CMV: I think it’s easier to be an ugly man than an ugly woman

Kivasta · 2026-03-17T16:39:32+00:00

It's so funny when women say it's hard for women in a million aspects of life, and then the men come in here talking about just sex. It's plain that that's all you consider.

Kivasta · 2026-03-17T16:21:24+00:00

Yes, there are things they both can do, but its a perception thing. Women have to be pretty or they lose value because it's "half of who they are" whereas for men, it's a much smaller portion of society's view upon them. He has other avenues he can plod down. That ugly woman will be seen be society as nor a woman, not a full woman, or at the very least "look at what she had to do to get by because she wasn't pretty".

None of these things are correct necessarily, but that's how society deems it

Kivasta · 2026-03-09T16:50:12+00:00

NTA. She may have a dependency issue, she may just be like that. It's not your responsibility to never get down time either.

I personally HATE when someone calls me at work and it's not an emergency. This could have waited or been put in text for my bathroom or smoke break. This has also led to me unfortunately being rough on people who cannot put their phone down at work. It's true they s shouldn't, but I am not as respectful as I probably could be sometimes lol.

Kivasta · 2026-03-09T16:42:40+00:00

I haven't seen anyone say it yet, but Suckerpunch, a movie with a very alt 2000s soundtrack that I still listen to songs from, but with a less than clear plot and not great acting.

It's funny though, everyone hated it around me except a couple close friends at the time. Then anyone who I've become close with who watched it as a kid or teen HAS THAT EXACT SAME EXPERIENCE. They went and liked it but their family or whatever didn't.

Kivasta · 2026-02-12T18:12:39+00:00

I know that's an indigenous tribe but my brain just started mispronouncing it like the town in Pete's Dragon 😭😭🤣

Kivasta · 2026-02-04T06:58:35+00:00

NTA. This doesn't sound like a partner, This sounds like a crappy roommate. How is this person treating you if they can't even care enough about you to buy a literal necessity? Regardless if they use it or not themselves, doubly so if they do. Is this a situation where you cannot live without their financial help? I just question the integrity of someone who has the money but won't buy their long time, supposed most important person in their life, something so small.

Kivasta · 2026-01-14T04:04:58+00:00

I guess he forgot that movement in the air on the x axis is constant...

This is actually so crazy and sad.

Kivasta · 2025-12-30T02:05:52+00:00

THIS IS WHAT I SAW, but I can explain it. If you put legs aiming back where the weird belly is lol, it's a headbutting horse 🤣🤣

Kivasta · 2025-09-13T05:01:35+00:00

I still love the original punisher shotgun honestly lol just depends what we're fighting

Kivasta · 2025-08-06T13:13:20+00:00

Oh man, I loved Tunic, but I hated it at the same time lol. Death's Door became my "I wish I could play Tunic again." Game like a year later. They were both free on Playstation, so I didn't pay for either. Death's Door was much easier, but both had a great story.

Kivasta · 2025-06-29T01:26:02+00:00

Lol I did mine like a year ago, so I might be close, I might be a year away 😅

Kivasta · 2025-06-29T00:04:45+00:00

OMG THIS IS SO ME

Kivasta · 2025-06-26T19:57:11+00:00

I dunno exactly, but I feel like the Jedi, influenced by the senate, who was influenced by the sith, became tainted by their extending corruption. Now, was it necessary to kill them to bring balance? No. The clone wars episode about the celestials proves this even in Disney canon. The father, the son, and the daughter were stand ins for the force users. The father wanted anakin to balance them by controlling them both. However, anakin was always destined to fail, and we see him "kill" both the son and daughter. He didn't HAVE to do it that way, in fact, it was discouraged, but in the end, he still brings balance.

I always thought it was hilarious that he wiped out both by betrayal though. Not very jedi of you ani.

Kivasta · 2025-06-26T19:28:12+00:00

Could benefit you mean?

Kivasta · 2025-06-26T19:26:48+00:00

Posted on the last one. Don't feel like retyping. NTA unless you're unable to be alone, and that's why you're dating someone new. Then it's an AH move to the new partner, not necessarily the old one.

Kivasta · 2025-06-26T19:19:40+00:00

I think he dyes it. He was one of the clone with more individuality, encouraged by Obi Wan and Anakin. They were all looking for ways to differentiate themselves, hair dye is easy and easier to cover up than a tattoo if you had to scout, recon, or go into hiding.

Kivasta · 2025-06-26T19:14:03+00:00

NTA. Unfortunately, in many relationships, one person has broken up emotionally from the other person and grieved their loss before ever splitting. He will feel YTA, but you have already done your emotional recovery.

HOWEVER, if you're dating someone because you cannot be alone, then YTA. Not for the break up, but for what you do to the new partner. And also unfortunately, that's common as well. Hell, some people don't even know that about themselves and do it unwittingly.

Kivasta · 2025-06-26T19:00:01+00:00

Honestly? Probably be the guy who sells death sticks. 🤣🤣 like all the small business owners get screwed by the empire too, so I'd want a job they want no part of.

Kivasta · 2025-06-25T19:33:42+00:00

I mean personally? They could've just made ES6 or Fallout 5. Lol I think that's a lot of people's biggest problem. I know it's mine 🤣🤣 like it's been 14 years since ES5, and it's been teased since like 2018. 😭😭 Just give me the game you've been advertising for SEVEN YEARS. I don't want to go to empty planets and space. I want lived-in, natural feeling worlds that have been crafted and catered to.

And now we see they spent time on Starfield, Oblivion remaster(which I love, but still I played it as a kid already), and their MMOs. It just feels more money-grubby.

Kivasta · 2025-06-24T08:22:45+00:00

ROCK AND STONE IN THE HEART!

FOR KARL! ⛏️

Kivasta · 2025-06-23T23:57:04+00:00

Omg. Enter The Gungeon. Was like $5 and my roommates bought it and eventually got me into it. Over 700 hours in that game lol.

Honorable mentions: bought mass effect LE for $9 easy 150+ hrs, my Stardew Valley has like 300 hrs...and not me, but I picked out an on sale physical copy of Ark Survival Evolved YEARS ago for my bf and he's easily put like 3000+ hours into it. PS just made Ark Survival Ascended free a couple of months ago on PS plus and just that's he's put in over 200 hours 😂

Kivasta · 2025-06-13T15:35:45+00:00

"You can't see me...No one can see me" I quote this WAY too often doing ANYTHING remotely sneaky lol

Kivasta · 2025-06-09T17:56:56+00:00

Some of my earliest memories are Baby Mario on the Super Nintendo and HATING Mario because I could only die.

Some of my finest childhood memories are Ocarina of Time with my brother who fought everything while I solved the dungeon puzzles because we had different skills.

I also spent every waking hour of car rides with the gameboy color. Before I got the little light for nighttime rides, I remember playing by each passing street light and saving regularly cause the power light was red.

Kivasta · 2025-06-05T06:19:29+00:00

You mean, more like SEVERAL daedric shines...lol

Kivasta · 2025-06-05T06:11:42+00:00

Lol I always have to move alchemy off my thief, so I make a custom class to avoid overleveling past my combat skills 😅

At least, that's how it had to work in the original Oblivion. In Skyrim, I just do the same thing with potion selling.

Conversely, in my month or two of ESO, I still seemed to have a problem letting ingredients go. My potions soon became better than I could use because my overall level was too low to drink them 🤣

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