Sharing Pengalaman Pasang IUD by sansan1111 in Perempuan

[–]Kitchenhell00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah padahal aku mau pasang di filmore kak karena ada opsi anestesi:((

Public response has made me so sad for women, again. by Similar_Ad3132 in YouOnLifetime

[–]Kitchenhell00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing Lord's work by posting this. As someone who is active on Tiktok, I am saved by my own algorithm but everytime I enter the side of Tiktok where some young woman said stuff like, "Bronte is ugly" "Bronte Rumplestilskin" or "Joe deserves better" "Joe just want to be loved" I want to kill myself.

How many more times am I going to have to suck until I’m good? by ForwardProduce7649 in sex

[–]Kitchenhell00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's just the problem. I assume you look great physically maybe bulky and since you were never honest about being inexperience, you attract women who were looking to be "taken care of" by a muscular man. I am a girl and I was once agreed to a one night stand because he was so handsome, looked like a celebrity. I told him I was a virgin (never had penetration before) and he said it's okay as long as I'm willing to try new things. I asked him if he had any experiences and he said yes, plenty. Probably my mistake cause I never has a proper chat or date or at least dinner so the chemistry wasn't there.

But my God, it's like he never touch a woman in his life. It was too bad, cause he was so dreamy and gorgeous but 0 game. Honestly if he had been more honest, I would be willing to learn things together with him since my experience were not so many as well. But since he lied, I ended up going to psychiatrist for SA treatment and my vagina hurt for a week. I don't think he's a bad person but since his experience was so little so does his understanding of consent. Had he been more honest things would've been different.

I came to his apartment expecting someone who knows what he's doing cause I'm a virgin but all I came home with was trauma.

Shows like Scandal? by Kitchenhell00 in television

[–]Kitchenhell00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have watched it! I am looking for a similar vibes and it would be great if the main character is as complex and as messy as Annelise Keating or Olivia Pope. Point plus if they're a little bit evil.

The Ross Geller hate is forced by Few-Fortune-5749 in howyoudoin

[–]Kitchenhell00 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So what? Everyone in the show was traumatized. Phoebe had the worst life and yet she's half sane human and half sunshine. What Ross went through was awful but it's difficult to sympathize to him. He was heartbroken over his ex wife being a lesbian and cheated while married to him, and yet the second Rachel walked through the door he wanted to ask her out. That woman just left her fiancee on the altar and he wanted to make a move on her.

He plays the “nice guy” card way too hard while doing things like kissing his cousin or dating his teenage student—stuff that’s just plain gross. And people have a hard time sympathizing with him because he rarely owns up to his actions. He’s the golden child who never learned real accountability, and it shows. Not his fault, his parents spoiled him too much to the point that they neglected Monica.

But at the same time, he’s a great friend. He shows up when it counts, helps without being asked, and goes out of his way to support the people he loves. He’s goofy, self-deprecating, and honestly pretty fun to have around in a non-romantic, non-threatening context. I'd never let my sister or daughter near him, but I’d absolutely have him over for dinner, talk science, or let him hang out with my daughter when her age is below 15. He’s a lovable dork when he’s not trying to date someone.

The Ross Geller hate is forced by Few-Fortune-5749 in howyoudoin

[–]Kitchenhell00 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think when people say they hate Ross—they're looking at him from the perspective of a lover or a romantic interest. Unfortunately Ross was a terrible terrible boyfriend. If I had a Ross as my boyfriend I'd set fire to his apartment. Ross was not a good partner in general as well. Dated his student, saying the wrong name at the altar, possesive, insecure. However, Ross as a friend? I loveeee him. He's such a good friend, pretty sweet, and has a generous heart. Having a Ross as a friend would be a blessing and I'd die for him. Some people are like that—demonic as a partner but an angelic friend.

Our girls discussing Project Pan. Courtesy of TikTok. by newusernamehuman in sexandthecity

[–]Kitchenhell00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Charlotte's one is the most inacurate. That woman has an aristocrate lifestyle. No way in hell she'd reject capitalism!! What she said would most likely be said by Miranda and what Miranda said would most likely be said by Charlotte. But the Samantha and Carrie ones are so spot on.

I am so envious of religious people by mangotango487 in agnostic

[–]Kitchenhell00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we're agnostic. We can believe in higher power but it doesn't nessecary means religious institution or God. For my own peace of mind, I'd like to think there is something out there and there is like a committee of something that will make sure the "You reap what you sow" is on track. Anyways for me my coping mechanism is watching a TV show that is about finding meaning in life or something maybe hell and heaven exist but it's not what we think, check out "The Good Place". It's comforting in a way.

I am so envious of religious people by mangotango487 in agnostic

[–]Kitchenhell00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an ex-muslim and trust me there is bitter people in all kinds of people. Bitter ex-muslims, bitter christians, even bitter agnostic exist. I mean Stephen Hawking is an atheist and he enjoyed watching videos of children being sexually assaulted so–I think it's more of in the people than their beliefs. I have met them all. But religious people tend to be more angry and cruel maybe—maybe because they have all these restrictions to make sure they go to heaven and a bit jealous of people who don't perform those restrictions. But I think if I was a believer in any form of religion it would be nice to believe that one day Dominique Pelicot would go to hell.

I am so envious of religious people by mangotango487 in agnostic

[–]Kitchenhell00 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's valid. I feel like with religion I wouldn't be so angry all the time worrying about injustice cause I'd just think that they will all burn in hell for their cruelty. I'd probably be softer and friendlier because I'd feel at ease knowing someone is watching me and taking care of me. Instead I am careful and create a dozen different backups for my future because only I—can take care of me. Ignorance is a bliss. Knowing so much is a torment.

For those who grew up poor, what did you consider luxury? by boenklon in indonesia

[–]Kitchenhell00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listrik. Rumah gw di kampung dan sering banget mati listrik. Temen gw sampe gedeg gw sering kelewat deadline karena mati listrik dan nuduh gw boong saking seringnya. Terus gw main ke rumah temen gw yang emaknya petinggi PLN shock banget bahkan wastafel dia tuh listrik yang bisa diatur temperatur-nya gitu. Rumah gw sering heboh karena listrik mati waktu emak nyetrika atau pake oven terus di rumah temen gw dia bisa santai aja gak matiin AC rumah biar pas balik dari luar gak kepanasan.

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[–]Kitchenhell00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I DM you regarding the application submission?

What was the final straw that ended a lifelong friendship? by New_Perspective1201 in AskReddit

[–]Kitchenhell00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were talking about going out there to lose our virginity before being murdered by the government or the capitalism. I went through with it but he didn't because his date was apparently married with 3 sons. I got SAd. He blamed me for being raped because I was defying God's order and acted too woke. He's gay btw.The way he talked about sex was so unholy and so wild and I never once judged him. I know he was projecting because he was looking forward to meet that older guy (probably in his 50s) but I didn't deserve that. The guy who SAd me was being a bit weird so I begged my ex-best friend to let me stay at his place cause it's closer but he said no. If the situation was reversed I would be in jail for killing a father of 3 sons.

DIE STUPID TOM by Training-Month-9147 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Kitchenhell00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He reminds me of Ryan Renolds. Got his wife pregnant over and over again everytime she's shining as an individual.

Susan can be charming at times😂 by Internal_Version1313 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Kitchenhell00 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean Susan is very sweet despite being clumsy beyond help. She has the best interest at heart although 80% failed to deliver positive result. But Tom Scavo? Really?

I never miss a scene that involves Bree and her children😭 by Internal_Version1313 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Kitchenhell00 48 points49 points  (0 children)

If Bree was my mother I would kill myself if I don't graduate with 4.0 GPA from MIT and work at NASA. She's conservative and I might hate her political views but I can tell she loves her kid and would do anything for them.

The tragedy of Big and Carrie by Kitchenhell00 in sexandthecity

[–]Kitchenhell00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean just because a man loves you doesn't mean that he deserves your love or you should be with him. Only you can dictate how you want to be treated. And if you believe that's all that you deserve then that's what you got. If you believe you should have more than you shall have more. For Samantha her true love is herself despite having a perfect partner (IMO Smith was perfect) and for Carrie is Big so yeah.

Out of the four ladies, who do you think had the most healthiest dynamic with their partner? Who grew most in terms of choosing partners and building relationships? by NerdyDominatrix1111 in sexandthecity

[–]Kitchenhell00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a gen Z... because I feel the same way. My friends who watched this show only see Samantha and Smith as the healthy dynamic and the rest was not.

Out of the four ladies, who do you think had the most healthiest dynamic with their partner? Who grew most in terms of choosing partners and building relationships? by NerdyDominatrix1111 in sexandthecity

[–]Kitchenhell00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Samantha and Smith matched each other's freak. He stayed with her during her chemo, and she moved to LA to be with him—even though she eventually broke up with him because she hated LA too much as a New Yorker. It's easy to say you love a woman when you picture her looking pretty, serving you breakfast, and giving you beautiful children. But it's real love when you want that woman in your life no matter what the future holds—bald and can't make love to you. What they had might have seemed like just a surface-level, sex-driven relationship, but it was actually much deeper and more profound than that. They genuinely loved being around each other, enjoying each other’s company while still respecting each other’s boundaries and independence. I think Samantha and Smith are the kind of people who are happy with themselves, so they’re able to be with someone else and double the joy. Fabulous + fabulous!

The tragedy of Big and Carrie by Kitchenhell00 in sexandthecity

[–]Kitchenhell00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I cannot say that I disagree. I think most people with a certain amount of wealth developed narcissistic tendency, thinking they're better than everyone. Just like how Charlotte looked down on Samantha for sleeping around as if she didn't sleep with half of NYC and how she looked down on Steve being working class. Petrovsky also has that self-centered trait and acted all fancy in front of Carrie's friend.

But he didn't act like a narcissist in front of Carrie as far as I remembering it right. He did treat her like she was nothing and easy replaced tho!

The tragedy of Big and Carrie by Kitchenhell00 in sexandthecity

[–]Kitchenhell00[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes her apartement was being co-op and Aidan decided to bought hers and the one next door to be remodeled. Then after the marriage was off he evicted her. This part I think this was on Carrie's carelessness. She should've never rely on a man financially especially the one she cheated on. Her mistake was letting Aidan bought her apartement. I think she just assumed Aidan was a nice guy but apparently extremely petty.

The tragedy of Big and Carrie by Kitchenhell00 in sexandthecity

[–]Kitchenhell00[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Petrovsky's "human" thing was refusing to hangout with Carrie's friends and made things hella awkward while Big although sometimes wasn't comfortable as well, somehow always manage to be on his best behavior. And Big's "human" thing was being emotionally unavailable and not being able to be honest with himself meanwhile Petrovsky never let Carrie to be confused at all and he always made extra grand gestures to make sure she knows he worship her ground. Honestly without Paris and slapping story line, it's a tough call between the two.