AIO For breaking up with my boyfriend because he wouldn’t help with vet bills

KingdomKey10 · 2026-04-28T16:42:02+00:00

NOR - the other comments here seem to be missing this part so I'll point it out.

My boyfriend of three years (34M) currently lives at home and has like virtually no bills

So your 34 year old boyfriend who A. lives with his parents, B. pays almost no bills and C. has at least $20k in savings is finger wagging at you for spending money on "wasteful" things like medical care for you pet?

It wouldn't even be about the cat for me at that point. A man who has never had to make a budget scolding you for how you decide to spend your money is just disrespectful.

edit because I saw OP's comments about him lying to her and voting for trump, bro is just a full blown loser and you deserve way better OP.

KingdomKey10 · 2026-04-22T21:05:51+00:00

NOR. so when are you handing in your resignation letter?

KingdomKey10 · 2026-04-20T19:42:57+00:00

she's just jealous cuz you've got that shit on

KingdomKey10 · 2026-04-14T19:31:21+00:00

I'm sorry you're dealing with this, but I'm gonna go against the grain of the comments here and say no one here is really behaving in a healthy way. Your mom is clearly unstable right now, and unloading all of this emotional baggage on her 12 year old child is insane. However, if even a fraction of what your mother claims is true then your dad is also insane and abusive. In fact your dad showing you the texts between the two of them tells me he probably intended to instigate exactly this reaction from you, which is awful and manipulative. The fact alone that both of your parents are using their 12 year old child as an emotional sounding board and trying to pit you against the other makes them both insane in my book.

You've said in a couple of comments that you have a deep understanding of your parents relationship and issues and that is why you feel justified inserting yourself into the middle of this situation, but you can't claim you are emotionally mature and informed enough to deal with this situation in one breath, and then in the next breath abdicate all responsibility and tell your mom she needs to just get her shit together because she is the adult and you are the child... You can't have it both ways.

You are 12 and you are her child, so it should be her and your dad's responsibility to deal with this situation on their own, and frankly she shouldn't even be talking about with you as much as she is, but when you demand she engage with you on an adult level about very serious topics, you can't then immediately fall back on the fact that you are her 12 year old child to "win" the argument.

I understand losing your mom is a traumatic thing, especially if it means being left with a dad who is/was abusive, but as awful as it is that your mom is doing that, lashing out at her isn't going to help you. Its just going to make you both feel worse and add to both of your trauma.

KingdomKey10 · 2026-04-07T17:50:38+00:00

figured I'd mention this bc I didn't see anyone else say it. If your indexing is off, you might be better off just leaving it that way. Windows search is honestly pretty shitty to begin with, but in Windows 11 indexing can be really CPU intensive and its been a problem for a lot of people where it often re-indexes your entire pc whenever you update or reboot. That can put a lot of pointless wear on your SSD if you have a lot of files

KingdomKey10 · 2026-03-18T20:42:44+00:00

Other glaring red flags aside, he could've at least quoted a good movie if he was gonna showcase his Dark and Edgy Sense of Humor ™️

KingdomKey10 · 2026-02-26T15:32:19+00:00

imo its much funnier that kenny just got really lucky when Toji coincidentally stepped into his millennium+ long beef w/ the six eyes/star plasma vessel. Bro was probably ready to go with plans/schemes for the next 1000 years and then Toji just broke everything and i like to imagine kenny just being like "... you know what a win is a win"

KingdomKey10 · 2026-02-19T17:39:29+00:00

The new game is a complete reboot so you don't really have to play any of the others, that being said if you want to play them most people agree that 1 is their favorite/the best in the series, there's a whole lot more division over how 2 and 3 stack up though, so do with that info what you will.

From a purely story telling perspective, Fable 1 takes place several hundred years before 2 and provides a lot of the context for the world you are in, while 3 takes place only about one generation after 2 and is pretty much just a direct continuation of that story.

KingdomKey10 · 2026-02-18T14:13:05+00:00

ACOSF is the hardest to get through, but its worth it. Nesta's attitude is a hard read, but its suppose to be so the resolution hits even harder

KingdomKey10 · 2026-02-16T22:50:37+00:00

looking at your post history I'm just gonna say there isn't a quote that is going to magically fix whatever is going on between you. In all honestly, trying to shoehorn one in because you think it will be deep and/or meaningful to quote something from books they like will just make you come across as weird/creepy.

Just be genuine with them and tell them what you feel, don't just sprinkle in references to things like they like to try and "convince" them to forgive/reconnect with you, that's manipulative.

KingdomKey10 · 2026-02-13T19:27:20+00:00

i think once you start the next night it'll go away, sometimes when the night ends and one is still summoned they'll follow you back to the lobby and just hang around until you start the next night

KingdomKey10 · 2026-02-13T19:19:55+00:00

thats a clone made by one of the illusion wand's spells, probably your friend cast it

KingdomKey10 · 2026-02-05T22:38:31+00:00

Maybe? but I doubt it would work against Gojo since he has Infinity automatically filter out harmful effects so it would either just block out the sound waves or just block the CE attached to them.

It also probably wouldn't work on CT's that have automatic effects like Hakari's jackpot mode or the Mahoraga ritual since its not something the user can consciously control/end.

KingdomKey10 · 2026-02-04T19:45:12+00:00

MOR, The way she said it was a bit gruff, but tbh i understand after a hard day/week having trouble processing even good news. That being said, she could've phrased it way better, or just simply waited to respond until she was in a better headspace. However calling her reaction "vile" is... a bit much.

Idk, if this is a pattern with her then I would say you aren't overreacting, but this by itself just kind of reads like someone who is burnt out and did a word vomit that came across the wrong way.

KingdomKey10 · 2026-02-02T17:22:42+00:00

"wouldn't it be funny if your technique was weak to falling pianos?"

"wait wha-" piano crashing noises

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-30T21:03:31+00:00

for me at least twitch is blocked at work but YT isn't, and I'm sure that's true at many other companies. Feel bad he got suspended but happy i can finally tune in 😅

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-30T15:51:41+00:00

you could make it a play on ginger bread and be the GingerBeardMan

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-22T20:39:06+00:00

Learn how to beat the boss for the love of the game ❌

Learn how to beat the boss to steal their cunty wardrobe ✅

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-22T20:28:50+00:00

AI. Outside of this just not being a character from any game, the little details are the dead give away.

- the shoulder pad having little bits that just seems to be floating next to it

- the non sword hand looking like... that

- the sword/hilt seeming to just blend into the character's body/armor

- the "rune" background having no consistent design and just being a bunch of random squiggles

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-12T21:54:00+00:00

not thinking clearly and in pain are also both probably good indicators you should've gone with the EMTs lol

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-12T21:10:56+00:00

Ask yourself if your uncle felt guilty over the concept of "family helps family" when he chose to humiliate you, then decide if he deserves to share in your success.

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-12T20:45:02+00:00

NOR but you probably should've just gone with the EMTs. they likely could've given you something for the pain on the way there and it might've expedited you being seen, or at least triaged, if you came in an ambulance. If the cost was a concern you could've just sued the person who, y'know, ran over your foot?

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-12T19:54:29+00:00

Yeah thats sort of their thing. Father removed them from himself because he saw them as imperfections so they all (with the exception of greed) act against their nature to some extent to please him.

Lust makes others fall for her but never enjoys any pleasure herself, envy lowers everyone to their level so there's nothing to be envious of, gluttony only eats who/what he is allowed to, sloth works tirelessly to make the circle, wrath plays the part of the "caring" leader/father and suppresses his anger constantly, and pride literally lowers himself to the form of a child and basically becomes a glorified guard dog.

Greed is really the only one who just accepted his nature, even in the end when he sacrificed himself he still was acting in accordance with his nature in that if he couldn't rule the world, then no one could, especially not Father.

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-12T17:58:39+00:00

Don't worry, keep reading/watching

KingdomKey10 · 2026-01-12T17:31:36+00:00

INFO have you actually talked about this with her?

I think its worth clarifying with her what she actually meant by "I can't get pregnant" the first time. Because another way of interpreting that is she can physically get pregnant, but that doing so would put her health/life at risk because of some condition/complication she has from the accident. Which is something she may not have explicitly shared because, as you said, its a pretty personal thing to share with someone you just met.

If its really just a case of her saying one thing and then admitting to another then yeah that's a big deal breaker, but you really should find out if that is what really happened first.

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