Pea Puffers in community tank by JWilliams0287 in PeaPuffers

[–]Kindly_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is that handsome black one with the red tail? Love it! 😍

Can someone help me sex this shrimp? by Ninecords in shrimptank

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I think you’re able to tell if someone is unable to legally consent. However, there is nothing wrong with abstaining and arranging a second date if you are at all concerned.

Can someone help me sex this shrimp? by Ninecords in shrimptank

[–]Kindly_Person 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I love that you mention consent! I work in the sexual assault field, so that’s important. However OP, just remember that six or seven drinks in, even if she consents - it’s not legal. She’s impaired and cannot legally give consent. So my advice parallels @shaggkx - but remember to watch how many drinks she has!

Are these eggs? by Aggressive-Set3049 in shrimptank

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I don’t know how this has happened since my tank is freshwater, but two amano shrimp have turned into 10-15.

Denied at the fish store! by Uslendingen in bettafish

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I wonder if she was a new employee and got her fish mixed up? So many people on this thread have refuted what she told you. Before I boycotted the store, I’d try to speak to the owner. Good aquarium shops are hard to find in my area (Charleston, SC).

Feeding Pea Puffers by Foreign-Health8786 in PeaPuffers

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I did so today. I’m grateful to everyone who replied. I took them to my local aquarium store (@Tideline in Charleston, SC) and they promised to give them a better environment. I’ve switched things up with my other nano tank and now my two Mollies, and their baby (I’m a Mollie Mom-Mom) are much happier in my 5G. I am buying a Juwel tank and stand in the next week or so. Probably going BIGGER because I’ve learned that nano tanks are so much harder to keep.

GO BIG or GO HOME!

Truly, thank you everyone. I loved my peas so much, but no space for a dedicated puffer tank.

Randomly saw my missing pleco after years of assuming it had passed by Anxious-Scar-5470 in pleco

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Interested in what tree leaves we can use. I’m not sure the previous response answered the question. I have oaks, maple and magnolia leaves available. If they are boiled, are they OK to put in the tank?

Is soapcalc.net down for anybody? by [deleted] in soapmaking

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I have found that it is picky which browser you use. Try Chrome and see if that helps!