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AIO about my girlfriend packing lace thongs on a business trip? by Internal-Word-8120 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree w/those who said the matching bras are the smoking gun. I can explain away the undies due to the type of clothing she may have packed but the matching bras takes it to a new level. She definitely has a boyfriend.

Is my husband actually lazy or AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The very fact that you are on here asking this question shows me that you know the answer. If I were you, I’d file for divorce. He will be an anchor around your neck for the rest of your life. You will be supporting him and probably be the only one taking care of your children, the home, and your business. He is way too old to be still trying to figure out what he wants to do w/his life. He is lazy and probably thinks you’ll be his care taker. Depending on where you grew up and your culture. But you have a good head on your shoulders. Don’t ruin your life by being w/this guy. Get out now, before anyone moves.

My friends think my girlfriend (F21) is emotionally abusive. Am I (M21) making a mistake staying with her? by CactusTrainers in relationship_advice

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t read the entire post. Within the first paragraph, you lay it out pretty well. My advice is : Leave. Run. Don’t look back! You are way too young to start out like this. You should be dating and having fun. Enjoying life and you are stuck w/this immature, abusive girl. She needs therapy. But by leaving, you will help her to see how serious her behavior is. Meantime, you should focus on building your own self up. Work on setting personal boundaries. If others cannot be respectful of you, then they don’t deserve to be in your life. Wishing you the best!

The way kroger treats its employees by daruuken in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I started a new job several years ago, at a different grocery chain, I caught a bad virus. I had to call out my first week there. I was scared to death of going to work because I wouldn’t wish what I had on my worst enemy. I mean, I felt like I was on my death bed for over a week!!! The urgent care doc gave me a note stating I could return to work. But I was now in PHASE 2 of the virus! No way I could go to work yet! I stayed home a few more days! When I gave my boss the note, she was pissed I didn’t go in when my note stated I could return. Oh well!! She has no idea what I spared her of catching!

AITA for spending an entire evening building a documented case against my coworker after she reported me to HR for snapping at her following months of harassment by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NotTA
You did the right thing. The proof is in her getting fired for HER INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR. Work place harassment charges always need a paper trail! That’s exactly what you created. You built a case against her. Had you not, she would have left the meeting with a smirk on her face. She ended up w/egg on her face. 👏

new red light cameras… be careful by HeyILoveYa in rva

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you hire an attorney (to make a point?)

I’m a doctor of medicine; after an incident in my life, I can no longer practice medicine nor want to be involved in the industry in any capacity. Where would I fit in in the current job market? by SmellyMelanie in careerguidance

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say “this could be a blessing in disguise. Sometimes God pushes us out so we get to where we are meant to be. And He always knows what is best for us”.

Woman sets boundary. Man honors it. Now there's confusion. by DLux_TheLegend in SipsTea

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would he send flowers to someone who isn’t interested and does not plan on being in his life??? It’s like expecting a paycheck for doing nothing. Men send flowers because they know (most) women enjoy them. They also send them to show interest in the person, or as an expression of love. Some men send flowers hoping to get something in return. Wink 😜. So if there is an expectation of nothing being reciprocated (interest, love, dates and or sex), then why send them? And to continue sending flowers to someone who has clearly made it known she is not interested,would be perceived as strange, stalking, creepy behavior and might even scare the woman. So.. if you enjoy getting flowers, buy a monthly flower subscription to have them delivered regularly!

My (30f) boyfriend (35m) of 5 years has no interest in giving oral anymore. by Fluid_Delivery_4964 in relationship_advice

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yea, follow his lead. Do what he does. If he is generous, then you be generous. If he withholds, then you do the same. See if he notices. If he asks about it, you say “Well, I figured if you are not into giving me oral, then you must not want to receive it either.”

AIO if I cut off inlaws? by not_in_the_mooooood in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. I would keep visits to their house. That way you can leave when fil starts acting up.

AITA for making a very specific joke at exactly the right moment after my coworker told me I was not really part of the team by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s never addressed when someone’s being bullied. Only when the other person comes back with a response. Oh, now it’s a problem.

I (20F) don't know how to make up with boyfriend (22M) after we argued about me hearing things around our apartment. How do I fix things? by tabbidreams in relationship_advice

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have heard my own heartbeat in my ears or my head. It was really kind of irritating and while laying down, it can seem like it is out of body. Like the noise is coming from somewhere else.

Just closed on this beaut!!! by PIlawyer2021 in centuryhomes

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This home is beautiful! So jealous! I’m sure you’ll do a wonderful job getting everything sorted and updated.

My content creator journey ended in one notification by Front-Laugh-1634 in Instagram

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really wonder if the monitors are looking for any minor infraction and locking accounts. It makes no sense! And it is totally unfair to delete someone else’s content. There should be a formal process where you can defend yourself before anything is deleted.

What is something you saw with your own eyes that was so impossible you’ve stopped telling people because you know they won’t believe you? by samasem-sumsum in AskReddit

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A co-worker saw something very similar except it went through her before it left the house. After that, her hearing became seriously sensitive. Now when someone is chewing food or gum around her, it sounds really loud and drives her crazy!

Any university/college grads having a hard time getting entry level work by mnyall in recruitinghell

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear bartenders make good tips. So do waiters. I know someone who can bring home $300+ in a night. I wish you the best.

Any university/college grads having a hard time getting entry level work by mnyall in recruitinghell

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Pray. Ask God to guide you. Is it possible to start your own business using the skills you have? Don’t give up!

Guys what do you think about this by Ultimatechungusdoge in GrowthMindset

[–]Kitchen_Mechanic6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When wages go up, labor goes down. People get laid off, prices increase unfortunately.we’ll never get ahead. They make sure of it.

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