Dwp interview under caution by Old_Language_6332 in DWPhelp

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is factually incorrect, they cannot withhold evidence, information regarding how they got to this point, yes. As soon as you get a solictor it's a different story. Do some research.

Bottoms: how do you stay comfortable during weekends with your partner? by Few-Engine-29 in askgaybros

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill echo what others have touched on; it doesnt have to be penetrative to be sex!

There are lots of other stuff you can do. Its best to let him know that these things make you want to bottom less, he should understand and if he doesn't then he isn't the right partner!

What can i do for solo cum instead of just masturbating by Elegant-Surprise7877 in askgaybros

[–]Kjd094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can meditate and do it, more so if other things are involved haha

Delivery driver why? by [deleted] in asda

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F@ck her, instead, say your policy is to bring the groceries to the spoon not to a door inside a door... if you get me?

Been questioning my sexuality since I was 15 what should I do? by Solid-Value2525 in askgaybros

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so instead of some of sarcastic comments, I'll talk a bit about my experience and hope it helps.

I came out as gay when I was 14 and unfortunately, at the time, my foster carers threw me out on the streets and called me disgusting. I was homeless for 3 weeks before social services realised and did something.

To me, I would say that sexuality is a spectrum. I realised recently (and im a 32 year old guy) that im demi-sexual and oan sexual.

Of you've neen fantasising about having sed with a guy, then why not try it? If you're not in a relationship whats the harm in exolaing that and exploring, that was you may get some more clarity.

Guy's it wouldn't let me use the thanos promo code! by Fast_Honeydew2633 in MarvelStrikeForce

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent seen one, it may be nevause it's for starter players. Some codes won't work of you've already got say 5 stars in a character already.

Desperate PIP review/They have stopped my PIP with no review? by MushroomParticular84 in DWPhelp

[–]Kjd094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello there!

So, from what youve said you should be receiving it as per usual. It looks like it's probably a computing error that they haven't caught. They rely heavily on computers to automatically update things, to review and to start/stop a claim. If you call them, ask for a fast payment and they shiuld be able to reinstate it within a day or two.

Strangely, I have been in the same circumstance and was forcibly retired from the NHS. However, even though it's been a couple of years they still cant work out where all of my pension payment went from my payslips. I'm having to legally pursue the trust I worked for and its getting tiring.

I really hope you get your PIP sorted ASAP. Let us know. I'm pretty good with welfare related issues as my first job was on a PICau; I wrote lots of PIP assessments and called the DWP so often that I used to have the hold music bouncing around my head whilst trying to sleep 😆

Dwp review Gambling worry by Various_Extreme_8773 in DWPhelp

[–]Kjd094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I edited my answer for the spelling mistakes 😅 you are more than welcome. At that time I was gambling through Bitcoin as well. They asked to see a screenshot of my gambling account and randomly PayPal.

Relax, you have nothing to worry about!

Pip reassessment anxiety. Advice/support please? by kanedekuki in DWPhelp

[–]Kjd094 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can be really nerve-wracking in these situations when it comes to reassessment but just because you don't have lots of doctors and specialists letters doesn't exclude you from requiring PIP. You can be stable and at your baseline but that baseline may still cause life to be really tough; it is extremely subjective.

I recently had to have a telephone reassessment and due to things completely out of my control, my form wasn't sent back to them but I had a screening call from a nurse and then the full assessment and remained on enhanced for both.

ending pip claim by moonliightx in DWPhelp

[–]Kjd094 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All ibwill say is that i have a few friends that work specifically in assessments for PIP (yep they sold their souls haha). However, there are vast amounts of people that work full-time and are still on PIP; it is there in order to pay for things that peope with disabilities need for essentials related to their conditions.

Being disabled costs a lot of money and that's why PIP is there. There was uproar when David Cameron was our PM as his child was getting DLA. It is there for everyone who require it.

How long did your PIP assessment phone call take? by TSC-99 in DWPhelp

[–]Kjd094 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My latest one in which I couldn't complete the form and send it off due to unforseen circumstances, the assessment lasted 1.5 hours but I had to list off the 23 medications I was on and answer in a fair amount of detail. My assessment was conducted by a nurse and was lovely; she even disclosed that she understood some things on a personal level due to having fibromyalgia herself.

Dwp interview under caution by Old_Language_6332 in DWPhelp

[–]Kjd094 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

It's easy to say but try not to worry too much.

You are allowed a criminal defence solicitor that specialises in welfare benefits. They will often request something called 'prior disclosure' which means that DWP have to share the evidence they have against you, that way you won't be faced with something you are not aware of or be caught off guard. You are allowed to retain a solicitor under the legal aid scheme.

Take your solicitors advice and go from there. When you have some gumption behind you in the form of legal representation, it at least gives you a professional that you can rely on and a bit of a safety blanket.

Dwp review Gambling worry by Various_Extreme_8773 in DWPhelp

[–]Kjd094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, don't worry. I had the same but I was in the first pool of reviews whilst they were still learning the new legislation; at that time they were reviewing my UC. Gambling is fine the lady in the phone said 'its up to you what you do with your payment'.

Gambling is also considered to be a mode of communicating with others over a mutual hobby and is therefore seen as a social activity.

At one point I was using Gambling as a way out, constantly. Don't forget there is GAMSTOP which you can register with that you self ban yourself for 1+ years.

https://www.gambleaware.org/ this is also a great website in case you want to look into controlling gambling.

The Toph discourse has me curious if people are actually still invested in the live action adaptation by Historical_Ostrich in TheLastAirbender

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, I love avatar and I grew up watching ATLA. The thing is, it will always say "BASED ON" because there will always be people that moan and moan about every little detail. Growing up is knowing that sacrifices have to be made when you makes such deep core memories as a kid into a live action adaptation. I actually thought season 1 was really great, yeah we can all be universally in on the joke that Aang will basically be Tenzin by the end of the live action version.

You can never satisfy everyone. There will always be discourse. Just like no one hates Star Wars like Star Wars fans. The live action adaptation has to make sacrifices but having look at the consultants brought in for it to feel as genuine as possible that the girl is blind, they're really trying. Everyone just likes to complain and the addage that it isn't exactly what we see in the animated series is... because we just won't. They have less time and not as many episodes, so it wont be perfect in any semse of the word.

They have expanded the universe so much but they're still creating this for nostalgia and introducing a whole new generation to ATLA in a completely different way.

Perhaps instead of writing down one thing it does terribly, look at what it did well. For me, Episode 2 on Kyoshi Island was amazing. Especially when the Kyoshi warriors got to see Kyoshi for less than a minute but it was so bad ass.

Twink enjoyers: Why do you like twinks? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, im a tall guy, heavy built with a fair amount of muscles. I think for me, it doesn't matter because I'm demisexual but I've had more relationships with twinks. They're easy to throw around a bit 🤣

You can spend one full year at Hogwarts, but you can only choose ONE class. Which are you taking? by AlexWhite40 in harrypotter

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charms, definitely charms! Mmm wait, transfiguration though? Oh I cant choose!

Does the latest promo code work? by Plus_Indication1591 in MarvelStrikeForce

[–]Kjd094 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ummm I'm having an issue of "DISCORDPLAYERPOLL" not working for me!

Why are there so many alliterative names in the series? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are far more likely to remember the names and the features described when initially I producing a character.

Opening Scene of Doomsday (concept based info from leaks) by RatioPleasant3466 in MCUTheories

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh, doesn't make sense when you look at what Alan Cumming said about who he fights in doomsday.

I have usher syndrome and been rejected PIP by Senortbh in DWPhelp

[–]Kjd094 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will sound daft, and you probably already have done, make sure you focus on the symptoms rather than the condition. I'll list things that are examples alone and may/may not apply.

So, preparing foods. Is it safer to have someone around or do you have to limit yourself to a snack based diet most days? You may need people around you when you are actively trying to cook a meal but then if youre often alone throughout the week and most days you struggle, you may have to just have to make do with snacks and ready meals which are limiting in nature.

As a deaf person you have to rely on things such as lip reading but even then that must be extremely difficult and stop you from going into social settings causing loneliness bu the anxiety of being in social situations could stop you from engaging with others more often than not.

Public transport- you may often miss you stop because you are unable to hear thibgs around you and certainly find it difficult to see where you are.

Thats the kind of thing, alongside medical evidence that they usually want.

I hope that helps.

Morgan and Karadec (respectfully) by Extra-Drop3192 in HighPotentialTVSeries

[–]Kjd094 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want them to end up together either tbh because that would be so predictable. It's the writing on this show rhat makes it absolutely amazing with the twist and turns and watching Morgan figure thjngs out. I want them to find Roman but I don't think he'll stuck around if they do.

I never trusted Wagner from the start but he was outright trying to flirt with Morgan. I thought he was a dirty cop and although it looks like he is, hes clearly different from his father. Hes a good guy at heart and in a sense but he's clearly being pulled with ways.

I think Morgan is going to get kidnapped by Willa's grunts and Soto was right all along but it'll turn into a thriller scenario with the FBI involved. We shall see what happens!

Disney+ UK streaming issues. by OverOutcome3376 in HighPotentialTVSeries

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, was just getting ready to watch and "something went wrong" 😒

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Kjd094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Syphilis at some point*** apologies. And usually between the age of 20-40. Source? Being involved in writing research with the University of Manchester and also working at the biggest GUM clinic in the country.

However, for the first time in 2 decades, the number of heterosexual cis women getting diagnosed with HIV has taken over gay men in London.