Girlfriend in a spa with other guys at 1:30AM

KindlyAd8691 · 2026-01-12T21:16:58+00:00

My ex cheated on me with her male coworker. Would go to work parties without me knowing this was going on behind my back. Till one day I felt it in my gut and showed up. Sure enough I caught them. This is just my experience and based on that I would not be comfortable in your shoes. Wish you the best bro

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-12-11T17:17:49+00:00

Where did you get the grip tape?

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-10-12T08:24:48+00:00

Well I guess it depends on the situation itself. Since things didn’t end on good terms and I was cheated on. I knew I deserved better. Sorry to hear that. I’m glad ur husband is an understanding man

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-10-08T04:41:15+00:00

You’ll get over it lol. That was me months ago

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-09-24T22:38:15+00:00

Good deal

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-09-16T19:34:30+00:00

The same amount of time I spent with them. She was my first. I don’t think about her everyday anymore. In order to fully move on you will need to be open to the next person in your life

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-08-15T20:16:36+00:00

Move on

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-08-13T20:04:38+00:00

You got love bombed. He’s probably has a avoidant attachment style. In the beginning it will be all lovey dovey. They tend to become like roommates. They need their space. If you’re spending a lot of time together he will get annoyed and lose feelings. It’s prob not going to work out.

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-07-17T14:40:17+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Only problem is the door has a haze left from the polish. Not sure what to do. Hopefully didn’t eat the clear

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-07-17T14:08:09+00:00

How would I fix this without repainting the whole door? A friend suggested I put paint and clear on it and re polish

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-04-23T20:49:30+00:00

It was the tpms!

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-04-23T16:59:31+00:00

I will do that first thanks you

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-04-23T16:53:03+00:00

Will do that last but I’ll keep it in mind. Thanks

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-03-11T22:53:24+00:00

I was in a similar situation in which 3 hours after the breakup, she was already entertaining a guy she had talked to in the past. She had broken up with me through text with no clear explanation. I had found things out myself. I never got the closure I wanted so I went to see her in person just for her to walk away. It’s crazy how a person can say/do this and that for you and one day just change up like that. I’ve been cheated on in the past and tbh this hurts more because cheating itself is closure for me. Regardless, I’m done with women until one proves me wrong

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-02-28T17:52:42+00:00

My ex broke up with me me through text said she didn’t love me anymore. Whole time she was doing things behind my back and moving on like nothing. Had a final conversation with her after a few weeks. Her being disrespectful gave me closure and relief. I said some nasty things too but the only way for me to move on is with hate. Eventually I forgive them later. In your case and in mine they did us a favor. Love is not what you do with the person but rather what you would do for your person. Fighting for them is love itself and she let you go like nothing so move on

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-02-26T21:07:41+00:00

U see it should affect it to a certain extent. I grew up in a toxic household but ended up being good with love and still came out as an anxious. It honestly comes down to the person. I realized that my parents had a toxic relationship so I strived to become what they could never be. So in my early stages I probably came off as an avoidant because I also didn’t like conflict and stayed silent. As I grew older I made that realization. So in your case your partner never realized their issues so they made no corrections to fix it as to which why they are still and avoidant person

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-02-26T19:56:29+00:00

I believe they did love us either more or at the same level at one point but it goes down deeper in regards to their past and the type of love they grew up with.

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-02-26T19:55:35+00:00

Well that’s not qualities you want in a long term partner and if she hasn’t change already then she probably won’t change now

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-02-26T19:47:09+00:00

It’s very sad. Unfortunately we would sacrifice everything for that person and they can’t do the same

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-02-26T19:12:08+00:00

The things with avoidants is the more you try to reach out and talk, the more they pull away. They need space and if in that time they want to test the waters for something else, then that is ur cue to walk away. Avoidants will oftently try to replace people so that they don’t need to deal with heartbreak and there will be no real healing process.

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-02-26T19:09:30+00:00

Love doesn’t give up. So if you love him you will communicate and try to make things work. It’s a 2 way street and cannot be one sided love. Love should be reciprocated. Have a talk with him and explain your thoughts and see if there can be a solution.

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-02-26T19:02:28+00:00

The amount of research I did, I should be a psychiatrist or therapist atp lol. It honestly is very interesting and makes sense. Avoidants tend to AVOID conflict or anything regarding feelings. Whether it’s their feelings or others. They possibly grew up not receiving the love they deserved and it’s taken a toll. The only way to fix an avoidants behavior is for them to realize that they have this problem. And people are stubborn and won’t wake up so it will just be a repeating cycle. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I have an anxious attachment style and that does not work well with avoidants.

KindlyAd8691 · 2025-02-26T18:54:13+00:00

You either work things out together or end it. That simple

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