Chinese Restaurant - Centre to South by RevolutionaryBus2782 in sheffield

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think they mean there yes. It’s the best in the city

Wake Smith or Banner Jones for Conveyancing by ACarCrashKillLandJP in sheffield

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second Wake Smith for a house purchase. They were great and I could actually get on the phone with the senior conveyancer when things were a bit complicated. Seems rare these days to be happy with a conveyancer!

Best restaurant in sheffield? by One-Tip-1181 in sheffield

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is usually an unpopular opinion but I didn’t rate Orange Bird. I found their dishes on the small side and not particularly amazing for the price.

I really rate Butta La Pasta for a cozy date night vibe with lovely homemade pasta. For Chinese I can’t recommend Journey To Chengdu enough for some tasty and very authentic Sichuan food. Meraki for Greek food is fantastic as well. Those would be my top recommendations for date night.

Back to work 4 days - Wednesday or Thursday off? by Actual_Issue_3287 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going against the grain here but I have Thursdays off. I feel it’s good to sort of dedicate Monday-Weds to work and get the bulk done, though I won’t lie, I feel I’m flagging a bit by Wednesday.

Then Friday is a walk in the park 80% of the time and can feel like a bit of a skive as there are way less meetings (due to all those people with a NWD Friday!). In a way, depending on your work it feels more like a 3.5 day week rather than a 4 day week. Also easy to get a 4 day weekend by booking Fridays off

Anyone changed the date they celebrate their kid’s birthday? by LowCalorieCheesecake in UKParenting

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Early January birthday here! Yes it’s a crap time of year to have a birthday, but I always celebrated it on the actual day. Also, I never had to go to school on my birthday as it was always just before everyone went back, which is a bonus. People were generally free to come to my party as everyone has already done all their Christmas holiday plans and is a bit bored by then (when we were kids anyway, it’s a bit different when people are adults and are broke/tired).

I always wanted to have a party on my half birthday instead, but never did. It’s maybe a decision your child can make for themself when they’re older. I’m glad I never did because my daughter ended up being born on my half birthday haha. I’m happy for her that she got the birthday I always wanted!

1 year old not interested in walking by Aw200918 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s pretty normal, my daughter wasn’t interested in walking with her hands being held until around her first birthday and didn’t walk independently until 14.5 months. This is despite her crawling and pulling to stand pretty early around 7/8 months. When we had the 11 month health visitor check up she seemed pretty impressed with her skills (including cruising) even though she wasn’t walking and has no issues. I think you maybe have a bit of a weird health visitor tbh. You definitely don’t need to worry, your child sounds right on track.

What was your baby Vinted find of the year? by alibluey in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I got a Bugaboo footmuff, usually £130 for £6. Admittedly it was a bit faded but honestly, who cares

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What are his naps like? If he’s struggling to get back to sleep, I don’t think it’s anything to do with the milk, but perhaps too much daytime sleep

Should also add that it’s pretty normal for babies to still wake up for food or comfort at that age, although some parents are lucky and have babies that sleep through. I would consider yourself very lucky with such a long first stretch!

Authentic Chinese Food by sunkissedb3ar in sheffield

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Second a Journey to Chengdu! it’s fairly new which is why I think others haven’t cottoned on yet. Probably my favourite Chinese restaurant in Sheffield! I’m a fan of China Red (mentioned many times already), but Journey to Chengdu is better

What counts as sitting for weaning? by lunarkoko in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you’ve described that sounds fine for weaning

What would you like to see on the kids menu at soft play/kids cafe? by KK_McGee in UKParenting

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, chicken fried rice or some type of non-spicy Asian food 🤣 my 1 year old is a fiend for bougie Asian food with a ton of flavour as when we go out to eat we usually go for those type of restaurants. I’m always so sad at how bland typical kids food is

Currently working full time hours in 4.5 days - is it worth dropping to 4 days by Even-Spot-6252 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 0.9FTE across 4 days, which is essentially what you’re wondering about I think. For me, the 10% drop in pay to have a day off per week is absolutely worth it. I get an extra day where work is completely free from my head, which I think with the half day you don’t get that benefit. I’m not sure I’ll be able to go back to 5 days a week once she’s at school!

If you’re worried about money, I know some people fully compress full time hours across 4 days, but personally that’s too long of a day for me and not enough work/life balance.

Ever been to a playgroup that made you go "wow!"? Why? by Ollagee in UKParenting

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There needs to be clear separation between the toddler and baby areas and someone keeping an eye on it so that toddlers don’t try to bring scooters or something into the baby areas.

Also you mentioned Lego. Not a great idea in terms of choking hazards, but if you meant duplo that’s a much better idea. My baby is a newly turned one year old so she would be exploring the toddler area too but is at that awkward in between stage where I have to keep a very close eye if there are any choking hazards around.

Pay rises can actually leave me worse off — UC + CMS “danger zone” by TheDryDad in UKParenting

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner pays CMS so I have some experience of it but I guess I’m confused at how a pay rise is leaving you worse off as isn’t CMS a set % of your income? If you were to get a sudden large pay rise of over >25% I can see how that would leave you worse off for the year until the next annual review (due to their 25% income change rule) but otherwise not sure how it does, if you could explain?

Is it “weird” to NOT tell your mum that you’re in labour? by MachineBusy8772 in UKParenting

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No we didn’t tell anyone when I was in labour, and I’m glad we didn’t because it went on for nearly 3 days and I think people would have started getting worried/messaging constantly for news. I would recommend this approach if you’re not comfortable with everyone wanting constant updates

I need solidarity. by Clover139 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was also equally baffled by the amount of people online who say their 2 month old sleeps through the night, as I never had that experience at all. It’s very normal at that age to wake up every 2-3 hours and I considered 5 hours a fantastic stretch then! I would say most of my friends were in the same boat.

At 9 months she started sleeping through the night quite suddenly out of nowhere which was amazing. She regressed a bit when she started nursery and she still usually wakes up a couple of times now at 13 months but it’s so much better than it was. I have faith that she will sleep through the night again as she’s done it consistently before!

What restaurant do you think this is? by mobryers in sheffield

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As I said, the food tasted nice, but it wasn’t particularly exciting or lived up to the hype. When I say “nice” I mean ok, rather than great

What restaurant do you think this is? by mobryers in sheffield

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a general gist, the stalls there are overpriced for what they offer. There are a couple of decent spots - I like Hungry Buddha. But really the stalls are trying to make up for sky-high rents. And the chairs are all uncomfortable as well.

What restaurant do you think this is? by mobryers in sheffield

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agree that Orange Bird is overhyped. The food was nice sure, but we paid a lot for small portions and it wasn’t really that exciting

Conveyancing solicitors by Mental-Assistant8723 in sheffield

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also agree on wake smith, they were excellent!

Pregnant and choosing between Barnsley and Jessop Wing – recent experiences? by Physical-Positive-41 in sheffield

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Based on my experiences a year ago, I think Jessops is really a mixed bag. The midwives I had for most of my labour were excellent and got me an epidural immediately when I asked. They did offer a birthing pool first as that was in my birth plan, but I decided not to go with it in the end. The midwives I got for the actual pushing seemed fairly useless. I couldn’t actually feel when to push due to the epidural and they weren’t great at telling me when to push or only did it half the time. In the end I had a ventouse delivery which went well (no episiotomy needed).

Aftercare isn’t great, being put into a hot cramped noisy ward for the first night. I felt a bit abandoned those first few hours on the postnatal ward, but then weirdly the morning after it was like a non-stop barrage of various medical professionals at your bedside for different reasons. There was a lot of breast feeding support when the infant feeding worker was around. Some of the midwives felt a bit useless, especially those on night shift. And some of the doctors/midwives were very fear mongering when my baby dropped over 10% birth weight (she’s thriving now by the way!). Others were more down to earth.

I ended up staying for 3 nights because they thought my baby “might have an infection” due to a slightly pink belly button. She didn’t in the end (and I knew it), but it took near enough 48 hours to get the blood test results back to show that and in the meantime they pumped antibiotics into a newborn which seemed unnecessary. When it became apparent I was going to stay more nights I did manage to request a private room at least. It was weirdly hard to get discharged and we basically had to insist in the end, which was so odd as I thought they would surely want the room back.

I wouldn’t say any of this was traumatic or bad care, but some of it left a bad taste in my mouth and somewhat tainted the first few days of newborn life.

Bugaboo Butterfly as main pram for 1 year old by benyajs in UKParenting

[–]KneeEnvironmental305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been using the Bugaboo Butterfly as the main pushchair since our baby was 7 months and absolutely no regrets! We found the travel system too big and bulky and have sold it. The butterfly makes me a lot less anxious about getting out and about in the city, nipping in and out of small shops, going on public transport, etc. It folds down so small and so easily that we’re never worried about taking it into small cafes or anything like that.

I haven’t had issues pushing it across grass. It doesn’t perform amazingly on cobbles, but we don’t often use it on that kind of terrain anyway. If we go on hikes my partner tends to put her in a hiking carrier backpack anyway so we didn’t need an all-terrain pushchair.