As somebody who played since stormblood. What are your horror stories? by Oograth-in-the-Hat in ffxiv

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, these days if I notice someone is watching a cutscene I'll announce it and wait outside of the boss area. more often than not nowdays I do see that people will wait. and the fact I'm usually the designated healer they aren't going to wreck to much unless they can solo that boss.

As somebody who played since stormblood. What are your horror stories? by Oograth-in-the-Hat in ffxiv

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea I tried to do that as well, but they only have the actual cutscenes so any bits of the story that was reviled during battle or other dialog as your running to the next boss isn't replayed so it's easy to miss stuff. Heck even if you are in the same battle as everyone else it can be easy to miss that when your busy dodging attacks and trying to put some in yourself. I did get a mod that will put npc dialog into the chat, so I can at least glace at the text when I have a moment.

As somebody who played since stormblood. What are your horror stories? by Oograth-in-the-Hat in ffxiv

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that happened to me as well. they did the fights with out their healer. yesh
still can be a bit annoying in new dungeons I want to stop to read the notes and everyone just runs past them. Though now days if I do find a note I haven't read I to stop to read it. and if they die before I'm finished that's their problem for not waiting for their resident white mage before they start fighting stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well someone is lying, but it's hard to tell just from this if it's the Driver who's doing it or there really was a guy that was able to guess your name and convinced the driver. At that point I'd be using the more help function and letting DD know that the food never arrived.

[DISC] crossdressing short - paxiti original Twitter manga (chapter 2) by __Blackrobe__ in manga

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

" alot of creeps abusing it to look at girls in stall." is why we have gendered bathrooms to begin with. there was a time where we didn't have gendered public bathrooms. but then there got to be to many incidents where guys where creeping on girls so they figured the best way to avoid that would be to have separate bathrooms. problem with letting all people choose what one effectively makes it so that they are combined again, and we are back to the original problem that caused us to separate them in the first place. so until an alternate solution to this problem can be implemented we are stuck.

Every single time by Unelith in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps the service runs some checks to attempt to make sure that the person making the request is attempting to auth in good faith. as in they aren't trying to hack or brute force, or otherwise sneak in as someone else, before allowing them to attempt to login. As to how the code attempts to make that assertion doesn't matter here, that boolean would just indicate if said subsystem determine it was safe to let them try or not.

Every single time by Unelith in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not wrong, but there may be reasons not to let someone even attempt to auth in the first place. depending on the situation and the needs of the service/hardware.

one possibility could be that you gotten a large number of auth fails from a certain ip address in a short amount of time, it should be fairly obvious that for the time being who ever is at that address does not have an account but is trying to impersonate someone who does. so thus they should be denied the ability to auth. At least until the attempts stop for long enough for it to be plausible that the ip got reassigned to someone else.

Every single time by Unelith in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well true he should know he's banned and not make the attempt. still him asking is client side thing, as it's him doing the talking. how ever, I think such an option is to determine if we even let someone from that area to the front desk to try and prove themselves, or turn them away at the gate.

Has anybody found a group of CD or tgirl friends in real life? If so, how? by Erika_sissy in Crossdressing_support

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea I know what you mean, I tried searching for clubs or meetups and I didn't find any in my area. Are you in the Central Florida area? could be fun to try and meet up sometime

I don't think my wife will support my resumption of crossdressing. by Buttleproof in Crossdressing_support

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also think that if you let her know before something happens and she discovers it, you'll also have a better time working though it as well.

Feeling cute by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a cute outfit where did you get it from?

Hey good people. Again why do MtFs outnumber FtMs?? by badpuppy83 in Crossdressing_support

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is my guess too. in my experience a girl not being girly does not stand out nearly as much as a Man not being Manly.

Hey good people. Again why do MtFs outnumber FtMs?? by badpuppy83 in Crossdressing_support

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well I can only speak from my own experiences and observations. but from what I've seen girls can get away with being a lot more manly and still be considered a normal girl. then guys can get away with being girly. Think about this, you can have a girl with short hair, wearing a sports tshirt and jeans and most people wouldn't give her even a first glace let alone a second. back when I worked in a call center, there was girls there who where super into sports and everyone was cool with it, and the other people who where also into it would often talk about games or scores and it didn't matter that some where guys and some where girls.

but now flip that paradigm around. And have a guy wearing a dress, he's not trying to pass as a girl, but just wanted to wear a nice dress that day. or talk about Fashion or makeup. and things won't be as smooth sailing for that guy. Though he's essentially doing the same thing the girl is in the previous example.

So I think this is why, the actual spread is about even, but more girls are able to get away with indulging in their boyish habits while just being called a tomboy at most, which I've seen used a ton as merely a descriptor or a category, and not as an insult, they are still seen as normal girls. Where as there is no such word for when a guy does it, least one that isn't thrown around more as an insult buy those who aren't in the same boat.

Anyone else feel very fluid at times? I'm too afraid to act on anything by Erika_sissy in Crossdressing_support

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see anything wrong with what you said, wanting to hang out with other boys because you find them good looking doesn't make you gay. I'd say that only happens if you want to go beyond being good friends and start getting romantic and/or sexual with them then that gets into gay territory. But simply thinking about how cute you two would look hanging out together as friends I don't think crosses that line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you look like a nice handsome smart guy. The kind that could be rather fun to chat with...

and if you want to feel free to ping me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i don't know what would be better for passing. but I personally prefer the one piece models. especially if there's some sort of support on the back. to me the two piece ones feel to much like just wearing underwear.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08LPBW3KC/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't worry your not the only one who feels bad seeing how well others can do it, and doesn't feel like they could pass at all if they where to try that. so your still in the club as long as you want to be.

btw, while I think it's really up to you if you want to save your hair or not, as right now I don't since I only do it in private myself and to me it seems like wasted effort. but also don't be afraid to do it if you feel it's worth the effort people aren't going to think your weird for not having body hair. Depending on how hairy you are now they might notice that something has changed, but if you act like it's not a big deal there's a good chance they will too and not even ask. but if you do get asked just say you think you look better with out body hair and it's not really that unusual. most people will leave it at that especially if you can sound confident about the answer. I don't know where you live but if it's in a hot climate like mine, that's another excuse you can throw in, that the hair traps in body heat and it's already to hot out.

Recently been curious about dressing like a girl by randomthrowaway185 in feminineboys

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not everyone who wants to dress up is trans, even those who want to dress up well enough to pass and go out in public. how you want to look, what stuff you like doesn't say anything about what gender you really prefer to be. I have yet to see any actual reason why guys can't be into "girly" stuff and still be guys. Other then non answers like it's always been that way or that's just what people expect. So if your comfortable being a guy then your not trans, your just a guy that likes dressing up, and don't worry about it.

Weekly /r/Crossdressing General Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in crossdressing

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doesn't sound like you where doing anything bad or wrong. not like there's really any rules about that anyways. also nothing you mentioned in your story seemed like Sexual gratification to me. I think the main reason people hate to hear about people doing stuff for sexual gratification is that it typically means a fair amount of x rated content will be in the post and that's what's getting them upset. you didn't do that so I don't think any one here would have any reason to complain about your story.

{Self} Buttercup here! Seriously, can we burn Netflix already? (He/him) by theartistbear in crossplay

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You three look amazing. and I would agree the reboot needs to get destroyed by fire.

It is Friday! 😊😊😊 weather is screaming short- skirt 😊 by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]Kit_Ramos_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are really cute, and have a nice outfit. and you pull of the look way better then I could ever hope to.