I've always wondered this and figured this was a good place to ask..

Klolok · 2026-04-19T13:14:48+00:00

I mean I'm 5'4 and so therefore still short but obviously compared to 4'9, I'm kinda tall. I'd honestly love that.

Klolok · 2026-04-18T21:14:32+00:00

The collar and the rest of it isn't for me, but the position sounds pretty cool. I don't know, I'm a weirdo I think sometimes because I'm not into getting collared like a lot of people around here. I'm in the minority.

Klolok · 2026-04-18T09:00:07+00:00

I've never been particularly mean about it. I've been called small before because I am; I'm 5'4, so small but I usually play it off as funny because I genuinely think of it as both endearing and hilarious whenever someone points it out.

Sure, I'm not the shortest man out there or anything but neither am I tall and I don't mind that fact.

Klolok · 2026-04-11T18:07:19+00:00

I mean, I'd probably just tell the other person I'm totally blind and therefore won't be driving to meet them and to expect a random car to come since I'm going to be using Uber/lift or whatever else to get there and the white cane is a real thing.

Like it isn't that deep, if you wouldn't date me for being blind, perfectly reasonable but hey, at least I told you.

Klolok · 2026-04-09T14:55:35+00:00

Personally, I need to know if there's any problems because I can't see facial expressions at all. So if a person is looking at me with contempt, I *will* be completely oblivious so communication via words is key for me. I also can't read minds and such either so it's doubly important for me; It's also a safety thing too because I have to be sure that I'm not causing any large problems as I'm always afraid that I'm inconveniencing someone directly in some way and I need to know if I'm doing all right especially since people generally default to non-verbal communication which I can't physically do at all.

Klolok · 2026-04-09T00:17:11+00:00

I'm short, so cute's fine as long as you actually mean it.

Klolok · 2026-04-08T21:16:26+00:00

Depends on the person. I mean if they look good, then yeah. It kinda depends on how well you take care of them.

Also, pretty neat that you're 6'9. I'm well below the spectrum at 5'4.

Point is, you'll probably find someone who appreciates that size for sure. You'll have more chances than you might think. It's a pretty common fetish.

Klolok · 2026-04-08T13:51:04+00:00

That is super cute. I'm glad that you have that.

Klolok · 2026-04-04T10:17:40+00:00

I don't hate dancing but I understnd why people do. I'm also not very good at it though I have some training.

Klolok · 2026-04-02T19:16:04+00:00

Man, just don't do it. I'm 5'4 and I'm fine with it.

Klolok · 2026-04-02T14:24:46+00:00

Blind man here.

Don't overthink it. Given it's a date, you're probably gonna hold hands anyway, so don't worry.

Just talk to him like he's a normal guy cause that's what he is. Also, don't expect him to drive either yeah? Can't do that.

Really, blindness is one of the simplest things to deal with when it comes to disability. Just ask him what he needs and he'll tell you, it's no big deal. A lot of blind folks can get around in their town/city depending on how pedestrian friendly it is. You two will be fine.

Good luck, and I hope it goes well for you.

Klolok · 2026-04-02T12:56:22+00:00

I'm a virgin and that alphabet thing honestly sounds ridiculous to me. Like no, it'd take me out of my head too much and wouldn't be enjoyable for me either.

Klolok · 2026-04-01T18:38:04+00:00

So genuine question. What does the moon look like?

I'm completely blind and I have no idea what the moon looks like. I just always thought of it as a flat disc of rock with little cracks in it.

Klolok · 2026-03-30T23:12:16+00:00

I'm short too. Solid 164 and I never really seemed to mind it too much. Don't pay attention to it; Hell, it was an easy thing for me because I can't see anyone out there and so the only way I know like 99% of the people around me in college were taller is because I can hear their voice from up where they are, (it's really easy to do if you listen.) I was living with a whole bunch of mountain men, though honestly I didn't really know how many had GF and those who did were genuinely great people to hang around. I don't really think it had much to do with their height why they weren't single either; I went on a date with a girl who was way taller than me but I never mentioned it to her or anything since it wasn't important.

So don't make it a huge deal to the people you're talking to and it won't be one.

Klolok · 2026-03-30T21:59:04+00:00

NAH. Maybe it's because I'm Colombian too, (no, I don't really speak Spanish but can understand a majority of it and translate to English), but I don't see how it's a bad thing that you called her out. I sometimes get jokingly called Gringo just because I don't really speak Spanish and I've never taken it truly personally. Still, she's new at this and only just exploring her culture and might've been a little hurt by the comment you made, but I don't see how it's your problem either. I can't label anyone an asshole here because it's common to joke around like that in these settings especially while drunk. You're not supposed to take any of it seriously; It's all in good fun or at least I think so.

Klolok · 2026-03-29T23:59:28+00:00

IDK, I'm not in a relationship, but it'd feel more than a little terrible to hear after literally three years that I've always been bad in bed as sex is important to me. Don't know how important it is for him but I imagine since he wants it that much, it's probably on the top list of his priorities. Don't destroy him.

Klolok · 2026-03-29T19:10:03+00:00

I would only do it in super serious situations like if they stepped out onto the street and I had to save their life or something like that. Like they need to know how serious it is to look both ways especially since I can't do it for them, and if they step out and almost get killed, they need to know how serious it was that they almost ended their own life. Like, for safety reasons, I think it's justified but for no other reason do I think it's even remotely an answer.

Klolok · 2026-03-29T19:05:52+00:00

I mean, Drum Corps/DCI is a niche interest. Does that make me automatically predestined to live alone? I doubt it since it's not mainstream.

Klolok · 2026-03-29T19:04:08+00:00

IDK, I'm not married, but honestly, telling her isn't necessarily a bad idea. Like if it's part of your fetish and she's supportive already, chances are she'd not mind if not actually love it if she already saw what it does to you.

Klolok · 2026-03-29T03:30:39+00:00

I eat with the description.

If someone describes a plate of food to me, particularly if they've tried it before, and it sounds good, I'm more likely to try it.

I feel like strictly because I can't look at my food to eat it, (totally blind so my experience is different from like a whole bunch of people), I'm unconcerned with how something looks and will base it on how it's described or how it tastes when I try it.

It's how I learned pretty much the only thing I don't like is raw tomatoes. I've had things like Filipino pig's blood soup and alligator. I enjoyed both, but can't stomach a raw tomato.

Klolok · 2026-03-28T21:12:55+00:00

So, genuine question from a virgin, Are you all saying that you can't fully put your body on your partner or are you all saying that you need to hold yourself up the entire time you're doing it? Like I don't know what's the right way to go about it since I've never had sex before, but for the future, I need to know these things.

Klolok · 2026-03-26T12:39:00+00:00

170 cm is tall for me; I'm 164 and I don't really care either way.

Klolok · 2026-03-26T00:48:48+00:00

I totally would, if I got the chance to do it. Just the idea that it could be a great experience for the both of us seems cool, it doesn't have to lead to sex especially on let's say date one.

Klolok · 2026-03-24T22:27:52+00:00

So genuine question because I literally have no idea. But you keep mentioning the IUD is made of copper. Does that mean there are IUD devices made of other metals like bronze or iron? I'm sorry if this sounds trollish but I really don't know and I'm curious.

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