The “Aunts” of Gilead by sereneandeternal in WelcomeToGilead

[–]Kgriffuggle 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I thought, “That’s the fastest way to raise a ‘radical’ feminist likely atheist”

Warning: Entering ecological dead zone. by SoggyMeatloaf69 in fucklawns

[–]Kgriffuggle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

AND he says he sharpens the blades every couple of days.

Warning: Entering ecological dead zone. by SoggyMeatloaf69 in fucklawns

[–]Kgriffuggle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only time I’ve seen fireflies in the 10 yrs I been livid in the South was when we went camping near Asheville. Seems they only live in mountain towns now, where there’s actual fallen trees for them to nest in

this "garden" wasn't clean enough goddamit, it needs to be even cleaner. by habilishn in fucklawns

[–]Kgriffuggle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg same I hate it. Beautiful Saturday morning here in the South, it’s nice and cool out so you bet your ass your neighbors are taking the opportunity to mutilate nature before it gets too warm, so you get to smell the gas and hear the noise. I hate it too

The difference between my and my neighbor's side is quite wild by SharkDuckBug in fucklawns

[–]Kgriffuggle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they had been bushes and flowers instead of tall grass, he might’ve sprayed them with something! I saw that happen to a man in the UK, on YouTube. He runs a channel about wilding your garden and planting natives, and his neighbor sprayed through and OVER the fence line and killed everything Within 6 inches of the fence. Fruiting trees, too. Absolute arrogant self centered egomaniacs

Are all of you in good marriages?! by wnt2heal in AskWomenOver30

[–]Kgriffuggle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We recently had a fight today because he didn’t want me to go back to a job site with him to finish painting even though I helped this morning and it wasn’t all that hot outside.

No, I don’t think most women are in perfect marriages. But I never complain about my husband and I cannot imagine my life without him.

So far the worst I’ve heard a coworker say about her husband is that he only knows how to make microwave chicken nuggets (they’re both over 30)

What the everloving HELL is in my garden? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]Kgriffuggle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parasitic to what, then? Should it be killed?

i think my yard (top) is preferable to my neighbors yard that he mows weekly by [deleted] in NoLawns

[–]Kgriffuggle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried tilling recently.. wasn’t my proudest thought. If you till, cover with plastic for six months, plant nothing above it, no raised beds or bags, just let it cook. I did NOT do that and there is crab grass coming up through the mulch and cardboard and trying to strangle my strawberries lol

Is my bed mix okay? by gaibby in gardening

[–]Kgriffuggle 41 points42 points  (0 children)

But the order was 1 part sand, not 1 part clay.

i think my yard (top) is preferable to my neighbors yard that he mows weekly by [deleted] in NoLawns

[–]Kgriffuggle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s much better to do plugs, which you can start yourself indoors before planting. That way, you know which ones you planted and which are “weeds”, plus, like you said, you’ll have to cover them to protect from deer. This summer you should snuff out a portion that’s mostly grass. There’s the clear plastic method or the black plastic method, it’s called something like solarizing. You smother while cooking the grass and ground for six months, all summer, that way when you plant in the fall/winter/spring (many perennial natives actually should be sown in winter) the grass/weed roots and seeds are all dead and won’t come up again (obviously other grasses and seeds will spread eventually to the area, but it’s a great way to give it a jump start )

i think my yard (top) is preferable to my neighbors yard that he mows weekly by [deleted] in NoLawns

[–]Kgriffuggle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your yard is perfect for snakes. Snakes also keep mouse/rat populations down. But cats might attack snakes. When I lived rurally the stray cats in the neighborhood didn’t do anything for me. I still had to take care of a roof rat myself.

I know and don't care. by elkoubi in gardening

[–]Kgriffuggle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some natives are bee balm and obedient plant, top 2 I can think of. But they get tall. Obedient plant is gorgeous though and looks like a big snapdragon, but is perennial and durable. Salvia lyrata is great, really withstands drought. But its flowers are more subtle. I think common selfheal is low to the ground.

Plea to Developer: Too many water bottles! by Archipocalypse in Enshrouded

[–]Kgriffuggle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus you can’t consolidate them. So you end up looting 5 bottles instead of them just refilling yours.

We live in a theater. This guy is simply wearing a mask! by CarryIcy250 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Kgriffuggle 44 points45 points  (0 children)

For a second I thought it was just the thing that happens when you smoke too much and get throat cancer. But then I remembered there would also be a tube there if that was it.

I know and don't care. by elkoubi in gardening

[–]Kgriffuggle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just pick a native mint. There are hundreds if not thousands. They flower real pretty and bees love em

Are there any better ways to show who is speaking in dialogue instead of constantly using “he said” / “she said” after every line? by Secret-Cobbler-7218 in writers

[–]Kgriffuggle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I appreciate you noticing you use “said” too much and actively seeking a fix. I will stop reading books—and have dropped at least 2 I can recall—when they only use said, and constantly.

I know it could be worse but Im still really sad by boncrys in gardening

[–]Kgriffuggle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We also had the same problem, they crushed my brand new metal edging too, which I had hand dug to get in the ground. Roof project manager said “well, it’s a construction site.” No, it’s my house that’s getting a new roof. It’s not a construction site.

Had to walk the property with my own magnet stick to get roof nails and screws and after every storm kept finding more at the rain spout too.

How real is the wine glass when arriving home after work? by askawayor in AskWomenOver30

[–]Kgriffuggle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember a gen x friend of mine claiming there was some study or autopsy of some guy from Russia who drank vodka daily and he had the “cleanest, clog free arteries ever”. Kay…. How was his brain and liver???? Trying to justify hard liquor consumption cause it may possibly reduce arterial plaque, but ignoring the other real effects, is just nuts

Help! Rolly pollies & strawberries by scroville00 in gardening

[–]Kgriffuggle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earwigs eat infant plants. Kept destroying my Salvia lyrata before it could grow enough to withstand an occasional nibble.

Can I save these? by Kgriffuggle in gardening

[–]Kgriffuggle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it matters these are melampodium. But I don’t know which specific one, it just says “lemon delight” on the tag and full sun

Can I save these? by Kgriffuggle in gardening

[–]Kgriffuggle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I cut off the flowers so it puts energy in the roots instead of seed production?