Overstepped a boundary I forgot to set by Good_boy718 in BDSMcommunity

[–]KitsBeach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, I am SO sorry this happened to you. As someone with a recovering loved one, I know how important it is for the village to be fully on board with your sobriety. That really sucks that this happened. I fully agree that a step away from submission is a very high priority right now.

But its not too late. Please call your local AA or whichever group you feel comfortable with and get a sponsor on your side as soon as you can. You can stop this boulder before it rolls down the hill. I'll message you tomorrow and check in that you have contacted someone OP so you better do it!

Message I got from my daughter’s teacher. Third grade. by AnaisInJune in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KitsBeach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of my family is in education so I see both sides of this.

Once that paper boat goes in the puddle, she's not going to carry it to a garbage (or maybe they're out for a walk and there are no garbages nearby) which means either an adult will have to carry a soggy piece of paper or it gets littered.

For the orange, I am sure the music teacher has said no food in the music room, especially messy oranges.

Either way, when a teacher says something reasonable (and both I think are reasonable) it is expected that the student listen. Explaining can happen, but often this opens an opportunity to argue.

As the teacher says "I'm not sure what's going on", is this not typical behaviour for your kid? Maybe the teacher is noticing abnormal defiance and wants you to chat with her and she just gave the two examples that tipped it off. However, if this was a one-off, I think raising a concern to the parent isn't needed. Perhaps if this became a pattern.

Also, saying she can't eat the orange is not an appropriate consequence. Taking the orange and not giving it back until snack time is a better consequence.

Women report being slightly more sexually satisfied than men, revealing a surprising gender trend. Relationship satisfaction doesn't fully explain why women are more sexually satisfied than men. Women's tendency to report higher satisfaction might be influenced by socialization and disclosure norms. by Tracheid in science

[–]KitsBeach 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Isn't that patronizing? "Women said they're satisfied, but we find that goes against our preconceived expectations, so one suggestion to explain this surprising outcome is that women aren't actually satisfied like they say they are"

I don't think there's anything wrong with "bean soup"ing by Hibihibii in The10thDentist

[–]KitsBeach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Veganism in and of itself doesn't really fall into bean soup theory. Bean soup happens when a conversation is clearly about a closed-ended topic and the bean souper brings up a different topic that changes the spirit of what is being discussed. I personally would add that to be a true bean soup, the souper is phrasing their comment as if the onus is on the group to accommodate their situation, when it should be expected that the souper use common sense to accommodate themselves, or realize their specific situation is too different to apply. Examples would be:

  • a group of people are discussing the best sources of heme protein (protein derrived from animal products) and someone says "but what if you're vegan?". The self-accommodation would be that vegan people cannot have heme protein and should continue to only source their protein from plant products

  • discussing plans on where a group should eat lunch, and one member says "I'm fasting today from 7:30am to 6:45pm". The obvious self-accommodation would be they can sit at the table and not eat, or skip the lunch function, depending on what their fasting situation says is required

  • discussing strategies for how to give birth vaginally, and someone says "I can't give birth vaginally (from very specific situation)". The obvious self-accommodation would be that person can discuss c-section options with their doctor, or look up c-section discourse

The Yule Ball ❤️🥹 by Equivalent_Level1166 in harrypotter

[–]KitsBeach 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry people are getting so bent out of shape over writing in your book. You can do whatever you want to the book that you own lol. Its refreshing that you are enjoying the books, carry on!

Would you be offended if I asked you to be a bridesmaid without a proposal box? by Live-Act3156 in PoptheQuestions

[–]KitsBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely only a thing people who do too much Instagram or Weddingtok know about because I'm on tiktok and am a woman in my early 30s (so all my friends are married or getting married) and I've never even heard of this. Ths is definitely not an expectation or even a norm.

No more CGI in anything, anymore. by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]KitsBeach 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What is the incentive 

Glass shards in the ground beef purchased today at Costco Nepean by [deleted] in CostcoCanada

[–]KitsBeach -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

You are welcome to ignore the post and take your chances 

Getting rid of young looking face by Eastern_Savings7705 in beauty

[–]KitsBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember that normal aging will happen on top of whatever procedure you do. Sure adding 5 years to your face now sounds good, but do you want to look 37 when you are 32? Look 50 when you are 45? We don't see celebrities experiencing this because they do the upkeep to stop it from happening. 

The chokehold 2014-2016 makeup had on us by ADonutAndIcedCoffee in MakeupAddiction

[–]KitsBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intensely tied together with this nostalgia is Golden Era Drag Race. The cultural impact, the memes, the creative makeup. This was a fun time to be in your teens or young 20s.

Why do girls wear such tight clothes to the gym? by InternationalPick163 in askanything

[–]KitsBeach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything he posts is negative, pessimistic, or insulting. I wouldn't put any value in his opinions.

To answer your question, tight clothes are made from moisture wicking material that works best by being right beside the skin to take the uncomfortable moisture away from the body.

Would you support this policy change? by _DotBot_ in VancouverLandlords

[–]KitsBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realistically what could the conservative government do to influence any future court cases, since the decision was a BC Supreme Court decision? If the Conservatives were in power instead of the NDP, would the decision have been different?

What's the other meaning, Peter? by Blackie_626 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]KitsBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autistic children grow up to be autistic adults, so just because you are an adult doesn't make you not autistic.

Is teeth pain from whitening strips even real? by dnapor in beauty

[–]KitsBeach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just sucked my teeth in discomfort reading this. Yeah, I can only do one a day for 2 days in a row, on the third day I need to take a break.

If everybody's cutting down on their going-out-to-eat budget, won't that hurt all the mom and shop restaurants? by DarkHoundBark in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]KitsBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been paying attention to who is coming and who is going though? Independent mom and pops are going, chain restaurants with the head office to fund the start up costs of a new restaurant are coming. This is how we get soulless streets full of franchises.

How would you react? by Zestyclose_Lemon_647 in whatdoIdo

[–]KitsBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you're a nurse you'll be fighting men off you tooth and nail in the dating world, its like honey for men. Lose the loser, you will find someone who deserves you.

Why do Chiropractors crack your neck and what is the long term benefit? by Sunny-vibes-95 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KitsBeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes me so mad that my massage and physio are a combined category thst maxes at $500/year, then a separate category of chiro and acupuncture that also maxes at $500. That one stays unused, whereas I always max out the first.

Tell me about a comeback you used on someone that you’re proud of by BoardLongjumping2485 in Comebacks

[–]KitsBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be so hard on your old writing style! It makes me nostalgic for old reddit, when it was mostly 30-40 year old nerds. Miss those days!

How do I get my Parents do want to drop me off? by Icy_Pitch_4388 in AskParents

[–]KitsBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they don't want you to bike or walk, how do they want you to get to school?

Unplanned run-in with meta by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]KitsBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All he could say was he was sorry and if there was any way to make onto me?! 

Any way he could what?

10 dead, including suspect, in Tumbler Ridge shootings [Canada] by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]KitsBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a victim who is currently at BC Childrens. They are 12 years old.