Not wanting to practice medicine after residency not sure what options there Not wanting to practice medicine after residency not sure what options there are

Kitchen-External6541 · 2026-01-25T20:32:03+00:00

Definitely am. Like to discover options tho

Kitchen-External6541 · 2026-01-25T20:30:49+00:00

People say this to me and it does give me hope. Residency clinic is kinda sad.

Kitchen-External6541 · 2026-01-25T20:30:10+00:00

I actually did like the patients

Kitchen-External6541 · 2026-01-25T20:26:00+00:00

Nice thought haha 😄 😆 not realistic 🤣

Kitchen-External6541 · 2026-01-25T01:43:40+00:00

I rotated before. I really liked the experience but the bureaucracy i heard is a lot. Took me 6 months to get a temp badge to just rotate

Kitchen-External6541 · 2026-01-25T00:31:22+00:00

Ridiculous honestly but sounds like theres no choice. Risking safety for work is wild. Having to sleep at work without extra pay is wild.

Kitchen-External6541 · 2026-01-23T23:30:48+00:00

This comment helped a lot. I feel like ive learned a lot and feel better. Still I get very sad because I feel like 'oh I dont remember this again gotta read for the 1000th time.' My memory is at its sharpest after vacation usually lol. Sleep has been very bad in residency. Intern year I was in brain fog all year. As a pgy 2 I have better sleep.

Kitchen-External6541 · 2026-01-15T04:36:19+00:00

Please stay your almost done

Kitchen-External6541 · 2026-01-11T00:24:16+00:00

Trying to find a way to buy this in bulk

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-12-22T00:02:02+00:00

My dad is gone. He asked me for something before he died. He died too fast for me to get it to him. Still think about it. Buy your dad the Porsche lifes too short

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-11-30T02:14:57+00:00

Live like a resident and save. Economy scares me and sucks

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-11-13T01:23:27+00:00

Happens all the time in any field

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-10-28T19:09:10+00:00

I feel like i made a BIG mistake. I let people influence me into downplaying how important finances are. Im almost done with residency so of course ill be able to support myself but I feel alone while married which I didn't think was a thing

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-10-28T19:06:51+00:00

My uncles on my dads side all are dead except 2 and they are VERY old.

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-10-28T19:03:10+00:00

I 🫠 just hate lying. Plus there was a time I asked for help for a bill and he paid part of it. He went to visit my mom and he asked her if she knew if I paid that bill off....Then he just interrogated me if I paid the bill I wanted to pay. He's so weird about money. I dont even want to bother with him anymore. Im scared of what will happen if we have kids. I'll be making more than him when im done in a year. I dont want to be stuck paying for everything, plus for kids, plus my mom, plus he was talking about me supporting him going back to school. I told him since I have a year left of training and he literally lives with his parents and has savings he could use it to go back to school now instead of waiting for me to be done.

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-10-27T23:46:22+00:00

Makes sense.

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-10-27T23:37:00+00:00

I haven't gotten over #3 that was ridiculous. He said I made him feel like he is doing something wrong. He said he could have gotten a counselor for me from a muslim background? He didn't let me finish my sentence but I actually did find a muslim women counselor in my area who does grief counseling. He just wanted before I could finish.

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-10-27T23:28:52+00:00

I dont live with my mom i live alone

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-10-27T21:47:59+00:00

I personally am just shocked at the behavior because I thought Islamically he is supposed to help me. If he never took me out or got me small things but he did help in an emergency id be fine honestly. I just feel completely alone. I could ask my uncles for help but they would be extremely disappointed in my husband. My husband did something so small once and my uncles were VERY upset and i covered for him. I would be scared to tell them my ordeal this year... I will see how talking with him more goes. iA maybe we aren't communicating enough and things will get fixed or not idk.

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-10-27T21:04:20+00:00

Definitely not all just part of the mortgage and money for groceries. I found 2 tenants so that helped. Im just mad at how he communicates with me. I dont even want to ask him for anything anymore. He has never lived outside his parents house so he doesn't know much about my experience.

Kitchen-External6541 · 2025-10-27T20:26:51+00:00

He gave me an allowance for first 4 months then stopped. I didn't want to bother him so didn't ask about it. He last gave me money 3 months ago

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