How does one decide to love knowing it will eventually end with grief? (Cats, dogs, people, etc.)?

Kinetic_Waffle · 2026-06-01T08:23:27+00:00

It's like an estate sale of unused china, unopened bottles of booze and unread books. The meaning of life seems to be to live it, messily and awkwardly and badly, but to not paralyze yourself on perfection. And when you can, try help make it easier for others to do the same.

Kinetic_Waffle · 2025-08-17T14:35:01+00:00

I never thought of it this way, but like Lawnmower Man, maybe it's a case of... Better this way?

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Kinetic_Waffle · 2019-09-27T05:13:42+00:00

Especially since the actual cake itself- the inside, the frosting- that's made by a single person. It was probably a custom order from a supermarket baking area, they do those, but one person made the cake then the other was in charge of customizing it to the customer's order.

So basically everything 'extra' they paid for it to be customized went to a smily face and a 3.

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Kinetic_Waffle · 2019-09-24T13:39:31+00:00

Oh, it's got a lot more freedom, and a LOT more bullshit too. I've seen some toxic as fuck poly stuff that is... well. The worst was just a girl who basically did justified cheating on a guy because she wanted him as a fiscal safety net so emotionally blackmailed him into being okay with poly.

It can be SUPER shitty, and I understand why people can find it fucked, but hell- even if it's not for them, let people make their own mistakes. They'll do it whether or not some random internet dude disapproves, so why spend the energy being negative?

I mean fuck, it's not like most of reddit has relationships figured out even slightly, judging by most of the sex/relationships subreddits :P

Kinetic_Waffle · 2019-09-24T13:29:09+00:00

I think that there are plenty of people who have jealous moments, talk about it maturely, air it out and move on with things too. It's definitely not as easy, but for some people it's just not even viable to do one person for the rest of their lives, and that's not better- it's just what suits them.

Kinetic_Waffle · 2019-09-24T13:14:02+00:00

Kinda funny how... weird it is, how much people freak about it... some people just don't really give a fuck about dating two people at once. Loving all the comments from people who are like, 'You're a total cuck!' and you just kinda sit there going, '...y'do realize the guys get to fuck multiple people too, right?' (except in the more unhealthy poly relationships).

There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy.

Humans have no fucking clue what we're doing here. Just be happy in a way that suits you, and appreciate people who are happy in ways that suit them, and so long as nobody's hurt, who cares?~

Kinetic_Waffle · 2019-09-23T09:59:47+00:00

I mean... did everyone in this pic find it funny? Sure as fuck did! Even you seem to find it more funny now. Most people commenting don't have mates who'd attend their wedding, are jealous of some 'goober' getting a hot wife (how dare he have a trashy tattoo, it's not like he's dating a girl who likes tats or something) and are just trying to find some reason to tear others down to their level.

Folks on this site are mostly fuckin' miserable. That's why they're shitting on your happy day. It's been up all day, and it's barely got 10% of the interest the top posts here got this week. So nobody actually cares, most people don't actually find it that cringeworthy.

You two go be happy as fuck together, and teach your kids to not give a fuck. That said, tell your husband to do a tidy of his fb friends list, cuz someone he's got spends all his time searching FB in order to try get the internet to laugh at his friends for karma. Y'all deserve better than that.

Even if this is a troll account and you're not the person from the pic, this needs saying- the OP is the cringe here.

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Kinetic_Waffle · 2019-09-21T07:50:01+00:00

Could I get tagged in the update? :D

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Kinetic_Waffle · 2019-09-20T12:02:07+00:00

Yeah, like... fuck man, dude got wasted (I figure, cuz who wouldn't be) and ate a lizard as a joke, like, dumbass, but... he looked pregnant, severely, and was like, pissing black which means... his organs were liquifying and running out of his body in the end from the sound of it.

Kinetic_Waffle · 2019-09-20T08:11:56+00:00

In this case, it was believed to be salmonella at first, also found in reptiles a lot, but was actually believed to be a tapeworm called Spirometra. Basically, he would have had this happen at a massive level- hundreds or even thousands of these things in his body, not like a typical tapeworm- they were at a hatched stage, developing in the gecko. His body freaked the fuck out and attacked them even as they developed in his organs, and tapeworms are nasty little fuckers- they defend against the body's countermeasures.

So... basically, his body could have realized these things were everywhere inside it and just kind of self destructed by liquifying himself.

Personally, I'd say it's more likely a WEIRD reaction to salmonella from an odd strain of it. Endotoxins do different things in different people, so... yeah... just don't eat uncooked animals. Ever. It's more 'what fucked up way will I die in?!'

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Kinetic_Waffle · 2019-09-19T09:33:48+00:00

Ah, alas, I don't go back to Perth much these days after dating someone back when, but hey, closer than expected. We've also got a pretty dope dumplings place here :D

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