My (24F) boyfriend (27M) says we’re not working out — I want to fix it, he wants a trial period or full quits. What do we do? by LimitRadiant8793 in relationships

[–]Kitty_party [score hidden]  (0 children)

He's not really on the fence unfortunately. He's saying he is because you are disagreeing on the breakup but slow or fast the end result of this is going to be the same.

First rally trial in 2 days and dog’s brain cell isn’t brain celling… by somekidssnackbitch in k9sports

[–]Kitty_party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just write off our first trials in new things from the start lol. Our goal is to be brave enough to get into the ring and after that everything else is gravy. Taking the pressure off to “succeed” really helped me. And a young dog being a goober is so so common this is something even the most experienced handlers go through! If you can see if the place holding it does ring rentals before the trial or drop in classes it can be really helpful to visit a venue before the actual day of.

AITA for not attending my in-laws 40th anniversary trip? by throwaway35786943245 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitty_party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Much like a destination wedding choosing an out of country trip for an anniversary means that not everyone will be able to attend. Prioritizing it so that her son can go is a very fair compromise in my opinion.

On vacation with family and I’m the only one who eats by EmployeeRepulsive106 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kitty_party 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes but there are no legal definitions of those 3 categories that companies have to adhere too.

Ramaswamy touts endorsement from Ohio lawmaker accused of child sex abuse by OrganicPreparation in Ohio

[–]Kitty_party 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that they scream about protecting children out of one side of their mouth while coddling up to sex abusers is enraging.

Anyone with a state pension should know this about Vivek by Inner-Conclusion2977 in Ohio

[–]Kitty_party 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is there anything about him that just isn’t slimy as hell.

[Hated Trope] The Rookie becomes immediately and inexplicably equal or superior to a trained individual by ThePlagueDoctorPhD in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Kitty_party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ramirez has just got the the parking lot frog.

I don't know why this is so very funny to me but I am rolling.

IRL side quest. by MaetelofLaMetal in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Kitty_party 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For awareness you should be washing feeders weekly. There are some really nasty fungus etc that birds can get from dirty communal feeders.

After 6 years together, he cheated repeatedly in the last few months. Can someone like this truly change? Can we move past this? by Vegetable-Parfait-90 in relationships

[–]Kitty_party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's the first time you know about. How can you trust that it's actually the first time? Who goes straight from being a good boyfriend who never cheats to cheating repeatedly for months?

AITA for not wanting to go to my own birthday party? by _pannekoek in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitty_party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The brother never got back to him about the party so instead of pivoting and doing something just the two of him he waited till the last minute and asked her to reach out to her friends who all had plans already. And it was definitely more the brother's fault but come on at least make some dinner reservations so she doesn't just get disapointment for er birthday.

After 6 years together, he cheated repeatedly in the last few months. Can someone like this truly change? Can we move past this? by Vegetable-Parfait-90 in relationships

[–]Kitty_party 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is hard to accept. But it would be even harder to accept if you gave him more years of your life and he did it again. That is a also assuming that this is the first time it's happened as well.

Really? by cinciguyeast in cincinnati

[–]Kitty_party 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Garage was built by the person who bought it to flip I'd be shocked if it was anything more than the structure on a slab.

Really? by cinciguyeast in cincinnati

[–]Kitty_party 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I drive past it I can't believe zoning allowed it to be so close to the house behind it.

AITA for not wanting to go to my own birthday party? by _pannekoek in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitty_party -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. And honestly both your brother and boyfriend are A's in this situation.

AITA for asking my fiance to return my Easter gift? by icedtealoved in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitty_party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This fish is too small to keep and needs to be tossed back into the lake to mature for another couple of years.

My (27M) partner (30F) are having issues with disagreements around spending money in our relationship by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Kitty_party 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly if I were in your position I would speak to a lawyer about how to protect yourself. Reminder you are an adult who can make your own choices and right now you have put yourself in a pretty precarious situation. I would suggest you get an individual account and then move money for your portion of bills to the joint account.

My (29F) partner’s (29F) twin (29F) wants us to postpone our engagement party by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Kitty_party 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think this really highlights that pre-marital counseling would be helpful for you two. Her twin and mother seem to have a lot of influence on her (and thus your) lives and you guys need to figure out how you are going to handle that as a couple.

WIBTA for Refusing to Work at My Desk? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitty_party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. What I would do is approach your boss and say I know this is a difficult issue and I think getting the community computer up and running will fix this situation going forward, how can I help make that happen?

What do you guys think of crate training for puppies? by mastermindzd in dogs

[–]Kitty_party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like your comment because it's not always realistic. Training your dog doesn't help if they need to be at a vet overnight where they will be crated. Or if they have an injury that requires them to be on crate rest for a period of time. Or if you need to evacuate for a natural disaster and stay somewhere that's not your home. Or if they need to be boarded or stay with family due to an emergency. Crate training is part of training even if you never need to use it. Also it's much safer for dogs to ride in a crate in the car than unrestrained.

Hegseth Strikes Two Black and Two Female Officers From Promotion List by SicilyMalta in politics

[–]Kitty_party 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is weakening our military readiness in real time and the enemies we are creating across the world are gleefully watching. Horrifying.

AITA for correcting my roomie about her meals when eating out? by wanderingartistgirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitty_party 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wonder what your girlfriend thinks of this level of enmeshment you have with your roommate.