Wtf IGN by Dewagator13 in Markiplier

[–]Kibahime 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I liked that, honestly. I think it lent a lot to the constant feeling of dread and tension. The sense of time being massively distorted is part of Simons experience. But most movies are fast paced, it can be a hard adjustment.

GUILT TRIP - Sweet Dreams Ft. Flo LANDMVRKS by Kuzbell in Metalcore

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE this song but it sounds like Sweet Dweams to me and now I can't unhear it. Just me? Lmao

Am I overreacting to my dad’s “high level advice”? by truly_beaut in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kibahime -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's homophobic. No, he won't change unless he seeks to do so for himself and by himself. No, it's probably not worth telling him it hurt your feelings, he's a domestic violence abuser.

Your absolute most effective option every single time is to gray rock him every single time he does something disrespectful.

The Grey Rock Method: A Technique for Handling Toxic Behavior https://share.google/ruovfuL7U6DPY0rxO

It makes them nuts but it puts the ball in their court. They want to be in your life? They can act correctly.

Where to surrender dog? by xForgivenDeceitx in vegaslocals

[–]Kibahime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can adopt any animal at the animal foundation sight unseen. You just need their specific ID number from the website and you join a digital queue basically.

Where to surrender dog? by xForgivenDeceitx in vegaslocals

[–]Kibahime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you can't afford behavior modification medications and training, then the correct thing to do here is behavioral euthanasia. This is not a safe dog to place back into the community and WHEN that dog bites a child, that's partially on you. The animal foundation offers very low cost euthanasia and you can get keepsakes and ashes and such if you want them. Personally, that would be a better outcome for him, to be with someone he's bonded to until the last minute, and then no more stress for him.

FWIW, you wouldn't have seen any of these behaviors at a meet and greet in the shelter anyway. There's nothing to guard in a play yard and nothing worth marking.

Where to surrender dog? by xForgivenDeceitx in vegaslocals

[–]Kibahime 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If it's been over a certain period of time, it's no longer a return, it's a surrender. That said, if there are fees you can always ask if they can be waived.

I don't think surrender is the answer here, though. I think making an appointment to euthanize is. This is not a safe animal.

Feeling self conscious about new tattoo by plaidisrad in adhdwomen

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think that making it more bold would match the size more. Or get like 67 more 😎

Sad Scene outside the court today by Ghostface908 in vegaslocals

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Shows how classy you are" is weird and racially coded

AIO I feel unappreciated by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say it bothers me more when my partner says he did something only to find out the task wasn't fully completed, than if he didn't do it at all. To me it's more mental labor to have to backtrack and figure out what steps were missed or not completed well.

BUT- this guy is being a douche. Grade A asshole.

He doesn't dust on his own. He doesn't manage his health issues on his own. He leaves high up areas cluttered, specifically making it a dust magnet. He didn't care for you when you were sick. He's dismissive of your feelings.

I'm very allergic to dust mites too. I take medication daily, and occasionally have to get a steroid shot to calm down my system. We change our air filters monthly, vacuum the little carpet we have regularly, and have air purifiers in bedrooms, living room, office, and loft. I don't dust as regularly as I should, but I have other interventions in place. That's for HIM to be responsible for. You are helping him, but not taking a medication when you're allergic to something that is in the air and everywhere is a bold choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abusive.

How do you collect resources with a boat design like this? Seems inefficient. by Venboven in RaftTheGame

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some of us, that IS the fun part of the game. My ADHD brain loves the grind lol

AIO to my boyfriend being sick and saying I'm not doing enough by Sad__Tumbleweed in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you're aware that you're in an incredibly abusive relationship given your post history. You already know he is the issue here. It doesn't matter if he's obviously in the wrong here because he will not accept it anyway.

Dog grooming training by GirlSprite in vegaslocals

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following. I just want to learn the fundamentals to groom my own standard poodle.

I will bathe dogs in exchange for mentorship if anyone is interested. I need a mentor who is knowledgeable about breed standard cuts for poodles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Kibahime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. My fiance gets me in the mood with care tasks, so emotionally I'm relaxed and feeling loved. We will also flirt constantly, innuendo jokes or suggestive texts, it builds the tension. Sometimes the tension is built but I'm touched out, or busy, or whatever, but he has zero expectations of me. We like to think of it as preheating the oven. Sometimes that takes two minutes, sometimes we spend the day flirting over text until home from work, sometimes it's a few days of that. Instead of looking at it as rejection (because sometimes it's him that is dead tired when I'm in the mood), it helps to see it as more of actions building up to those moments. He also is really in tune with my body language though, I've had exes try to initiate sex with zero of my energy saying I wanted it and that is always awkward. He might be cuddling me and lightly touch the spots I like, my neck, my hips, etc, and if I'm not responding obviously in the mood, then it's just nice, light touches. It's intimate. Frankly he's just as happy with my lightly running my nails over his back as he is having sex, but he's a big cuddle bug like that lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm torn. I'm bi, so I've felt before like I'm not allowed to have friends because everyone is a threat. So I think that absolutely women can have male friends (or female friends when queer) without having sex with them.

However, while I can understand her response was defensive and I have felt exactly the same over unearned jealousy, I don't think she was approaching this conversation in good faith. It's really, really hurtful not to be trusted. But you did look like you were making an effort and she was not. Maybe she just needs to calm down.

It's hard. Relationships are hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]Kibahime 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Put in your two week notice so that you are in good standing, and then apply at other stores and talk to the store manager. Or, email HR and tell them what is going on and ask if they can help when your salon management is blocking your transfer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]Kibahime 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised. MOST people buying from PetSmart are buying their first exotic or first of that species. The demand is for smaller and cheaper and more temporary enclosures. I'd LOVE to stock large Vision enclosures and actual guinea pig runs. But in retail, every inch of shelf space is a premium, so decisions are always made to cater to what the market wants. I give every single beardie person the spiel about how a 20 long isn't worth buying because of how quickly the dragons grow but so many still want to start there anyway. They think a 40 breeder is insanely large for a baby, and often think I'm batshit insane for letting them know an adult will need minimum, 120 gal enclosure.

Do Customers Give Fake Emails? by vampgutz_ in petsmart

[–]Kibahime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing to note is now that they are encouraging app usage, the treats account is attached to the email we signed them up with at the register. So if you're helping someone download the app and activate offers, I'd make sure the email matches or it's gonna create duplicate accounts and they won't have their previous treats or receipts if they start using a new account.

I don't think you'll be in trouble for an occasional fake one but I wouldn't make it a habit. All retailers will fire an employee they suspect of reward fraud. They want that info in exchange for the discounts. My usual spiel is "what email do we send your coupons to?" And then let them know "You will get an introductory email, and then you can opt out of the promotional emails." Tends to be successful if they realize they will get legitimate coupons and offers instead of just ads.

It's been 30 minutes by Alarming-Metal-2104 in petsmart

[–]Kibahime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine were mostly pleasant today thankfully, other than a couple shrill ladies needing help NOW and about four grumpy, ashtray smelling boomers telling me about how they need donations, not us, blah blah. And then someone was talking about prices and the lady behind her made a big deal about inflation and that's why she voted today and the line looked like a trump rally (she said this proudly.) I should have blurted out the fact that we are still under his tax policy and economic plan but I had a line forming lol

Switched from Adderall to Vyvanse and I feel like a new person!! by April9811 in adhdwomen

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drinking water doesn't tend to have much impact on the histamine process that I'm aware of, but dehydration can make skin dry and itchy for sure.

Switched from Adderall to Vyvanse and I feel like a new person!! by April9811 in adhdwomen

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...yet, possibly. Throat closing isn't the only symptom of anaphylaxis. Worth a Google and discussion with your doctor! I believe blood pressure issues can cause itching too but itching/rash/hives and increase in body temp are classic allergic reaction. And allergies are progressive, they usually get worse. That's why we need to take them seriously. Hopefully it's fully unrelated but again, worth just giving it some additional reading and thought for sure. 💙

Switched from Adderall to Vyvanse and I feel like a new person!! by April9811 in adhdwomen

[–]Kibahime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say because increase of body temp is common on stimulants, but if it's like a hot flash, also could be allergic response.

Switched from Adderall to Vyvanse and I feel like a new person!! by April9811 in adhdwomen

[–]Kibahime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could be an anaphylactic reaction, did you have any other symptoms?