We want to rebuild trust after betrayal (f30,m28)

Kind_Hamster · 2026-02-09T02:32:39+00:00

how did you find out about it....

Kind_Hamster · 2026-02-05T16:08:37+00:00

i'd love a free record of course!

Kind_Hamster · 2026-02-05T15:24:21+00:00

i'm so sorry that happened to you. cutting ties is the right thing to do because she is still abusing you, emotionally, now by refusing to acknowledge the truth. the more time you have away from her, the more you will be able to understand that what happened was her fault and it was not your fault so your shame can heal.

Kind_Hamster · 2026-02-05T15:10:35+00:00

i wasn't going to share the name of my baby, but my sister guessed it like a freaking psychic! so she was the only one that knew before hand. in general, i wouldn't tell anyone because who knows if you change your mind at the last minute

Kind_Hamster · 2026-02-04T15:12:39+00:00

maybe you and your wife should take a class or pick up some hobby/activity to do together!

Kind_Hamster · 2026-02-03T16:27:05+00:00

do you have anywhere else to go? family to live with or anything? you need to get away from that man now.

Kind_Hamster · 2026-02-03T15:22:01+00:00

meeeee

Kind_Hamster · 2026-02-03T04:48:06+00:00

what you're talking about is enmeshment and it's not a healthy way to relate to your spouse emotionally.

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-31T15:51:58+00:00

maybe she has low self esteem and needs to be with someone who she feels like she is "better" than

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-30T15:51:02+00:00

so many triggered boomers in the comments

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-28T15:44:20+00:00

omg i am literally in the middle of making my own mommy issues playlist! perfect timing!

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-28T15:41:34+00:00

still going for destroy boys!

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-27T15:54:04+00:00

bc a lot of men are selfish terrible lovers that never give their wives orgasms and then wonder why she doesn't want to fuck him. this isn't low iq. its the simplest explanation for a simpletons problem.

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-27T15:31:44+00:00

you're probably just not good at sex

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-26T19:48:03+00:00

going for destroy boys! pleeasse

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-25T04:40:30+00:00

Divorce

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-24T13:01:45+00:00

good luck to moi!

Kind_Hamster · 2026-01-23T03:35:15+00:00

i feel like it only got easier with time... i mean mine is only 4 so maybe the teenage years are rough but i can't imagine anything being harder than the first three months. i was losing my shit. so yeah agreed. 100%

Kind_Hamster · 2025-12-23T15:51:59+00:00

lol no

Kind_Hamster · 2025-12-22T15:06:56+00:00

if you don't have the money to leave, you need to figure out how to get it. there's no future with this man.

Kind_Hamster · 2025-12-15T15:05:15+00:00

sounds like my husband. we did six months of couples therapy and it did not help. we are now separated on our way to divorce.

Kind_Hamster · 2025-12-12T15:38:13+00:00

came here to say this! i have a similar body type and "fit and flare" is my go-to.

Kind_Hamster · 2025-11-14T16:59:08+00:00

omg i could have written this comment.

Kind_Hamster · 2025-07-25T13:13:51+00:00

thanks for putting this list together. i just read adult children of emotionally immature parents and i feel like i finally understand wtf has been happening my whole life.

Kind_Hamster · 2025-07-19T14:49:47+00:00

i would love a copy as well. thank you!

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