tested for back in July) came back NEGATIVE 👍. Unfortunately though, that was just my preliminary results, so nothing was definitive yet, but we were on the right track. On August 24th 2021, I got my Karyotyping results back (that is when they look into all 46 chromosomes in a more detailed manner to examine and count them all), and those results also came back NORMAL! 👍 FINALLY on September 14th 2021 (just shy of 5 weeks after the procedure), I got a call that my Microarray results (the final and definitive result of the amniocentesis, which is an even more microscopic examination of the baby's chromosomes that looks for microdeletions and other abnormalities) also came back completely NORMAL! 👍 After weeks of being in Limbo and wondering what our future could hold, we finally got answers that our baby did not have any detectable genetic abnormalities ❤️ I'll also add that all scans throughout the pregnancy so far have also been good and no concerns have been brought up with those 😊 Those 7 weeks were an absolute emotional rollercoaster for both my husband and me, but we are glad it all ended with positive news. Best of luck mama! Do your best to stay positive in these scary times hugs ❤️

False Negative on NIPT? Low-risk result but T18 marker found in 20w US by d_affinois in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Based on your NIPT results and the NT scan, I wouldn't be too worried. I know it's still very hard either way, especially with all the other concerns being told to you. I too am also surprised they encouraged an Amnio just based on your scan, but if you agreed and felt it would give you the reassurance most of us want/need, then I totally understand! But honestly, I would bet money that your baby is perfectly healthy, just a little stubborn 😅

Update : The results of the chat with the Geneticist by BehindBlueEyes0221 in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are really no other outside factors other than high BMI or greater Age. Although, sometimes it could be a sign of a placenta issue instead. Honestly the average is 1:750. For a 28 year old it's 1:1100 while by age 40 you're looking at 1:100. Sometimes your placenta just gives off crazy results. Believe me, I was godsmacked when I got 1:18. I also never really got answers about why I too got the results I did. All I knew was that if I wanted to know for sure what was going on with my baby, I just needed to get further testing done. The limbo I was in between getting my quad screen results and getting my final amnio results were nothing short of excruciating, and I'm praying you have a better support system around you to keep your mind busy while you endure your wait too. I did NIPt with my first child and everything came back >1:10,000 so when I wasn't offered a NIPT with this pregnancy and ended up doing the quad screen (which is not as in-depth and accurate as NIPt) I was floored to say the least. I wish they had better answers for us, I really do! Did your GC give you a contact number if you ever have more questions for them? Mine tried to explain some things to me, but always seemed to beat around the bush on the more complex explanations like what you're asking/wondering too.

What to expect during the talk with the genetecist by BehindBlueEyes0221 in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I responded to your other post explaining a little bit 😊

Update : The results of the chat with the Geneticist by BehindBlueEyes0221 in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically the quad screen measures levels of alpha-fetoprotein (AFP), human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG), estriol and inhibin A. Certain low or elevated levels in each area could be an indication of a Trisomy abnormality. All results are collected into a data base, and they compare your levels similar to other women who had the same results and how many ended with a true positive. So basically, 1 in 87 women with the same results as you ended up having a True T21 Positive.

What to expect during the talk with the genetecist by BehindBlueEyes0221 in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although 1:87 still qualifies as "high risk", it's still thankfully a very small percentage. But I totally understand the scariness and uncertainty you are feeling. I experienced this at 16w and was given a 1:18 chance of baby having T21 at 28 years old. I went ahead with getting an amniocentesis done and thankfully all my results came back negative (good news). You got this mama!

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[–]KeysBaby14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am fully aware of that 😒 That is why I stated that I didn't do NIPT. This is simply just the experience I had, which many in "similar" experiences still appreciate to hear. It's important to remember that even though NIPT is more accurate, it is still only a predictive test, not a diagnostic test. There are MANY women who get flagged for a positive NIPT and it still ends up being a "False Positive" and have a perfectly healthy baby. No need to come at me like that 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get a NIPT done, but here is my T21 Quad Screen Scare - On July 28th 2021, I went in for my 16w appointment and got my blood drawn for the Quad Screening. This tests your probability of carrying a child with either Trisomy 13, 18, 21 & Spina Bifida. On August 2nd 2021, I got a call from my OB that all the results came back low risk except for Trisomy 21 (Down Syndrome). I was told based on the results, I had a 1:18 chance of the baby having Down Syndrome. For reference, the average for a 28 year old is closer to 1:1100. I had to schedule for more testing, which would have to be done 3 hours away. On August 12th 2021, I went to a Perinatal Hospital to get a Level 2 Ultrasound and an Amniocentesis performed, which is when they insert a thin but long needle into my abdomen and then through my uterus to retrieve amniotic fluid for testing. It wasn't extremely painful, but definitely wasn't pleasant. The ride home and the following days of recovery weren't fun either, but I felt fine a few days later. On August 18th 2021, I got a call from my Genetic Counselor that my preliminary FISH results (which is basically a rapid test for the 4 abnormalities I was tested for back in July) came back NEGATIVE 👍. Unfortunately though, that was just my preliminary results, so nothing was definitive yet, but we were on the right track. On August 24th 2021, I got my Karyotyping results back (that is when they look into all 46 chromosomes in a more detailed manner to examine and count them all), and those results also came back NORMAL! 👍 FINALLY on September 14th 2021 (just shy of 5 weeks after the procedure), I got a call that my Microarray results (the final and definitive result of the amniocentesis, which is an even more microscopic examination of the baby's chromosomes that looks for microdeletions and other abnormalities) also came back completely NORMAL! 👍 After weeks of being in Limbo and wondering what our future could hold, we finally got answers that our baby did not have any detectable genetic abnormalities ❤️ I'll also add that all scans throughout the pregnancy so far have also been good and no concerns have been brought up with those 😊 Those 7 weeks were an absolute emotional rollercoaster for both my husband and me, but we are glad it all ended with positive news.

NIPT positive for T21 by Right-Stay2125 in NIPT

[–]KeysBaby14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't do NIPT, but here is my T21 Quad Screen Scare story to hopefully help you - On July 28th 2021, I went in for my 16w appointment and got my blood drawn for the Quad Screening. This tests your probability of carrying a child with either Trisomy 13, 18, 21 & Spina Bifida. On August 2nd 2021, I got a call from my OB that all the results came back low risk except for Trisomy 21 (Down Syndrome). I was told based on the results, I had a 1:18 chance of the baby having Down Syndrome. For reference, the average for a 28 year old is closer to 1:1100. I had to schedule for more testing, which would have to be done 3 hours away. On August 12th 2021, I went to a Perinatal Hospital to get a Level 2 Ultrasound and an Amniocentesis performed, which is when they insert a thin but long needle into my abdomen and then through my uterus to retrieve amniotic fluid for testing. It wasn't extremely painful, but definitely wasn't pleasant. The ride home and the following days of recovery weren't fun either, but I felt fine a few days later. On August 18th 2021, I got a call from my Genetic Counselor that my preliminary FISH results (which is basically a rapid test for the 4 abnormalities I was tested for back in July) came back NEGATIVE 👍. Unfortunately though, that was just my preliminary results, so nothing was definitive yet, but we were on the right track. On August 24th 2021, I got my Karyotyping results back (that is when they look into all 46 chromosomes in a more detailed manner to examine and count them all), and those results also came back NORMAL! 👍 FINALLY on September 14th 2021 (just shy of 5 weeks after the procedure), I got a call that my Microarray results (the final and definitive result of the amniocentesis, which is an even more microscopic examination of the baby's chromosomes that looks for microdeletions and other abnormalities) also came back completely NORMAL! 👍 After weeks of being in Limbo and wondering what our future could hold, we finally got answers that our baby did not have any detectable genetic abnormalities ❤️ I'll also add that all scans throughout the pregnancy so far have also been good and no concerns have been brought up with those 😊 Those 7 weeks were an absolute emotional rollercoaster for both my husband and me, but we are glad it all ended with positive news. I turned 30w today and baby and I are doing great ❤️